That year, my father, who was working on the construction site, had an accident, and half of his body was involved in the mixer, completely losing his ability to work. The economic pillar of the family collapsed, and my mother had to take care of her father while working day and night from the garment factory in the town to earn money.
It never rains but it pours. When 17 years old, Xu's 38-year-old mother was diagnosed with gastric cancer.
The family has been hit repeatedly, and Xu's study life is no longer carefree. He must shoulder the burden of family, learn to do housework and take care of his parents.
18 years old, my mother finished the second major operation, Xu took good care of it and studied hard at night. In August of that year, he was admitted to the School of Materials Science of Southeast University with excellent results.
After the hardships of family life, Xu's learning vitality is more vigorous. When he was a freshman, Xu served as the monitor, and his academic performance was far ahead of his classmates. Before the start of his sophomore year, he successfully transferred to a number of civil engineering colleges among top students after reading the thick set of advanced mathematics tests in Southeast University and the set of CET-4 and CET-6 tests. In the School of Civil Engineering, Xu is still among the best, and he has been the monitor for a long time.
Speaking of Xu's diligence, roommates describe him like this: he is a real god, everyone is sleeping, and he is still doing his homework; When others woke up, he was already sitting at his desk studying.
The pain of studying is not bitter at all for Xu. The bitter thing is that he must earn enough living expenses every month. His living expenses are the lowest, and he goes to 400 yuan every month. Among them, 320 yuan earned from work-study programs, and the rest came from scholarships.
Even so, Xu's thin body seems to contain infinite vitality. In his sophomore year, he took the lead in establishing a stage studio to provide free lighting, sound, dance beauty and technical support for the performance venues on campus. Half a year later, his club won the technical support of all the large-scale performances in the school and was named my favorite student club in Southeast University.
For Xu, everything is not bitter. Mother's illness is getting worse and worse. Xu kept shuttling between school, hospital and home. He often goes to the hospital with his mother in the countryside of Gaochun County and goes back to school at night.
Despite this, Xu's study has hardly been affected, and his grades are still excellent, ranking the top three in his class. In his senior year, he successfully won the school's insurance research. There is good news and bad news at school, and my mother is dying. Shortly before he arrived at his mother's hospital bed, her eyes were closed forever.
Before she died, a mother with only a primary school education but great love told her son: I only have a pair of good eyes. Please help her donate it to those in need! After the death of his mother 1 hour, Xu choked back his grief and called the Nanjing Red Cross Society to ask the staff to take an eyeball.
Mother's eyes let three people see the colorful world clearly. Xu burst into tears again and was moved by his mother's simple love. He also wanted to contribute more love to the society.
On the 5th day after her mother's death, Xu signed up for the postgraduate education group, won the second place and went to teach in Inner Mongolia. During the Nanjing Youth Olympic Games, he became a NOC volunteer through selection. During the competition, he can only rest for four or five hours every day, get up at 5: 00 in the morning and return to the dormitory at night 1 1. When you come back, you should count the number of people on duty the next day and summarize the work the next day.
In Southeast University, Xu is the most famous volunteer business card. Because of his outstanding performance, he was named one hundred young people in Jiangsu Province, and the Organizing Committee of the Youth Olympic Games awarded him the title of star volunteer and administrative elite of the Youth Olympic Games. 20xx 65438+ 10 month, after layers of evaluation, Xu was finally named as the model of self-improvement star of China university students in 20xx (nationwide 10) and won a scholarship of 10000 yuan.
Speaking of Xu's past, his classmates and friends are very emotional, saying that it is hard to imagine that he has suffered so much pain and suffering after knowing him for so many years. Even though he suffered a lot, he never complained about others. Instead, he stepped all the sufferings along the way into a piano key and heard optimistic beats.
A word of blaming others.
1, I didn't take it seriously, but I lost myself in the process of liking him. The person who is so precious in the hands of my parents and friends is worthless in his eyes, even worse than a passerby.
