In real life, like the heroine, Lin suffers from depression. After the new book was released and interviewed for 8 days, she finally committed suicide.
The so-called depression is to target yourself and lash yourself mercilessly. Even if others forgive ta, they will not let themselves go. When the outside world is blaming itself, it is easier to go to a dead end.
Lin's depression eventually led to suicide, which is tantamount to feeling that the outside world can't accept what happened to her and then can't accept her as a person.
She tried to tell her parents that she had a classmate with her teacher, and her parents said, "It's so coquettish at such a young age", which scared her to stop talking.
It can be said that it is the intolerance of the whole cultural environment to sexually assaulted women, even the psychological abuse more cruel than the sexual assault itself, which makes the victims more likely to go to the end of the road. This is the spiritual imprisonment and hypnosis of women in the patriarchal society in feudal society. On the one hand, it requires women to be pure and have no desire, on the other hand, it expects women's amorous feelings. When a woman is sexually assaulted, many people will think it is this woman, misbehaving, wearing too many clothes, or dressing her up too beautifully, and so on. Why not rape someone else? Why rape her?
It's really strange that when such a thing happens, he blames the victim instead of the perpetrator, thinking that she has a problem. Even some victims of such incidents are sexually attracted. But what about the victims of pedophilia? Is it wrong to be a girl? !
In the final analysis, the essence is the lack of respect for women's identity, just as men pretend to deny their desire for women, always say that women are not serious, seduce him and so on, and project bad and bad feelings on others. In fact, flowers are not charming, people are fascinated, and wine is not intoxicating. This is why the downfall of Shang Dynasty put all the blame on da ji, and attributed all the charges of war drama princes to praise. Wu Sangui was purged because of Chen Yuanyuan. In fact, can they play such a big role? !
Since ancient times, many Fansiqi people think that being hypnotized by powerful men is a disaster. In the face of such sexual assault, I am afraid that I have condemned it in spirit and killed myself thousands of times, no matter what outsiders think of me!
In the Story of Qiu Ju's Mother-in-law, there are countless literary works, film and television dramas, and women who are constantly sexually assaulted in their lives, and then choose to silently endure humiliation and be unhappy all their lives. Only in recent years, with the popularization of law and the awakening of women's consciousness, they dare to stand up and protect themselves with legal weapons, but many of them still have to suffer from other people's strange eyes.
In fact, it is not only women who have encountered such a thing, but also women who have not encountered such a thing. Fortunately, they didn't meet it. It would be terrible if they met it. I dare not think about the consequences of this incident, let alone others, that is, my relatives, and my parents may find it hard to accept, let alone others.
Therefore, Fang Siqi (Lin) will go to a dead end, and this society should reflect on the spiritual shackles that women do not have. Li Xinhe proposed to change the crime of rape into the crime of intentional injury, so as to reduce the mental burden of the victim as much as possible.
Many people say that writing can reduce people's pain. You see so many writers are people who have deep feelings about pain, but even so, Lin still can't solve her pain.
If her death can arouse people's reflection and change people's unfair and harsh attitude towards women, it is also a valuable death.