There are many sweet couples in the entertainment circle. Nicky Wu, who was born in Little Tiger, and Liu Shishi, who is sweet-looking, are married despite the age gap of 17 years, and their married life is happy. Hannah Quinlivan, who has a beautiful face, got the 14-year-old "King of Heaven" Jay Chou with her own charm. The two have always loved each other.
Love a person, sometimes age is not a problem, and sometimes there is nothing wrong with not caring about age. But everything must have a bottom line. If it is too bad, the result will be counterproductive. The older you get, the different your needs and understanding of love will be. So how can two people know each other and love each other? How to have a happy ending? I believe readers should be able to guess the marriage case I will talk about next, which is related to cross-age love. It tells the story of a 60-year-old man who married a beautiful wife of 25 years old.
Li Ren is the boss of a construction company. He is good at business management and has accumulated rich property for himself. Although my career is in full swing, my life is not happy. He started a business with his wife in his early years. But with the development of his career, his feelings with his wife are getting weaker and weaker. The couple began to separate five years ago and hardly met each other except in the company.
After his separation from his wife, his love life was basically zero. When he met Wang Xin, his life began to change. Xin Wang, a 22-year-old female college graduate, is applying to be his secretary. Xin Wang is beautiful, lively and cheerful, which injects a refreshing agent into his boring life. He thinks he likes Xin Wang very much and often takes her to meet clients. And Xin Wang also has a good impression on Lao Li, who is mature and stable and has a successful career.
With the extension of their time together, their feelings gradually warmed up, and Lao Li even felt that his life could not be separated from Xin Wang. Soon after, the two lived together. He decided to divorce his wife and marry Xin Wang. Friends told him that he valued his money when he was with Xin Wang. But he felt that this was a marriage given to him by God, and it was the magic of love that brought them together.
He finally divorced his ex-wife. With Xin Wang, he feels much younger. At first, Xin Wang obeyed him, but he also tried to satisfy her by buying her expensive bags and luxury cars. He also transferred part of his property to her name. He felt that this would strengthen their relationship.
However, the good times did not last long. Because of a business mistake, Lao Li's company went from bad to worse, owing a lot of money to the bank, and Lao Li's company was on the verge of bankruptcy. At this time, the two married less than a year, and Lao Li was depressed and eventually fell ill in bed. But he found his wife dressed up all day. He felt suspicious inside. He finally found his wife Xin Wang with another man. He was so angry that he gave almost everything for her, but all he got was deception and betrayal. That night, he and Wang Xin had a big fight. Xin Wang is not ashamed at all: "You are too old, I am still young, let's get a divorce." Hearing this sentence, he felt that his world had collapsed and his mind was blank. He tried to keep her, but Xin Wang wouldn't do it, crying for a divorce every day. He was exhausted and finally divorced her. After the divorce, Lao Li was in a trance all day, and finally went crazy and wandered around the street unkempt. Relatives and friends are crying when they mention him.
"It seems that age is still an insurmountable gap in marriage." After listening to his story, the author once told his friends with emotion. His friend said meaningfully at the time: "It's not all about age. The difference between them is more than 30 years old and their experiences are different. How can we make them know each other and love each other? One is aging, like rotten dead wood; The other is full of youthful vitality, just like a delicate and charming flower. Can this flower grow on this dead tree? What's more, both of them have impure motives, one is to lust after each other's youth and beauty, and the other is to lust after each other's property. This love is impure from the beginning. How can this marriage last? "
Love is the soil for cultivating flowers, and marriage is the flower growing in the soil. If the soil is poor at first, the potted flowers will dry up and die sooner or later. This soil needs two people to take care of it, water it and fertilize it, so that it can become more fertile and the flowers will grow more beautiful and stronger.
Many people always think that age is not a problem in front of love. As long as two people love each other, that's enough. Don't couples with many age gaps still live happily?
When you meet a woman you like who has an age gap with you, you must first make sure that you can cultivate the soil of love with her? Did you marry her (him) out of pure love? If so, I believe you will have a happy marriage. If not, then you should think carefully.
The age gap will generally show the gap between them more obviously. After all, there is still a certain generation gap in their views on life. Yes, in the face of love, the age gap can sometimes be crossed, but it is not arbitrary. The soil of love still needs to know each other, love each other and work together. Only in this way can a beautiful flower of marriage bloom.