The AA system now appears not only among friends, but also in marriage.
Xiaoli's husband proposed AA system. Xiaoli and her husband Xiao Wang met through traditional blind date. They are all of a certain age. Since neither of them decided on their marriage, they met through blind date.
They didn't know each other very well, but got married on the basis of their first impression of each other.
After the marriage, Xiao Wang made a request to Xiaoli, that is, the two sides shared the cost, and his reasons were also very impressive. That is, in today's society, men can't deprive women of the right to pursue personal independence and economic independence, so both sides need to share the expenses needed for life, so that both men and women can be equal and reasonable.
But Xiaoli thinks that the so-called AA is just a statement of some large expenses, while Xiao Wang has spent all the expenses in their lives, even to single digits. Xiao Li's treatment of Xiao Wang has simply refreshed her view, but after all, they just got married, and besides, he didn't do anything wrong, but he was too concerned and didn't reach the point of divorce.
But Xiaoli was wrong. For a couple who care about everything, life will definitely not be happy.
The cost of having a baby is also AA. They had a child after marriage. When the child was about to be born, Xiaoli had a caesarean section. When the child was born, her body was not particularly good and she stayed in the hospital for more than a month. For this matter, she spent a lot of money back and forth, but after all, it was all for the children. However, Xiao Wang, who haggles over every ounce, asked Xiaoli that the child's expenses needed AA when she was still in confinement, and asked Xiaoli to transfer the money to him after she was discharged from the hospital. After that, Xiao Wang showed Xiaoli the charge voucher of the hospital.
Xiaoli is really chilling about Xiao Wang's practice. For a woman, having a baby is a matter of stepping into the gate of hell with one leg, but in Xiao Wang's heart, she always doesn't care about Xiaoli's safety and always focuses on expenses.
When she was in confinement, she thought about divorce more than once or twice, but because the child was just born, she couldn't let the child pay the bill because of her parents' problems. But although Xiaoli gave up the idea of divorcing Xiao Wang, she had no love for Xiao Wang.
Xiao Li's mother was ill, and Xiao Wang refused to pay. After Xiaoli and her children were safely discharged from the hospital, Xiaoli transferred half of the expenses to Xiao Wang. Xiaoli quit her job because she was pregnant, and now she can only make a living by doing some part-time jobs, but no matter how bad Xiaoli's life is, Xiaoli's husband Xiao Wang never asks and never helps. Xiaoli is also used to Xiao Wang's manner.
Later, Xiaoli's mother became ill. As a child, she naturally needed to pay for her parents' treatment. But because Xiaoli had no money, she asked her husband Xiao Wang for some points. Xiaoli thought it was a family. Now her mother is ill and needs money to treat her illness. Although Xiao Wang is very concerned, he will definitely help her.
But Xiao Wang said, this is your family's business. What does it have to do with me? Your mother has her children, so she should let her children pay for her treatment.
Xiaoli and Xiao Wang had a big fight, but Xiao Wang thought he was right. In the end, Xiao Wang didn't give a dime, but lent it to Xiaoli.
Xiaoli has always kept this matter in mind.
Xiao Wang's mother was ill, so Xiao Wang asked Xiaoli to pay half. The situation reversed, and Xiao Wang's mother was ill. And Xiao Wang's life was completely messed up because of his mother's illness. He can't take care of the elderly, and his savings are gradually disappearing. At this time, he thought of Xiaoli.
He said to Xiaoli, you need to pay half of our mother's expenses. After all, you are her daughter-in-law ? However, Xiaoli has always kept it in mind, because Xiao Wang did not pay for her mother's treatment before, so she decisively rejected Xiao Wang's statement.
Xiaoli said to Xiao Wang: Don't we live AA? I didn't see you pay before my mother got sick. Why should I pay half when your mother is ill? ?
Xiao Wang flew into a rage at Xiaoli's words. He said to Xiaoli: That's our mother. You married our family and her daughter-in-law. How can you not pay the money? ?
Xiao Wang also had a big fight with Xiaoli. Xiaoli went back to her mother's house and wondered whether to divorce him.
Although the relationship between Xiao Wang and Xiao Li is nominally a marriage, it is actually worse than a friend.