2. Loneliness is probably a kind of dynamic. After waiting for a long time, no one likes it and silently deletes it.
3. Later, I loved many people, like your hair and your eyes, but none of them were you.
We are all practicing smiling, so that we can turn ourselves into people who dare not cry. A person is also used to pretending to be strong, laughing in front of others and being miserable behind others.
After being separated from you, there are two selves in this world: one pretending to be happy and the other really sad.
6. There are always some people who don't want to forget, but they can't forget; There are always some feelings, not that I don't want to let go, but that I can't let go.
7. Your loneliness and pain can escape from the dimly lit streets, but you can't escape from the private night.
8. Some people, the more unfamiliar they look, the more they think about something, the more painful they are.
9. If you don't shout pain, you may not feel anything. No need, not necessarily not expected. No tears, not necessarily no scars. If you don't talk, you don't necessarily have no heart.
10, I think the deepest love is to be live high like you after separation.
1 1, sometimes I think it's funny that those who occupy a small part of our memory will never be forgotten.
12, people who often say sorry are used to being forgiven, while people who often say it's okay are already black and blue.
13, you are my dream of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and I am your dispensable person. After all, this arrow that crosses mountains and rivers stabs emotional and morbid people.
14, I hate that sometimes I have to pretend as if nothing has happened when I hear something that hurts me to death.
15, drunk thinking, drunk himself, but drunk the love of this life; Forget yourself, forget loneliness, but forget the most beautiful you in my heart.
16, always wait for a long time, always wait until there is no way out, only to know that what you have abandoned yourself will never be encountered again in the future.
17, let's just miss it completely, don't take hate and regret, don't pretend to say good wishes, just go to different places.
18, constantly missing, easy to live up to, unconsciously unfamiliar, this is probably an unavoidable dilemma in life.
19, I hugged you when you were covered with thorns. I smoothed all your edges and corners, but at that time I could only watch others hold you close to perfection.
20. I didn't cry or scream, I was just sad, sad and lonely.
2 1. The saddest distance in the world is that two people are far apart but don't know each other. Suddenly one day, they met, fell in love and became very close. Then one day, they stopped falling in love, and the two people who were very close became far away, even farther away than before.
22. People in the past were like moldy bread, fermented milk, tea overnight and incense the next day. You remember how beautiful it was, but you can't restore it. Don't look back. You know the past is irreversible.
23. A city makes you unforgettable for a long time, probably because there are people you love deeply and youth that will never return.
24. If I were brave, would the result be different? If I persisted at that time, would my memories be unusual? In the end, I didn't say it, but you still ignored it.
25. The rainstorm outside the window is fading away, so the house can't get wet. I am rainstorm, you are still you.
26. Someone will always come into your life. Teach you something and leave without hesitation.
27. I have bothered you before, but I won't bother you again. Just pretend that the wind never blew, that you never came, and that I never loved you. Let's have a joke about liking you.
28. A heart that is invulnerable to all poisons will often be defeated by a simple comfort. An invulnerable disguise will often completely surrender in front of people who know you.
What saddens me more than that we are not together is that you didn't try to keep us together.
Fortunately, happiness can't be bought, otherwise I would have nothing, but fortunately, sadness can't be bought or sold, otherwise I'm already rich.
3 1, the recovered things can't be returned to the original appearance at all. Even if it is good, it will never forget to lose a period of time.
32. People always live in the contradiction between giving up and taking. Perhaps, some feelings can only be unforgettable if they are missed. Those past experiences are eternal in our hearts.
If one day, you begin to regret giving up on me, please remember that I never wanted to teach you how to cherish by leaving.
What makes me sad is not that you don't love me, but that you never loved me.
35. I finally got through that day. Everyone looks like you, and everything can think of you. The songs I listened to were all about you. Fortunately, I can finally stop asking about the return date, contact, miss you and wait for you.
36. I want to tell you, actually, I'm not that good. I will still miss you often and dream about you often, but time has taught me to shut up. Because I know that I have to walk alone on many roads.
37. I always keep the most hurtful words to myself, and I don't want to accept my cowardice when I am in pain.
The biggest regret is not that you missed the best person, but that when you met a better person, you had exhausted your best self.
