"I don't need to rely on my daughter-in-law this stranger. My son and daughter are very kind to me. " My mother-in-law spoke loudly to a group of elderly uncles and aunts in the park.
Xiaojie, the daughter-in-law who happened to pass by to buy food, heard it. Xiaojie pretended not to see her mother-in-law sitting there.
Even ignored a group of them and went directly to the vegetable market. In fact, Xiaojie was very sad after listening to her mother-in-law. She has been married to their family for so many years.
I've done so much for their family. Anyway, there is no credit and there is hard work. But my mother-in-law can't see what she has done for her family over the years. She works hard and says she is an outsider in front of outsiders.
Xiaojie changed his temperament after listening to her mother-in-law today. I feel that no matter whether I am good or bad, I am just an outsider in my mother-in-law's house. When Xiaojie came home at noon, she saw her mother-in-law sitting at home waiting for dinner.
Xiaojie and her mother-in-law usually cook at home. Xiaojie is really disappointed in her mother-in-law today. Decided to cook only what she wanted to eat. Since the mother-in-law said so, let her son and daughter take care of it.
Xiaojie has prepared everything she wants to eat, only one. Xiaojie took a big bowl from the kitchen and walked out while eating. Her mother-in-law thought lunch was ready and immediately went to the kitchen.
As a result, I saw that the wok was clean and there was nothing. Then he went to the living room and asked Xiaojie, "Why didn't you make me lunch today?" "Mother-in-law, make your own lunch later. I will not wait on you. " Xiao Jie said crossly.
When the mother-in-law heard this, she was so angry that she went into the kitchen to swear and cook her own lunch. The embarrassing atmosphere of the day has never stopped.
In the evening, Xiaojie's husband bought some delicious food. Xiaojie saw it and immediately took it back to his room. After my mother-in-law saw it, the anger accumulated today was about to explode.
So he said loudly to Xiaojie, "My son can't take back what he bought in your room." "I do, it's none of your business." Xiaojie said proudly.
My mother-in-law took advantage of Xiaojie's bath and complained to her son that her daughter-in-law only cooked lunch by herself today, saying that her daughter-in-law bullied her. That night, Xiaojie's husband said to Xiaojie, "Can you be kind to our mother? Don't be so selfish, okay? "
"Did your mother say anything to you?" "She didn't say anything, but your behavior just now was too selfish." "What are you talking about? I don't want to tell you. " Xiaojie was a little angry and pretended to sleep in bed.
Later, my mother-in-law accidentally broke her leg. Xiaojie's husband asked Xiaojie to help take care of her mother-in-law, but Xiaojie didn't want to. She also said: "Your mother said that neither child needs to rely on me as an outsider. I won't care if you look for a nurse or your sister. "
The husband finally understood how Xiaojie's attitude towards his mother changed, so he comforted: "What mom said was angry words. You are a kind woman, don't worry about her. " Xiaojie was relieved by her husband's sweet words and was willing to take care of her mother-in-law.
When there is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the attitude and handling method of men in the family is very important. It is good to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but it will get worse and worse if it is not handled well.
In life, a man must pay more attention to his wife's mood. She is your favorite woman. You should think more about her feelings. You can't break a woman's heart just by listening to her mother.
A wife takes care of her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law should be grateful. But as a son, you should do it yourself. After all, being your own mother is easier to communicate with and won't cause a gap between you.
Therefore, when dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, men's emotional intelligence is very important. Otherwise, it will not only make his mother suffer indignities, but also make him feel left out, so he will be disappointed with this relationship and even want to leave you.
When dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, men must act as mediators. Only in this way can three people be closely linked and never leave.