Whether eating together every day or celebrating birthdays or festivals every year, nothing is more valuable to a family than establishing family traditions. In jiaozi during the Spring Festival, firecrackers, or cakes and candles on birthdays are very important, because they give children the meaning of life, strengthen the affection between family members and teach them the meaning of "lasting". Equally precious are the unique traditions of each family, such as going out for dinner every weekend and watching a children's movie at the end of each month. These familiar and intimate traditional habits will bring a strong sense of security to children.
2. Singing birds are the happiest.
People often say that music can cultivate people's sentiment, which is not bad at all. In ancient times, westerners believed that music could heal a person's physical and mental trauma. Modern children's medical research has found that listening to their favorite songs to sick children can alleviate their pain symptoms. Adults also have this experience. Listening to a good song sometimes makes people feel refreshed and relaxed. For children, whenever the whole family sings a favorite children's song together, he will be very happy.
3. Happiness will also be amplified.
Taking an active part in social activities has taught children at least two things. For example, parents actively participate in kindergarten sports meetings with their children, or actively participate in children's club performances, and children will realize that their parents attach importance to him, which will greatly enhance his self-confidence. At the same time, parents' participation also taught children the basic meaning of "society". It makes children feel that they are part of this big society, and everyone can contribute to others through it. Expert research also shows that there is a close relationship between dedication and happiness. Let children take part in community cleaning, or visit the elderly in the community, even children will find happiness from it.
4: Goodbye! Negative comments
Adults often comment on all kinds of people and things, including many negative things. For example, parents comment that the director of children's kindergarten is incompetent, or the doctors in children's hospitals are sloppy, and so on. Parents may not be aware of the impact of these comments on their children. But in fact, they will make children gradually lose trust in the people around them and the environment, thus losing their sense of security. Children without security will not be happy. Parents should let their children feel that the world is beautiful and people are good people in essence.