39. Some people and some things should be forgotten. People never trusted you. Why flatter yourself?
40. A person's unforgettable memory may have been forgotten by others.
4 1, too many why, no answer; Too many answers, no why. Everything has a destiny, you can't get it and you can't give up.
42. You are my hope, my distant dream, and I am your passer-by, which will be forgotten in an instant.
43. How many people have I lost contact with for one of you? As a result, as soon as you left, they were gone.
44. It's not that I pretend to be lofty, but that you miss me. I waited for you and spent my youth; I loved you, with my original true heart; Miss you, but don't bother, and keep the last bit of dignity for yourself.
It is obvious that you approached me first, but I was the last to leave. Perhaps, deep feelings have never been disappointed, and they will only miss fickle feelings.
46. How can it be that you like someone? One second you tried to tear him up, and the next you were crying and picking it up, and you didn't know how to put it together.
I envy all the unimportant people around you. They can easily see you, so I miss you very much.
48. In this world, there is always someone who makes you helpless. Even if he is nothing, even if he is full of evil deeds, you still have to be him. This is the pi of feelings, endless.
49. Now I believe in letting nature take its course. Don't say I don't care, even if I do, what can I do?
50. If you like a song, you will always forgive if you fall in love with someone, but if you listen to this song enough, it will be broken, so people will let go when they are tired of it.
5 1. Later, some people learned to lie without blushing, some learned to smile indifferently, some stayed up late, and some cut off their long hair cruelly. People who can't go back. Starting over in this world is always a lie.
52. I hit the south wall and I can't get what I lost back. The worst place I fell was where I started over. This is my feeling. I'll clean it up myself.
53. Cherish the people in front of you and manage your love. Don't think that everyone will wait for you in the same place. Maybe the person who once hugged you will really become a stranger.
What he wants is freshness, and all you can give is companionship. How do two people with different destinations get together? You want to take a walk and meet again after parting. He hoped that mountains and rivers would never meet again.
55. Anyone you meet casually on the road is the dream of others.
I dare not expect too much from everyone after you. This is a shadow and a lesson.
57. All jokes contain serious words, and those seemingly incomprehensible responses are probably the most euphemistic refusal.
58. Don't always have a long time. In this world, when you look back, people stay away from tea. His mouth will eventually kiss others' lips and give all the things that have been given to you to another person.
I thought that as long as I held you tightly, I could live forever, but unexpectedly, the tighter I held you, the faster I lost it.
But how boring my life would be without you in this world.
6 1, someone asked me how to describe the feeling of losing the person I love the most. How can I put it? I probably felt lonely in the crowd and cried when I watched the comedy.
62. There is no empathy in this world. Just because you give too much laughter, no one cares about your sadness, so don't open your wounds and complain to others stupidly. There are many people who sprinkle salt in this world.
I used to think that I could get away with falling in love with you, but one day I found myself covered in scars.
64. I am a passer-by who you turn around and forget. Why should I spend time with you on earth? As long as a person no longer wants anything, he can put everything down. I like myself now and miss us in the past.
65. As long as you look back, I will really be willing to forget the pain and tolerate you.
66. You are like a high mountain in front of me, but you never gave me a chance to cross it.
67. People who care are tired, and people who don't care are tired. You always think too much when you are alone, and then you are inexplicably unhappy.
68. What is loneliness? One day, you took a beautiful and artistic photo and saved it in your mobile phone, but you didn't know who to send it to, and suddenly remembered that there was no one to accompany you to see the scenery except yourself.
69. In love, there is always a leading role and a supporting role. Tired will always be the protagonist, injured will always be the supporting role.
70. From the moment you had the heart to hurt me, I knew that you must have never considered my feelings.
7 1, you left unexpectedly, just like it suddenly began to rain in the clear sky in Wan Li, and I could only stand where I was but was caught off guard.
72. If one day, you begin to regret giving up on me, please remember that I never wanted to teach you how to cherish by leaving.
