The husband of a woman in Hangzhou once insulted his ex-wife and threatened to "kill you". How to avoid such a man?

The disappearance of Ms. Lai in Hangzhou finally came to a conclusion. In addition to the cruelty of the case itself, the character of her husband Xu Moumou has also become a topic of relish. In recent years, the tragedy caused by domestic violence has been on the rise, and love rat love rat has also become a kind of? Pop culture? Although it is necessary to harm others, it is also necessary to prevent others, even in marriage. Who would have thought that the husband who was poised in front of the camera was actually the murderer who secretly dismembered the body, so if the other half was not chosen, it would be equivalent to half stepping into the grave of life, as the old saying goes. Are women afraid of marrying the wrong man? It's not unreasonable, so how can we avoid this type of man?

1, with unequal economic strength, Ms. Xu, who likes to relax and work hard, likes to speculate in stocks. He doesn't have the ability to make money himself, so he wants to borrow money from Ms. Lai for stock trading. In addition to this factor, he also coveted Ms. Lai's house and wanted to give her son a set. After being rejected by Ms. Lai, she held a grudge against Ms. Lai because of some trivial contradictions in her daily life, which eventually led to tragedy.

Living with two people is actually equivalent to finding a life partner. The economic strength is the best, and the difference is too much. There may be no contradiction when two people get along happily, but once there is a contradiction, it is difficult for the party with better economic strength not to feel superior. If the economic strength is not the same, it may be almost the same. The money of a good party is different, but two people living together can't live a higher and lower quality of life.

2. See friends, observe personality and then decide to get married. It's best to check each other's credit information. Some swindlers are very good at camouflage. Gao Fushuai on the surface may not be Gao Fushuai. The case of murdering the woman to withdraw money because of the credit problem has never happened before. Generally speaking, most people who are infected with gambling and borrow a lot at a young age have no ambition. He may not kill you, but living with him is unlikely to be very happy.

So be sure to see more of his friends before marriage and observe the way they get along. His friends are usually his mirrors. If his friend likes cheating and has many bad virtues, so does he to a great extent. Don't expect him to be an exception. People walk by the river, how can they not wet their shoes? Don't always expect small probability events to happen to them. This is usually impossible. There is a saying circulating on the internet: marry one. In fact, it makes sense to think about it carefully. When you get along, you can't just look at the superficial phenomenon, but observe him through the things around you. There are always some details you can find.

Don't just covet feelings. Most people think that love is beautiful. In fact, love is a delicate flower, which is expensive and sounds vulgar, but it is true. Behind every seemingly gorgeous love, it takes money and time to build, but most people don't have that much money, and most of them only happen in novels, so when choosing objects, try to be realistic and be better to yourself.

Because of her first love, Ms. Lai of Hangzhou married Xu at all costs. If Xu Moumou is just an honest man, then Ms. Lai's life is at best dull, but it happened that Ms. Lai met an inappropriate person. Looking back on the case, maybe Xu was greedy for Ms. Lai's money at the beginning, which made people think very carefully.

Most women are emotional and attach great importance to feelings in marriage, so a failed marriage has a great influence on a woman. If marriage is a gamble, it is better to be as safe as possible in choosing candidates. People with a history of gambling may change, but you must not judge a person by his performance without trying. You can only see it from the feedback from people around you, and you can avoid unhappy situations.