0 1 seed of love, and then completely infatuated with him.
Women tend to indulge in seemingly beautiful love.
There is a security guard in our community, named Xiao Bin. He usually likes to play cards and chat in the neighborhood mahjong hall. Neighbors also gradually understand that there are many "extraordinary" experiences behind this ordinary man!
He comes from a rural family in a remote mountainous area of Hunan. He has a sister. After graduating from junior high school, two brothers and sisters came to Changsha to work. My sister has a strong business ability, but my brother is not motivated and his income is not high.
Perhaps, the income is not enough, and the value comes together.
Xiao Bin, with heavy eyebrows and big eyes, has a higher face value than income. In fact, he is a person who can't help being lonely. With his skillful skills of picking up girls, he wrote a rich love story!
A few years ago, he successfully caught up with Xiaoyan, a simple girl from the countryside. Xiaoyan works as a cashier in a small supermarket and her income is not high.
The same family background and social class may also be the reason why they are together.
When a girl enters the society and has never been in love, once Xiao Bin gives her a few sweet words, she will be extremely intoxicated.
In this case, Xiaoyan clearly knows that Xiao Bin has a family, but she is hopelessly in love with this extremely poor married man.
It didn't take long for them to live together in a rented house of 10 square meters (actually a small mixed house), and the rent was 200 yuan. Even in a small space, Xiaoyan doesn't dislike it at all, and enjoys your relative small life.
She never imagined that the seemingly beautiful time completely changed her and destroyed her.
Pregnant before marriage, one step is wrong.
Sometimes, you think it is love; In fact, it is just wishful self-sacrifice.
Many people remind Xiaoyan that they are living together illegally, and the other party has a home and a house, which is really not worth it.
Falling in love, she paid no attention to what others said and followed Xiao Bin wholeheartedly.
Of course, Xiao Bin is also quite persuasive: my wife and I are just matchmakers' words, not free love. We have been apart for two years, and we haven't had feelings for a long time. I can divorce her at any time as long as you are willing to marry me!
As the saying goes, people's mouths are deceptive ghosts. However, the simple Xiaoyan is still convinced.
At that time, she only had one thought, that is, she loved him and she wanted to marry him!
Even though she was criticized by thousands of people, she felt that she was backed by aboveboard love.
She thinks: Xu Guangping is to Lu Xun, Zhang Ailing is to Hu Lancheng, and Qiong Yao is to Ping. Don't they all fall in love with married men and get involved with other people's families? I am right to make the person I love happy!
So she decided to give him everything she had. Soon, she became pregnant.
The arrival of the child made her happy and sad. She is very happy to finally give birth to the person she loves most. Sadly, her boyfriend has not divorced yet, because he has a clever wife behind him.
Xiao Bin's wife Xiaoya went to work in Shanghai soon after her marriage. Because of their strong earning ability, their daughter has been raised by Xiaoya, so she is deeply loved by her in-laws.
Seeing her husband's blatant marital infidelity and cohabitation, Xiaoya naturally scoffed and hated it. She didn't want to fulfill this meticulous love between men and women, so she promised to divorce in words, but refused to divorce in action.
In desperation, Xiao Bin advised Xiaoyan to abort the child and told her: My monthly salary is 2,000 yuan, so I can't afford to raise a child. She deliberately delayed the divorce, which means our baby can't get a hukou!
Xiaoyan stubbornly said, no, I want to be with you forever. Wait until the baby is born, then go one step at a time!
Immediately, Xiao Bin also acquiesced in her idea. It's up to him to decide whether he should be responsible or not.
In this way, Xiaoyan embarked on the wrong path of getting pregnant before marriage, and is likely to face more terrible female suffering.
03 gave birth to a disabled child, but became a street mouse.
Xiaoyan's pregnancy years were her most painful time!
She lives in a dark and humid rental house, and she can't see a ray of light all day, which affects the development of the fetus more or less. Coupled with financial difficulties, she wanted to go to her relatives' house, but they were all kicked out.
Parents disown her, dislike her self-love, get involved in other people's marriage and get pregnant!
Xiao Bin's parents looked down upon her, and her father ordered:
In my lifetime, you can't set foot in our house. Don't dirty the lintel of our house and pollute our reputation!
Xiaoyan has become a street mouse, with nowhere to live. She can only rely on Xiao Bin, waiting for the arrival of the child.
However, fate gave her a big joke. It is very likely that the pregnancy is often malnourished and the environment is not good. After the baby is born, his throat will be disabled and he will be dumb in the future. The operation cost100000, and obviously they have to give up.
In order to raise a baby, Xiao Bin asked someone to introduce him to a better job, working as a security guard in a hospital with a monthly salary of more than 3,000 yuan. And decided to rent a bigger room with a kitchen, the rent is 1200 yuan for one month.
Although his salary is relatively high, after deducting the rent and living expenses of three people, it is basically negative every month, so he chose to cash out with a credit card. Finally, he owed as much as 654.38 million yuan, and his life was unsustainable.
Once the vows of eternal love were brought back to reality by daily necessities, her heart was shattered bit by bit, and the reappearance of Xiao Bin's father became the fatal blow for her to leave.
When the baby was two years old, Xiao Bin's father came to the provincial capital to see a doctor and eat by the way. But when he mentioned his rice bowl, he became angry: Do you have money for so many dishes? You see, Xiaoyaduo can manage the house. Do you have more than half of others …
Xiaoyan is extremely wronged. Having endured humiliation for so many years without regrets is not only not recognized, but also not appreciated and respected.
There will be only poverty in the future, and her grievances will not end! She dried her tears and began to refute:
My son is still angry with me because he is incompetent. It was your son who seduced me in those days, and he is so poor that he still flatters his face. Well, I'm leaving and I'm never coming back …
This time, Xiaoyan really left and never came back.
She returned to her hometown alone with her children. After all, after so long, her family has gradually accepted them!
Xiao Bin tried to find them in the past, but he chickened out when he thought that he was a disabled child.
You see, people's hearts are more realistic and cool thin.
Love is not everything, let's be realistic.
A man like Xiao Bin, he was really fed up with Xiaoya. After years of separation, the relationship between husband and wife has broken down.
Clever Xiaoya saw Xiaoyan leave completely, and also saw Xiaoyan's fate, and raised a smug smile on her mouth.
So, she thought, Xiaosan deserved it, and she should get away with it. She didn't delay the divorce any longer, and soon got a divorce certificate from Xiao Bin.
Xiao Bin is the husband of two women and the father of two children. Now she is single.
Everyone knows Xiao Bin, who is a "pauper" who can't lack women. He must go back to his old job and hunt around with his appearance and rhetoric.
In less than a year, he talked about three or four women, including salespeople and property managers. The most surprising thing is that one of them is a graduate student of 985 University …
But in the end, they all parted ways. Probably, all the cheated women think this man is unreliable.
Not long ago, I heard that he remarried and the other party divorced.
We almost lost our chins. Why does this poor man who abandoned his wife and children still have someone to take over?
Perhaps, this is the dog blood theater in real life, and we outsiders really can't say it clearly.
In this plot, the saddest thing is Xiaoyan. Her fault is self-inflicted, and it doesn't even deserve sympathy.
She is desperate to get involved in other people's marriages, and it is impossible not to be despised and spurned.
Because she went her own way and clung to someone who couldn't name her, she finally brought great trouble to her child, enough to make her regret it for the rest of her life.
So, what I want to say is, girl, don't be blinded by love.
Love can produce beautiful flowers or poisonous fruits.
Love only wants Normandy, but life doesn't believe in tears.
Love, not all, there is nothing wrong with reality.