73. I didn't delete the photo, just encrypted it; I didn't lose anything, I put them in that big box; And you, I didn't forget, I sorted you out and put you in these love songs.
Sentences about complaining about others.
Sometimes I wonder why I have encountered so many misfortunes in the past two years, and some people even complain why these things happen to me. But I also think that it will pass. As long as I pass this hurdle, I will be fine and the future will be fine. Up to now, life has been very tangled.
Sentences about complaining about others.
First, life is a lonely journey. Give you exercise and make you strong; When we encounter rough times, we may be too emotional, easy to sigh fate, easy to blame others, and easy to exaggerate misfortune. It is impossible to be accompanied by sunshine all the time on the road of life, and it is impossible to be calm everywhere. If you can't change the facts, then change your mentality.
Second, only when you are steadfast in your heart can you walk more steadily. The storage of life is also the interpretation of mentality, and the storage is different with different mentality. Grateful people will accumulate a touching complex; People who have just actions will accumulate moral responsibility; And people with decadent mentality can only be cynical and full of complaints.
Third, young people are eager for success and recognition, but they are unwilling to pay their own efforts and painstaking efforts. They are only willing to complain about the unfairness of heaven, but they don't know how to change themselves. The result is nothing.
Fourth, in fact, few children are truly successful when they grow up. Success is a life and cannot be educated. Therefore, the most practical education is to let children know how to live with peace of mind and not complain for a long time in an unsuccessful life. At this time, those useless things become precious. When children grow up, parents will succeed if they don't suffer!
You don't have to make much ado about nothing, and you don't have to complain. You just do it without saying a word, change it and improve it. One day, time will shine for you.
6. It's raining, and acquaintances with and without umbrellas have dispersed one after another. Only you are still standing under the eaves at the door, watching the continuous rain. In the meantime, no one asked if you had an umbrella, and no one asked if you could go. At this time, complaining may be right, but it is useless.
No more nagging, no more complaining, no more complaining everywhere, no one wants to know what you are thinking, the most important thing is what you have done, come on, I believe in myself!
Eight, chasing dreams needs persistence. Life needs to stick to your dreams, because the long road of life will encounter countless difficulties. It is no use complaining and sighing. Only in the process of competing with difficulties can we constantly surpass ourselves and make positive progress, and we can go further on the road of life and bloom colorful flowers of life.
Nine, how do you treat others, others will treat you. Don't always blame others, don't always find fault with others, don't always want to change others, first adjust your mentality and repair your heart, and everything will follow your heart.
The aunt in the next bed has been sighing and complaining. I was pumped five or six tubes of blood early in the morning. At this moment, I want to smash her head.
Don't always frown, we came to this world to find happiness. Don't always complain. God closed a window for you today and may open a door for you tomorrow. When we smile, you will find that the world is so beautiful. When we get rid of our hands and feet. You will find the road right under our feet.
12. Whenever you are short of money, you just think that the market doesn't blame you, but someone on the other side of the market is really making a profit. Every time you fail to get high or low, you sigh and complain. Now you should find a mentor to show you the direction, and then you will find that making a profit is far from as difficult as you think.
13. Change what can be changed and accept what cannot be changed. Forget what you can't bear and always pay attention to what is good for your growth. No complaints, no moodiness.
14. Learn not to complain, and bravely shoulder your own responsibilities. This is a virtue that will bring you unexpected gifts, that is, you can tell your own experiences and bring yourself good luck.
Fifteen, instead of complaining, it is better to smile at the setbacks and disappointments in life! ..... because life will never let you go because you live hard! What we should do is to live every day well, but we should have a clear conscience.
16. Don't expect anyone to be nice to you. In this world, no one can be sincere to you except parents. If you haven't met the right person, you can only say that your accumulated virtue is not enough. God is always fair, don't complain, don't blame, don't be angry, because those are asking for it! Don't complain Since you met the wrong person, try to be yourself and make yourself better. Don't please others, let yourself shine.
They are both very important to me. I waste my blank time complaining about others, and then I work hard every day. Don't turn sadness into appetite any more, it's even sadder to become a dead fat man.
