When I become a parent, I will feel how to let my children learn to express themselves. So will my own parents. As a child, I didn't realize the warmth, and I was worried and scared every day. My parents' words always hurt me, but can you say that they don't love me? They will read the book, so that we can continue.
Borrowing money from far away places will send clothes to school in very cold winter, but there is no language to express the meaning of love. I grew up in denial, so when I become a parent, I will feel how happy it is to let my children learn to express and know how to love and be loved.
The baby was conceived by the mother 10 and gave birth once. Only mothers know the hardships during the period, and few mothers don't love their children. If a mother doesn't love her children, it has a lot to do with her life and personality.
A mother who is tired of her married life and hates her husband's own marriage should be a failure. She is very dissatisfied with her husband and often quarrels or divorces. She even regards her husband as an enemy, saying that she loves me, dogs and someone, so everything related to him is easy to be hated together.
Such mothers are hostile to their husbands, so their children are easy to suffer, so now many mothers ignore their children and live their own lives after divorce.
Strong, selfish, impatient, and a mother is very strong with her children, and the children must listen to her. If the child resists, she will fly into a rage. When the child can't meet her requirements, she scolds, accuses and is mean, and doesn't care about the child's feelings at all.
Just like Xia Junshan's mother, she often scolds, accuses and complains about Xia Junshan. When children are young, they dare not resist. He will listen to his mother's arrangement, but when he is old and has his own ideas, he will not be disciplined by his mother again. Such a family full of complaints and complaints is what many children want to escape.
When they grow up and can make their own choices, they will leave home and escape from such an unhappy family. For children who escape, such mothers will be chilling, feel that they have worked so hard, but they have not got the reward they deserve, and will complain. I don't want to take care of the children anymore. Over time, we can identify with each other.
Ma Xia once loved Xia Junshan, but Xia Junshan, who left her hometown, made her feel unreliable, so she simply didn't depend on anyone. All feelings in the world need to be managed with care, no matter how close the mother-child relationship is.