1 Don't ask why many people ask each other at the end of a relationship. Why did you break up with me? What is wrong with me? I can change it. Are you in love with someone else? If a person decides to break up with you, no matter what the reason, you must think it over. Not loving is not loving. There is no reason. There is no reason and logic to talk about feelings. He is the one who teases you and wants to break up. But what if you get the answer? The facts are often unbearable. In this case, it is better to turn around beautifully.
2 don't pester and recover. Actually, this is the most disgusting thing. When a person has said goodbye to you, it must be well thought out, even if he doesn't love you at all. It's useless for you to pester and fight. Not only can you not save people's hearts, but you will also increase his determination to break up.
3 Do not delete or add contact information. After adding and deleting a breakup, many people will delete the other party's phone number, WeChat, etc. However, some people who are not firm will delete and add, but they can't help but send him greetings in the morning, evening and evening, or remind him not to catch a cold when eating and dressing. At this time, if he is determined to break up, he will not respond. At this time, you began to feel sorry for yourself and hated being so humble, so you deleted him again. Girl, are you so tired? After breaking up, he is a stranger to you. Whether he is good or not has nothing to do with you.
Don't hurt yourself. This is the stupidest way. Do you think he will sympathize with you if you hurt yourself? Apart from your parents, there may be few such people in this world. It is you who are hurt, and it is your parents who are sad. Think about it, you hurt yourself, and he has nothing to lose. To put it bluntly, he may think you are crazy!
Don't expose each other's shortcomings. Some people may not be reconciled after breaking up, and they think that I am so good at breaking up with me, and you will expose each other's shortcomings. This kind of thing must not be done. An educated person, even if the other person is wrong in everything, should not suffer from breaking up since he once loved. Keep a little bit of beauty in his heart, okay?
Don't wait for the other person to turn around. Now that we have broken up, let's make a clean break. A good horse never returns to the grass. No matter who proposed it, there must be a reason to break up with him. Since he will break up, it proves that he doesn't like some parts of you, and even if he is together again in the future, he won't like some parts of you, so don't wait for the other person to turn around and find someone who really loves you and understands you.
I remember a saying that it is good for you to leave, otherwise I have been worried that you will leave. You can't keep the people who are leaving. Waiting, revenge, and retention are meaningless, but they make their posture ugly. After breaking up, let go, don't say goodbye, don't be mean, and make the other person happy. So, if you want to break up, make a clean break.