At the end of the year, we met each other's parents. My parents are a little reluctant to know about his family, because my husband's family is close to the county seat, but his life is not rich and he has not bought a house. He just built an ordinary building at home. But I have been arguing with my parents, and finally they compromised, but my in-laws want to get a bride price of10.5 million, and there is no room for manoeuvre. When they heard the bride price, they were very shocked, because they were also genuine. There is no other source of income, my husband has just worked and the family doesn't have that much money, but my parents are extremely determined. My parents said it was for my own good. I don't understand. This is for my brother. My parents have loved my brother very much since childhood, and they are already spoiled. During school, they either fight all day or go to Internet cafes. Their parents have been called by the teacher many times, but they still love him.
For my lifelong event, I gave all the 50,000 yuan I had saved to my husband, and then my in-laws borrowed a lot from relatives and friends, which was enough for the bride price. My parents didn't readily agree to our marriage until they confirmed that it was 6.5438+0.5 million. On my wedding day, my parents gave me the necessary dowry, but I didn't get any money for the bride price of 654.38+0.5 million. I asked my parents why, and they said, ". After marriage, my in-laws were not angry with me for the bride price. On the contrary, they thanked me for taking out the 50 thousand yuan at that time and said they would pay me back when they had money in the future. I said to my mother-in-law, "Mom, we are all family. Why don't we talk about it? "My mother-in-law praised me as a good daughter-in-law. Since I got married, I seldom went back to my mother's house. It's not that I don't want to go back, but that my parents always blame me every time I go back, and then I will say that my husband is worthless and won't make money. After that, I seldom went back.
Last year, our county ushered in the urban transformation, and our family was assigned to the transformation area. After the Planning Bureau finally allocated two houses and 500,000 cash according to the area and population, my husband and I were so happy that we became rich overnight. My mother-in-law said to me, "Susu, you can keep these three houses and cash. Your father and I are old and forgetful. " In fact, I know that this is my mother-in-law's trust in me. The husband of the real estate license firm insisted on writing two names. I didn't agree at first, and my in-laws also advised me to write my husband's name and mine on the last three houses.
My parents learned that we had been demolished, got three apartments and arrived at our home. You know, since I got married for two years, my parents have basically never been to our house, and they have brought many gifts these times, and their attitude towards my in-laws is even more polite. Later, after my in-laws went out, my mother took my hand and said, "Susie, you can't live in three houses. Your brother doesn't have a house yet." It was not until I listened to my mother that I understood the reason why my parents were abnormal these days. I said to my mother at that time: "When I got married, didn't you just say that 1.5 million was your expense for raising me?" Why do you still have it? " At that time, my mother's face became ugly, and she always said that I was a baiwenhang and didn't know how to kiss my family. Finally, when I was too slow to vomit, they left in despair.
It's not that I don't know filial piety It's just that my parents' snobbish behavior makes me feel bad. I made things difficult for my in-laws at that time. Now that my in-laws are rich, they come to curry favor with us. I never gave my brother the house, but when my brother bought a house, I paid 1.5 million. After I gave the money to my parents, my parents called me a baiwenhang. I was angry and wanted my money back, but my parents didn't want it anyway.