Grasping your weakness and not paying back the money makes you want to cry and feel deeply depressed.
Of course, there are still some good people, which requires your eyes. In short, cover your wallet, recognize the Chu people and worry less.
After buying a house, my classmates lent me 5000; She didn't ask me about buying a house. After I found it, I gave it to her at 1500, and she only had 4 1.63 yuan in her hand.
We met at the simplest age and helped each other at the most embarrassing age. Many people may look down on such money at all, but it is not easy for us to understand each other.
20 17, no money to buy a house, parents help, reach out to classmates and friends for help, 5000; 10000; More and more, less and less. We will never feel distressed because our classmates don't lend us or lend us less money, only understanding and gratitude!
I saw her circle of friends. Today's birthday, I sent her a small red envelope, wishing her forever 18 years old.
During the chat, I learned that she bought a house, but she didn't ask me for money. She was short of money, so I gave her the only 1500 yuan I had. Although I have a credit card to return tomorrow, I have it in my hand today. I know it must be difficult for her to buy a house, so I can let her breathe a sigh of relief first and then transfer it to her when I have more money in my hand!
Not only she, but all the students who lent us money at the beginning are the same. I don't have much as long as he (she) needs it. No shortage? It won't help much, just slow down!
In this society, there are not many people who can lend you money, and even fewer people can lend you money on their own initiative. I won't pretend that nothing happened just because I'm not rich. I will try my best, even if it is not much at one time, then I will help you several times more!
High school classmates go their separate ways after marriage. We haven't seen each other for more than six years, and we haven't been in regular contact. However, I will use my weak strength to make her rely on her for a while!
She once mentioned that when we bought a house, she lent us 5000 yuan, which I forced. She feels guilty!
At that time, her second child was just born and she had no money to eat milk powder, but I didn't know. I thought she was at least supported by a bride price when she got married. She told me that the bride price was tepid and her husband took it to pay off the debt. Up to now, she didn't dare to tell her family. In that case, she also lent me 5000 yuan; After I know, I feel guilty!
Money can alienate the original intimate relationship; It can also make the already good relationship better! I have been there!
I used to think that I had a best sister in my life, from elementary school to college (she went to work without graduating from junior high school). For more than ten years, my sisters are deeply in love. Many adults know that we have a good relationship. When I was graduating from college, I asked her to lend me 2000 yuan, but she lost contact and didn't answer my phone. Later, I pretended to contact me as if nothing had happened, but I didn't know that I was no longer moved by her in a few words!
Friends, classmates, fellow villagers, colleagues, which identity is not important! The important thing is that that person deserves my sincere treatment!