Sister, how many China families have she awakened to watch movies, and the oppression in her chest cannot be dispelled. She can't help feeling that Duan Ruoxin's film director is a woman with great desire. In just two hours, four time bombs, such as "men are superior to women", "women's reproductive rights", "women's awakening" and "the meaning of life", were thrown, shaking the hearts of the audience. Everyone had to let her explode, leaving only one. The name of the movie is very interesting-"My Sister". Who is "I"? An ziheng? No, "I" is every man in the movie, and "Sister" happens to be all the women in the movie. A name can easily divide the characters in the film into two categories, relaxed and relaxed, a detail that only female directors can guarantee.
1996, director Li Yu filmed the documentary "Sister". Although it is only twenty minutes, there is an interface that I will never forget: a pair of twin babies are going to be born. At the family meeting before delivery, everyone thought that the girl could take care of the boy more, and decided to take her out first, give her a name, and then bear the responsibility.
When I was watching TV series, I immediately thought of this little "sister". This little girl, who is constantly passed on the "sister obligation" by her parents, is so similar to the "sister" pursued by fate. I don't know. This is just the tip of the iceberg. Everyone is surrounded by the shadow of "Sister" and says "Sister". I don't know how many people will stop and look back. There will be my mother and mother-in-law.
Your name ... describes that my mother is an ordinary but wonderful woman all her life, but in the eyes of my sister-in-law and brother-in-law, my mother has always been "mom and dad". My mother's family was fairly well-off when she was a child. My grandparents always wanted a child. After having four daughters, they finally got what they wanted. It is followed by great parenting pressure. My grandparents had no choice but to send my sister-in-law to his house. My mother tried to resist this message, that is, to take my sister-in-law home from his house. My grandmother said, "I have never seen her mother like that." My mother glared and said, "I can't read, just earn a few centimeters, everyone."
In this way, my sister-in-law was left out in the cold, and my mother never went to school in elementary school or junior high school. In two or three years, my grandfather became an expert professor and gradually got better. Mom went back to the junior high school that I missed very much. The good times didn't last long. Grandpa had a big accident and his family suffered again. When my little brother reached school age, he saw his worried grandmother, and his mother stopped studying. My little brother just grew up studying. Oppressed on campus, my mother hugged her left and right, and fought with a young man in the northern Shaanxi Plateau who was one head taller than herself ... Then, when my uncle graduated from college, my mother was very busy. When my uncle got married last year, she shouted "Sister" at her mother's wedding banquet, but she couldn't say anything. I think what my brother wants to say is "Without you, there would be no life for me" ... My mother is such an ordinary and ordinary woman.
In front of Enron, the story already has a tragic "god"-her aunt An Rongrong. There is intergenerational projection and communication between Enron and An Rongrong. As several generations of "sisters", they have all encountered similar situations. As menstruation, An Rongrong chose to give up, and from then on, the road of life was completely plunged into an unfortunate whirlpool. Even so, An Rongrong has been desperately trying to prevent Enron from taking the postgraduate entrance examination in the early days, trying to restrain Enron with the shackles of "big sister as mother" again. According to An Rongrong's description, she was locked up by her mother-her mother asked An Rongrong to give up the opportunity to go to school and take turns traveling for a better nephew. At this point, the "generation-separated" communication has expanded to three generations, and it can be inferred that the shadow of "big sister as mother" covers more than three generations.
House is a key representative in the film. An Rongrong abandoned the house for his nephew. Enron's parents are going to transfer the house to his nephew's house. Many people think that Enron's father suffered from myocardial infarction because of the house problem ... This seems to be a house problem, but the essence is still emotional imbalance. In the field of social psychology, there is a professional term called "dual-track system of intergenerational inheritance", which means that everyone is equal in intergenerational inheritance of personal property, which is the key symbol of family inheritance and social development and progress. In terms of housing, behind the "house problem" is a serious sense of injustice between boys and girls. When Enron learned that a family neglected his wife's life and ignored the experiences of two daughters in order to have a better baby, it mainly showed great anger and pain. She chose to dissuade her, not only because she was a nurse, but also because she clearly knew what misfortune at home meant. As Enron always said, she doesn't hate her nephew. She knows very well that her and her brother's misfortune comes from their ancestors.
Enron's two "smiles" in the film left a deep impression on me. One was when I talked about idealization with my boyfriend, and the other was when I heard my aunt say "Go your own way." Compared with the previous one, the last one looks more precious. Because it was the first time that Enron got a real understanding, she knew that this understanding was based on her years of persistence and her aunt's self-reflection-hard-won.