It is our duty to prepare for your old age. I haven't heard of buying a house for my brother-in-law. What if the mother-in-law goes too far?

My wife and I met in college. She is a very optimistic and cheerful person. I am really attracted to her, even if my mother objects, I will marry her again. We don't like my mother unless she objects. On the contrary, she thinks my wife is a very good girl. Of course not because she is from the countryside. My mother has no such concept of urban and rural areas. In fact, my mother liked my wife at first, otherwise we wouldn't have been together for that long.

The biggest reason why my mother doesn't agree to our marriage is because of my wife's parents. She thinks such in-laws are difficult to get along with and will be a problem in the future. It was only because of my insistence that my mother finally agreed to our marriage. It's just that we don't deal with our mother-in-law after marriage. We just went back to see them during the holiday. Actually, it's not that our family bullies our wife and prevents her from communicating more. The wife herself has conflicts with her parents. Because my mother-in-law is very strange, every time their relatives come to the city to do business or even see a doctor, our family is the base of these relatives and specializes in receiving all kinds of relatives.

My parents' practices are completely different. They don't live with us either. They live in an old house with two bedrooms. But people from my hometown, my mother always let them stay in hotels, saying that they don't want to disturb our lives. However, her mother-in-law said that her daughters all live in the city, and relatives living in hotels are not authentic. All relatives who come to our place say that her mother-in-law is good and her life is good, and her daughter is married in the city. What I said is very unreasonable, and my mother-in-law's face is full of joy.

In fact, everyone has relatives, and we don't mind visiting occasionally, but if we visit regularly, our life will be really disturbed. My mother-in-law doesn't care about this, as long as she has face. Generally speaking, what she wants us to do, just say it, can't be seen at all.

Just like the other day, we went to my mother-in-law's house to pay New Year's greetings. We had a good time. When my mother-in-law opened her mouth, I lost interest in eating. Mother-in-law said: Xiao Li, your brother didn't come back during the Spring Festival this year, saying that the company had something to do, so he should show more this year and go to a higher level. My wife is also very happy to hear this. This is because my brother-in-law has the ability. It's just that our smiling faces haven't opened yet, and my mother-in-law added: He called back last month and said he was getting married, and now his girlfriend's house is urging us to buy a house. What do you think of this?

After hearing this, my wife and I didn't talk, but everyone could know what she meant. My father-in-law looked at the ice and quickly said a few good words. We pretended not to understand and continued to eat. After dinner, we offered to go home. I thought it was over, but last night, my mother-in-law called and called me directly. As soon as the phone was connected, it hit the nail on the head. My brother-in-law asked us to pay 200,000 yuan to buy a house. At that time, my mother-in-law had a good tone and said she wanted to borrow it from me. I am a brother-in-law. When my brother-in-law has the ability, he will definitely pay it back. She offered to borrow it, but I couldn't refuse it outright. It's just that 200 thousand is not a small sum. My own company was rebuilt years ago, and I don't have that much liquidity on me. Even if it is borrowed, it will take some time. How did you get it so quickly?

After receiving my mother-in-law's phone call, I really want to help him, but I can't ask my buddy to do something until after the holiday. Who knows, my mother-in-law came to my house in a hurry the next day, saying that we were rich and didn't even help my brother. This daughter was born in vain. The college students she trained were sent directly to my home. Scold my wife and me, and listen to these unreasonable words, I will be in a bad mood at once. If she wasn't my mother-in-law, I would definitely let her go.

I told my mother-in-law directly that I helped this matter, and I have no obligation to help. It is our responsibility to prepare for your old age. We have never heard of adopting a brother-in-law. Hearing this, the mother-in-law scolded even more fiercely, saying that her wife was useless and should not have been born in the first place. When he left, he said he would break up with us. My wife has been crying at home since her mother-in-law left. Looking at my sad wife, I have a little regret. After all, it is her mother. Am I going too far?