Excessive desire for protection: Many grandparents have a strong desire to protect their children, and this desire for protection is also reflected in their grandchildren. They may feel that only meticulous care and protection can ensure the safety and health of their children. Therefore, they may interfere excessively in children's lives, including making decisions for children in trivial matters.
Spoiling and doting: Some grandparents may turn a blind eye to some improper behaviors of their children because of doting and doting. They may think that children are too young to be too demanding of them, which may lead to their lack of discipline.
Traditional concept: Some grandparents may hold the traditional concept of parenting and think that children should be unconditionally loved and tolerated, even if they do something wrong. This concept may lead them to show laissez-faire, doting and conniving behavior when taking care of their children.
Make up for childhood regrets: Some grandparents may want to give their children more love and attention because they didn't get enough care or education when they were children. This may lead them to be too indulgent in taking care of their children, and may even ignore the basic requirements and rules for their children.
Health status and life pressure: Some grandparents may not be able to fully discipline their children because of their own health status or life pressure. They may feel tired or weak, which leads them to show laissez-faire, doting and conniving behavior when taking care of their children.
It should be noted that every family and individual's situation is unique, and grandparents' laissez-faire, doting and conniving behavior towards their children may be influenced by many factors. To understand and solve this problem, we need to consider the specific situation of each family and give appropriate support and guidance.