If you marry a very rich family, you don't have to worry about money and take care of your children, it must be very comfortable, because you can go back anytime and anywhere and you don't have to worry about the ticket. But if it is an ordinary family, it may cost thousands of dollars to go back casually, which the average family can't afford. It may not matter to go back once every two years, but the cost of going back several times a year is really too high. If your husband's family is considerate, there may not be too many problems. If your husband's family is not considerate, you may cause many contradictions because of this matter.
Will you go to work after you get married? If you go to work, how can you have so much time to go home all the time? It is even more difficult after having a child, because it is inconvenient for you to take her with you when the child is young, and the child is prone to acclimatization and illness. When the children are older, they won't have much time to go to school. And now there is an epidemic, we dare not go out, and it is even more difficult to go home. Any parents want their children to stay with them and don't want to be so far away. After all, it is hard to see them again.