Eighteen, don't complain, because all kinds of fruits today are caused by various reasons yesterday. You can't continue to plant the seeds of resentment and complaints. You should improve your mood and pay more for others. If you want to transfer, you should change your mind first. With a grateful attitude every day, I don't always care about what I lost or didn't get, but appreciate what I got and didn't lose.
Nineteen, insist on coming, don't blame others, not to mention much ado about nothing. In this cannibal society, if we want to make ourselves strong, I can only rely on myself not to be eliminated by society.
20. Narrow-minded people will take what they have done as a standard. If it doesn't meet his temper standards, he will think that others are very wrong and everything is different. Criticizing others, accusing others, and being extremely sensitive, a word can hurt him to pieces. Broad-minded people are open-minded and generous. Not only will they not be worried about things all day, but they will also bring peace and happiness to their surroundings, making people want to be close. Therefore, it is very important to tolerate others, and you don't have to care too much about everything. Only in this way can you become a happy person, smiling often, without help and resentment, being kind and always laughing at ridiculous people in the world, and being pregnant can tolerate intolerable things in the world.
Twenty-one, take a 20-month-old boy to a pan-theoretical class in the evening. It is conceivable that he is very naughty. In order not to affect other seniors' classes, he had to quit halfway. There was a trace of complaint at that moment, and I couldn't help complaining that my son was too naughty. On second thought, what is the purpose of coming to class? If you complain about something you don't like, then you are not a Buddhist and it violates the purpose of coming to class. Therefore, it is not that people who study Buddhism will not be troubled, but that they will learn to change their mentality when they are troubled.
Twenty-two, go home and not study all night? If you still have no self-control, don't complain, you deserve to be surpassed by others!
23. Every morning, give yourself a smile and tell yourself! People should not only live as brilliantly as diamonds, but also be as strong as diamonds! ! Don't just be Nuo Nuo, don't complain, live your true self! Keep a sunny, positive and inclusive attitude every day, and the positive energy of good luck will follow you every day.
Twenty-four, the feeling of this period of time, in fact, missing this thing does not exist at all, I have not missed anything. People who can't learn, can't evolve, and complain all day are really poor.
Twenty-five, everything is your choice, don't complain, try to make yourself strong, try to live the life you want, and try to be happy.
Complain about others and make sentences.
1 A person who only complains about others often doesn't humbly review the reasons for his failure.
They acted as critics, combining Chamberlain's complaint with Stalin's weak apology.
After listening to his complaints, I advised him to relax.
Before I had no children, I thought all children were the same, and all parents had the bad habit of complaining.
5. If you just keep complaining, "Now just praise, don't complain. In this way, you will see more of what you like in each other, instead of attacking and criticizing each other until both sides lose. "
6. However, when comparison does not turn into motivation, it turns into jealousy and complaint. This is actually a dose of poison, which will inadvertently lead you astray and lose everything.
7. If he only complains when he fails, it is far from success!
She hasn't said a word to her sister-in-law for three days, but she doesn't complain anymore, which makes us deeply gratified.
9. The two brothers have different personalities. One is full of complaints, but the other never complains.
10, it's no use complaining about others, and quickly understand the reasons for the failure so as to make a comeback.
1 1. Even though life is so hard, my mother never complains, and she still lives an optimistic and positive life.
12, the commentator wrote that when a person encounters difficulties, if he is honest, he will inevitably find reasons from himself first, instead of blaming others and blaming others.
13, she gets hurt sometimes, but she never complains about others and is not hysterical. She just licked the wound quietly and drank the sadness alone.
14. Such a big earthquake destroyed his family, so it is hard for him not to blame others.
15, I really neglected this matter, and I won't blame others and pass the buck.
16, in the face of such difficulties, it is better to think about countermeasures than to complain.
17. After being persuaded by his parents, he stopped complaining and faced difficulties with a positive attitude.
18, make a mountain out of a molehill and gossip to fill the emptiness in life except complaining about others.
19, I'll give you a different perspective, more aggressive and less complaining.