How to carry out family education, Master Daan recommended: To educate this child, everyone should be equal. Even the children of domestic servants are not allowed to beat and scold, and they should not be treated with dignity and equality. Teach him to respect his elders, and everyone who is taller than himself should respect him. Then humble and self-grazing. Humble is humility, and grazing is to knock down that arrogant heart, just like herding cattle. Put a halter and reins on this nose, or the bison will run around. So one must be modest and humble. This modest hexagram means that there is a root under it and a Kun on it. The image of the mountain underground, the mountain itself is very high, but it is underground, which is a modest image. Therefore, modest people are very introverted, but rich in connotation, respect everyone and accommodate everything. Therefore, in the Book of Changes, there may be an extreme contradiction in each of the sixty-four hexagrams, and only modest hexagrams are auspicious. Modest gentleman, the more modest, the better. Therefore, we should teach children humility, follow the principle that suffering is a blessing, and don't lose anything. Now many parents are educating, don't be beaten, don't run behind when eating, and don't suffer. So it makes children very powerful, self-centered and greedy. Mothers should educate their children to be modest, serve others, lose is a blessing, give all the benefits to others and keep all the disadvantages to themselves. Teaching in this way is what the saints taught us. If we do this, this child will become a pillar of the future. People who always take advantage and can't eat a little loss can't become talents. At the same time, we must respect and cherish the paper with words, and we must respect and cherish the paper with words and not destroy it. Therefore, the child should teach him to collect the paper with words on it, put it in one place, and then dispose of it-that is, burn it, burn it, and sink the ash into the river. Modern people seem to think it is pedantic, but in fact it makes sense here. As the ancients said, words are the most precious. This word is a treasure of the world, more valuable than gold and silver, and it conveys the ancient books of sage education. Without words, without this symbol, our culture cannot be passed down, and it is difficult for our human civilization to progress. Especially the traditional Chinese characters and classical Chinese are very good, and China's traditional Chinese characters have the information of intelligent interpretation. You can develop wisdom, learn moral rules and abide by social rules by studying China's words. In the process of learning Chinese characters, you are cultivating your own personality and our aesthetic consciousness. In recent years, we have reformed and simplified our writing. In fact, we have to reflect on this process. If we have long established that this word-especially traditional Chinese characters-is the most precious concept and has its sacredness, it is an earth-shattering event to create words in Cangjie. We have respect for the sacredness of words, so we dare not make a fuss about this word. So now there is a voice that wants to restore traditional Chinese characters. Fortunately, Hong Kong and Taiwan Province still maintain traditional Chinese characters. Therefore, we who study Buddhism should learn some traditional Chinese characters and get used to reading the vertical version of traditional Chinese characters. Only after reading that version will you know what the happiness of reading is, and you won't feel anything when reading simplified words horizontally. We should respect and cherish this paper. Cherish whole grains, which is a gift from heaven. We should cherish it, not spoil it or waste it. There are clothes, not necessarily the pursuit of famous brands, clothes are used to keep out the cold. Children should let him know how to cherish all kinds of personal belongings, and should not let him have the concept of luxury. Even if your family is hundreds of millions, it is good for him to live a simple and simple life with low consumption. Cherish insects and ants. Love this ant and insect, but don't hurt it, and cultivate children's kindness. Now, sometimes we feel sad when we see those advertisements, saying that some insects are nutritious for children to eat and they are eaten alive. What kind of conduction are you? Aren't you cultivating children's cruelty? If a child loves to eat insects and ants, how can he be willing to kill people? How did you become Yao Jiaxin? Now in Germany, they are also reflecting on World War II and the cruelty of fascism to mankind. So now families in Germany are advocating a kind education, so that children can have a pet and let them love it. For vagrants, invite vagrants to eat and drink at home, enjoy and care for all kinds of animals and the environment. They advocate this kind of kind education. So our parents in China, this is actually a tradition. Beggars must give something when they come to the door, and often parents will let their children give it. If he does more, he will have the mentality of giving. If a beggar comes out, this person is too dirty, this person should drive away quickly, and so on. If your behavior comes out, then the child will be affected by it, and he will have no kindness. A person without kindness will eventually bring disaster to the country and people, even if he has a doctorate or postdoctoral degree. He must have a moral foundation. Then ask the children not to eat snacks. It makes more sense now. In traditional society, national morality may be better, and snacks will not be a big problem. Nowadays, snacks, various additives and all kinds of harm are too great, so children should try not to eat them. You see, some children are chubby now. He eats these snacks, KFC and instant noodles. So, although he is fat, he is not strong. Let him run a few miles, panting, and climb some mountains that he can't climb. If there is a real fight, can we still count on him? Coupled with selfishness, it is very troublesome to turn around and run as soon as you hear the gunshots. These Indian ancestors were kindly educated. If parents can educate their children in this way, then children will definitely decide to be a good person when they grow up.