2. If you can hold the potential idea that children are accessories, it is impossible to communicate with children on an equal footing in daily life. Parents communicate with their children with too strong an attitude, and the children don't want to listen; In the face of children's refusal to communicate, parents adopt an increasingly strict attitude; This leads to a vicious circle.
3. On the other hand, parents in China pay attention to the gradual growth of their children, and seldom adopt the stocking mode. This concern inevitably encroaches on children's independent space, while parents in China generally don't pay attention to their children's personal privacy. For parents, taking care of children is not a natural right, but an obligation. If parents want to know everything about their children, they should disclose their privacy through communication rather than directly.
It is reasonable for parents to think that their children will understand their pains in the future and get a thank you from their children in the future. Children are unwilling to communicate with their parents during the rebellious period, not only because of children, but also because of their parents. If parents are willing to love their children, put them in an equal position and slowly accept their ideas, only in this way will children be willing to open their hearts to their parents and create a good family communication environment.
Parents don't know how to educate their children during their rebellious period. In fact, they can also consult Qingzhou Education. Qingzhou education focuses on solving psychological problems encountered in the process of children's growth. Ten years of experience in the industry has helped children from countless families to survive the rebellious period smoothly. I think their experts are very responsible for children. Parents can consult and listen to the advice of professionals.