The main contents of this lecture are: strategies and methods of parent-child communication. First of all, Teacher Liu talked about the important role of mother in the family. Mother decides the future of the motherland. The important role of mother in children's growth is described in detail by quoting classics, such as Watt's, Edison's, Meng Mu's three tricks, mother-in-law's tattoo, and Zhou Enlai's mother (later adopted by three aunts). The success of these celebrities is closely related to their mothers' education. Then I said the types of parents: the first one is willing to spend money for children. First of all, it depends on the money spent, right? Teacher Liu told a story that happened around him: some parents pay attention to fashion, and for vanity, they spend a lot of money to perm their 4-and 5-year-old children, let them sit still for 3 or 4 hours, and lure them to watch cartoons to kill time. I don't know how much harm such parents have done to their children. Normal children's eyesight can't be fully developed until 12 years old. It is conceivable that letting children watch cartoons for such a long time will have any impact on their eyesight. It was also said that "fear" has the greatest influence on children, and 0-2 years old is an important period for children's sense of security. If the child's sense of security is not well established, it is easy for the child to give up halfway when he is older. At this stage, the mother is the most important person for the child. If a mother is angry with her child, the damage will be like an adult suffering from an earthquake. The toxins in her body can kill mice when she is angry. The second is: willing to spend time for children. Nowadays, most parents are willing to spend time on their children's study. Some quit their jobs for their children to go to school and rent a house near the school to serve their children's three meals a day and daily life. I don't know that such excessive substitution of parents stifles the child's self-care and self-reliance ability, and cultivates a high score and low energy, which can also be called a giant baby. The third is willing to study for children. Of course, it is this type of parents that is advocated now. Only when parents study hard can children make progress every day. The fourth is to change yourself for children. In fact, children are a mirror of their parents. Children's bad behaviors and problems often come from parents, and parents need to constantly reflect and change themselves. Parents should remember not to vent their negative emotions on their children. Teacher Liu told an example that happened to her classmates and colleagues, which made her and the audience deeply sorry. A good child is insane because of his parents' experience and way of doing things, and what is more sad is that the child's mother has not realized that the problem lies with herself until now. Ignorant parents need to learn and change themselves too much. Nowadays, the state has attached importance to family education. Through expert education lectures, arouse parents' continuous learning, understanding and attention to family education, read more books, update the concept of family education, and educate children not to put their grades first, so that children can become adults first and then become talents.