Friend: a friend who can speak out and persuade; Refers to those who dare to point out shortcomings and mistakes in person, "throw cold water on" hot-headed friends and help them.
Best friend: a friend with deep friendship.
Close friend: also known as bosom friend and confidant, is a friend who has a very good relationship and talks about everything. It can also refer to the same sex or the opposite sex! Women who are close to righteousness are a bit like girlfriends, and men are generally brothers!
Second, the sources are different.
Chen You: From the exhortation in Bai Hutong, quoted from the Book of Filial Piety: "A doctor has three ministers, although he has no way, he does not lose his home. If a scholar has friends, he will not leave his name. "
Interpretation: "The doctor has three ministers and dares to speak. Although there is no way, he will not lose his home. Some people advise friends that they cannot do without fame. "
Close friends in boudoir: from the Collection of Letters from Lu Xun to Li. "My mother sobbed, and my best friend was surprised."
Interpretation: The old mother cries, but the friend is heartbroken.
Close friend: Su Jun's "The Story of the Stubby Couple" in the Ming Dynasty: "Virtue and virtue are born together, and mistakes are related to each other, and they are afraid of friends; Priorities can be * * *, life and death can be entrusted, and friends are also; Sweet talk, games, intimate friends; Peace is in conflict, suffering is in conflict, and thieves are friends. "
Interpretation: Morality encourages each other, negligence rules each other, and fears friends; In times of crisis, we can be together, we can rely on and become bosom friends; Sweet words are like sugar, games repel and close friends repel each other; Besides, misfortunes will conflict with each other, not friends.
Extended data:
1. A true friend is a lifelong treasure. Friends are valuable because they can be honest with each other with a highly responsible attitude, never whitewash their shortcomings and mistakes, dare to expose their shortcomings and urge them to correct them.
As the ancients said: "Be sure to exercise more, one stone is better than ten thousand stones." It means that you don't make many friends, but you do. If people can make a few friends, they will take fewer detours on their way forward, make more achievements and develop their own careers. However, among all these friends, it is also the most difficult to make friends.
It can be said that there are few friends in one's life.
You need opportunities to make friends, and you can't just know those excellent people. As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together. Without the kind of ideological taste and behavioral conditions of friends, even if we meet, we will pass by. Then, being friends is easy to offend people. Under the communication rules accustomed to praise, friends are often blocked by people's so-called face. When they woke up, they had lost communication with each other and had to sigh.