Benefits: blind date will be more direct, both of them are for the purpose of marriage, which will be faster and more effective for the development of feelings.
Disadvantages: two people don't know each other, so it will be more difficult for two strangers to develop their feelings.
However, next I'll share with you an exclusive one? Blind date? The new process of chasing girls can solve the disadvantages brought by blind date and help you catch up with girls more easily and get happy love.
Step 1: Establish? Trust? .
As the blind date has just met, both of them are strangers. Want to have better interaction, urgently need to establish? Trust? .
Only when girls have enough trust in you will they actively interact with you more. With more interaction, feelings will develop, which is the primary task in the process of blind date.
So, how do boys build trust quickly? There are two directions to operate.
1, identity building.
A person's identity can largely represent his moral quality. ,
For example, the identity of the police gives people a feeling of safety and reliability; Being a teacher gives a gentle image.
If your identity is obvious and your quality is high, then when you meet a girl for the first time, you need to tell her more about your identity, so that she will gain more trust from your identity.
For example, if you are a teacher, you can often talk about your interaction with students or participate in teaching competitions.
The more you know, the stronger your trust.
The more girls know about you, the stronger their trust in you. ,
This is the same as interpersonal communication. The more familiar we are, the more willing we are to trust him.
For some basic information, boys don't let girls guess, take the initiative to chat with girls about their own stories, so that she can learn more information from you.
After establishing trust, our first step was completed, which laid a good foundation for the smooth communication between the two people.
Step 2: Establish? Goodwill? .
When two people have a certain understanding and trust each other enough, then do boys still need to establish relationships with girls? Goodwill? .
In other words: let a girl think that you are not bad, then she will continue to get along with you.
Want to build one for girls? Goodwill? The main task is to build your own? Label? .
In other words, you need to have an obvious feature, so that you can give girls a reason to continue to get along with you.
Suppose, when a girl's friend asks her: What is your blind date like? ?
Then at least you need to make it easy for her to tell your characteristics, such as your gentleness, handsomeness, humor and so on.
What should a girl do if she can't tell you for a long time? Label? That proves that you are a failure.
You need to find your own advantages first, and then, when you get along with girls, consciously show your own advantages, so it is easy to create yours in the hearts of girls? Label? .
Step 3: let girls have it? The feeling of love? .
When girls have some affection for you, then the goal of boys should be to make girls feel that they are in love when they get along with you.
For a girl, love is the core of a relationship. When she feels that she is with you and has the feeling of love, she will gradually fall in love with you.
Just like we said above, right? Blind date? The way to understand, the purpose will be stronger, and boys can chase girls relatively directly.
Want girls to have it? The feeling of love? Boys need to do: let girls feel cared for.
For example, when you are on a business trip, don't forget to bring her some small gifts; When dating for dinner, learn some of her favorite dishes; Prepare a present for her on her birthday.
When a girl thinks you care about her enough, she can easily feel the feeling of love.
Step 4: Guide girls to this relationship? Investment? .
When girls start to have some good feelings for you, you need to guide them? Investment? The purpose of this relationship is to make girls feel good about this relationship? Investment? The more so, the more she will cherish this relationship and love you more and more.
If you want a girl to participate in the your relationship, you need to make her invest more time, energy and emotion in the your relationship.
For example, * * * plans to travel together, so that girls can invest time and energy; Tell some of your stories, get girls into the mood, and so on.
In short, boys should remember that our purpose is to guide girls to this relationship? Investment? More and more, the feelings between you will be more and more consolidated.
In fact, chasing girls is not difficult. With proper methods and skills, you can get twice the result with half the effort.