Can people who don't match the zodiac really not get married?

Letter from netizen 1: Teacher Dong: My boyfriend and I have been in love for several years and are going to get married. But his mother looked at the fortune teller and said that I was gold and he was wood. I rebelled against him and didn't agree to our marriage. Marriage needs the blessing of parents. We don't want to give up our feelings, but we don't want to have conflicts with adults, so we have to ask you. My boyfriend was born in 198 1, and I was born in 1985. Do you think I can really beat him? Netizen letter 2: Teacher Dong: I am a mouse, and my boyfriend is a sheep. I heard that the marriage between sheep and mice is not good. Is it true?/You don't say. We really can't be together? The letters from these two friends are all about marriage. The first letter is about the marriage of the five elements, and the second letter is about the marriage of the zodiac. Because there is some relationship between these two ways of marriage, I will combine them here today to answer them together. In the first letter, this friend only mentioned the year of birth and the five elements, which should refer to Yin Na's five elements. 198 1 year; 1985, the second ugliest. There is a saying in Song of Sixty Jiazi that Jiazi is as ugly as sea gold, and Geng Shen has pomegranate wood in his heart. This is probably the origin of the sentence "I am gold, he is wood, and I can beat him" mentioned in the letter. In the second letter, the saying that the marriage between the zodiac mouse and the zodiac sheep is not good is summed up in the widely circulated Marriage Song of the Zodiac: "Since ancient times, white horses have been afraid of green cows. Once sheep and mice meet, snakes and tigers get married like knives, rabbits see the dragon king in tears, golden roosters and jade dogs can't escape, and pigs and apes have no end." Among them, there is a more detailed explanation about "once the sheep and the mouse intersect, they will stop": "once the sheep and the mouse intersect, it is difficult to match the marriage. If you commit sheep and mice, the husband and wife will not be able to settle down at home. " These two ways of marriage were widely circulated in the old society, especially the marriage of the zodiac, which is almost a household name, which is what people usually call "big marriage". Today, there is still a big market among the people, and many elderly people are very jealous of it. But as I often tell you, the zodiac will play a certain role to some extent, but after all, the zodiac only occupies one word in the eight characters, which is not decisive. As for getting married according to Yin Na's five elements, its accuracy is not to mention. Because from the perspective of numerology, the positive five elements (the five elements of the Chinese zodiac) are the main ones, and Yin Na's five elements are the auxiliary ones. The main five elements of the China Zodiac are still not decisive, not to mention Yin Na's five elements in an auxiliary position. So these two friends don't have to pay too much attention to these two statements. If you really have scruples, it is recommended to ask a professional to get married. From a professional point of view, marriage should be based on the birthdays of both men and women, combined with their own numerology likes and dislikes. Dong Yilin warmly reminds: Marriage is a big event, don't be hasty!