First of all, you should set an example and be a patient parent. The growth of children is a step-by-step process, but in real life, many parents are eager to achieve success, and even make some actions that are not conducive to the healthy growth of children. Parents' impatient behavior will leave a bad impression on their children. Parents who always show impatience and impatience in front of their children often cultivate an impatient child. There are many things in life that children can solve by themselves, such as learning to eat, dress and tie their shoes. Parents should not always urge their children to do it quickly, but should allow him to slow down and believe that he can do it well. In the process of solving problems independently, children's patience is also exercised.
As a role model for children, even if you are impatient, how can you educate your children? There will be many problems in the growth of children. When they encounter difficulties or make mistakes, what parents should do is not to blame their children blindly, but to treat their children patiently, help them analyze problems, find out the root causes of mistakes, face them together and correct them together. Only in this way can children grow up happily in a good environment and become an independent and responsible person when they grow up.
Anxious mothers, please remember that Rome was not built in a day. Want children to be more patient, not only need to adjust their patience, but also need to consciously train children.
If your child is always eager to get something, such as watching cartoons, eating the cake he just bought home or telling you another story, parents can try to postpone meeting some of their children's requirements. You can tell him that he can get it, but it will take some time. Give your child time to experience and compare, and let him know what it's like to wait. During this time, children can sing a short song, or count from 1 to 10. In this way, children can gradually understand that "waiting" is only a short period of time. As long as they are patient, many things can be achieved.
If your child is always eager to get something, such as watching cartoons, eating the cake he just bought home or telling you another story, parents can try to postpone meeting some of their children's requirements. You can tell him that he can get it, but it will take some time. Give your child time to experience and compare, and let him know what it's like to wait. During this time, children can sing a short song, or count from 1 to 10. In this way, children can gradually understand that "waiting" is only a short period of time. As long as they are patient, many things can be achieved.
Simple oral education has little effect on children. For children with rapid IQ development, it is a good choice to start with the games he is interested in, such as building blocks, and start training from the simplest modeling. When a child is in trouble, don't reach out to help him finish it. You can analyze the steps of building with your child and encourage him to complete it himself. This will not only train the child's patience, but also help him concentrate. Of course, at the beginning of training, children will inevitably lose their temper because of minor difficulties and want to give up halfway. Parents should give more encouragement and praise, so that children have the confidence to persist.
Reading is also a good training method for children who have just started reading. At first, there is no need to force children to read many articles at once. Too many reading tasks will make children lose patience from the beginning. It's best to start with an article, and then stack it slowly to cultivate children's patience in reading slowly and gradually let them understand the truth.
Children's patience and personality are closely related to their parents. Every child's psychological development process is also different, and parents need to carefully observe whether they have patience. Parents should not only cultivate their children's patience, but also give them more patience to accompany and educate their children and give them more encouragement and appreciation. As long as our parents have patience and confidence and work hard to create a good environment for their children, then their children will grow up healthily and happily.