If you lose money, you are not a loser, because the value of life is not in the purse.
If you lose civilization, you are a complete failure, because you have lost the true meaning of being a man.
Civilization covers the relationship between people, people and society, and people and nature. Its main functions are: first, to pursue the perfection of personal morality; Second, safeguard public interests and public order.
Speaking of politeness, I think of a story. On one occasion, Comrade Lenin went downstairs, and in the narrow corridor of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. As soon as the women workers see Lenin, they will step back and make way. Lenin stopped her and said, "Don't do this. You're halfway done, and I'm empty-handed. Please go first! " He said the word "please" loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and told the girl to go upstairs, and then he went downstairs. Isn't this also a sign of politeness?
I don't want to give too many examples of great men here, because it's easy for everyone to have an illusion: if we think that politeness is only for great men and celebrities, then we don't have to feel guilty for our more or less uncivilized words and deeds; Or think that even if you practice the requirements of civilization, you can't become a great man or a celebrity. We need not only moral figures, but also a group of moral people.
The civilization degree of a society can reflect the civilization degree of a society and a country. A person's failure to observe social civilization will have a small impact on his own image and a big impact on the national reputation. During the Qing Dynasty, Minister Li Hongzhang went to Russia. In public, he had a bad habit of spitting everywhere, which was greatly exaggerated and ridiculed by foreign journalists and humiliated China people. This is a historical lesson of not obeying social civilization.
Public civilization is the embodiment of social consciousness, and public civilization is based on the level of personal moral cultivation. Imagine, if a person does not pay attention to his own civilization, will he have a good civilization? Don't! Personal civilization etiquette is the root and foundation. If people want to have a good civilization, they must start from themselves and start from the side. Therefore, Mr. Lu Xun said: "If China wants to survive and compete in the world, its first thing is to establish people, and then people will do everything." "Educating people" means improving people's thinking and civilization. Man's civilization is not innate, but constantly improved the day after tomorrow. To improve one's self-cultivation, one must first concentrate on studying and improve one's cognitive level; When cognition reaches a certain level, there is the ability to distinguish right from wrong; With the ability to distinguish right from wrong, good and evil, we must correct our mentality, not violate our conscience, and strive to make our words and deeds conform to moral standards, so that our self-cultivation will be improved. This is what the ancients said: being realistic, knowledgeable, sincere, upright and self-cultivation. Only by perfecting personal moral cultivation can there be a basis for promoting social civilization.
The civilized atmosphere of a society also has a great influence on its people. Why do you say that? I believe that some students have been to Europe or Japan and have personal experience. Not to mention the big ones, I have seen such a small thing as the road. As long as the red light is on, foreigners will never cross the road even if there are no cars on the road. They think this is a public civilization that must be observed. Excuse me, in such an atmosphere, who will run a red light unscrupulously? This is the power of social atmosphere. But think again, if we don't start from ourselves, where does this social atmosphere come from?
A reporter interviewed a scientist who won the Nobel Prize. "Professor, where did you learn the most important thing in life?" , "in kindergarten. There, I learned things that will benefit me for life, such as having good things to share with friends, being modest, and washing hands before eating ... "The same is true for us to improve our civilization. We don't necessarily have any big measures, but start with these small things: washing our hands when eating around us. Cultivate the habit of civilization, let the concept of civilization enter the unconscious level from the conscious level, and let civilization run through our every move.
We have been educated in civilized manners since childhood, and many students can talk about civilized manners at length. However, seeing lunch boxes and beverage bottles discarded everywhere on campus and hearing some students' swearing words, how can we not teach people grief! Are we all "giants of language and dwarfs of action"? Wang Shouren, a great scholar in the Ming Dynasty, said: "Knowing is the idea of doing, and doing is the kung fu of knowing; Knowing is the beginning of doing, and doing is the achievement of knowing; Knowing and doing is noumenon and kung fu. Knowing and not doing it is just unknown. " We receive the education of civilization and etiquette, but we are stingy with it or even do the opposite, which is different from never receiving social education! Therefore, if we want to practice social civilization, we must work hard from this "unity of knowing and doing", work hard from our own words, and bid farewell to uncivilized behavior.
We don't have to complain that the civilization of this society is not high; Don't complain that your strength is too thin and has little impact on society. Imagine, isn't there very little yeast in bread? However, isn't this yeast alone the initiator of bread? Each of our classmates should be the yeast of this era, and let their own enzymes play their due role in this society.
Students, let's take action, "new century, new era, new country and new civilization", don't let civilization just appear on paper, let it be active among us, let civilization be everywhere, let us be the masters of civilization and let civilization walk with me!
In a country, the individual is the subject. What is the most important thing for an individual? I think the first thing is to have a civilized quality. Only when everyone has the quality of civilization can the overall quality of this country be improved.
Good behavior habits are the premise to ensure our smooth study and the foundation to build a healthy personality. Students who don't have good behavior habits at school may be undisciplined and don't pay attention to hygiene, which will disturb the learning environment of the class. On the contrary, if we develop civilized behavior habits, the learning environment must be good and orderly. We know that students in a school can only build a good learning environment and create a good learning atmosphere if they have good civilized behavior habits. Now, we are in the most critical growth period in our lives. What we do in this period will have a subtle influence on our own psychological quality, and civilized behavior will help us improve our psychological quality and moral quality at the same time. If we don't pay special attention to the cultivation of our moral quality at this time, then even if we have rich scientific and cultural knowledge, what is the use of people to ourselves and society? Therefore, first of all, we should be an upright person, a civilized and polite gentleman, and then we can become talents. We should not be machines that simply master knowledge and skills, but people with harmonious development of body and mind. Civilization is the frontier of our quality. With civilization, we have the most precious spiritual wealth in the world.
I remember a famous person once said: the realization of virtue is made up of behavior, not words. Numerous examples show that the key to a brilliant career and a successful life is noble sentiment. However, the most basic question is: what kind of mental outlook, what kind of ideological quality and what kind of moral standards should we take over the baton of human civilization?
The president of Nankai University wrote a motto on the mirror: "Face should be straight, hair should be cut, clothes should be repaired, buttons should be tied, head should be straight, shoulders should be flat, chest should be wide, back should be straight, weather should not be arrogant, colors should be peaceful and clothes should be properly installed." As a middle school student, we must understand that our appearance should at least conform to the atmosphere of the school and the identity of the students, and maintaining a generous and decent appearance is a kind of respect for teachers and classmates.
Students, civilized etiquette is the minimum moral standard of human society, and it is the external expression of one's ideological realm, knowledge level, moral quality, cultural accomplishment and communication ability. Ushinski, a famous Russian educator, said: "Good behavior habits are a kind of capital." The formation of good manners and habits can be transformed into a person's inner character and sentiment. Image etiquette involves not only the individual's own image, but also the overall image of the school, society and even the country and nation.
Civilization is the wind, which can blow every student's heart; Image etiquette is a flower that can make the campus more beautiful. Fierce social competition does not allow us to stay in self-pity, let "image etiquette stay in our hearts", let us "learn etiquette well and beautify our image" and strive to build our own life building with our arms.
Civilization and etiquette are the foundation of our study and life, and the arm of our healthy growth. Without civilization and basic moral bottom line, even if we have profound scientific and cultural knowledge, what is the use to people and society? To learn everything to be a man is to learn to be a man, to learn to be civilized, to learn to learn to be social, to learn to keep the environment clean and tidy, to learn to learn to be a civilized campus, and to start with me and every little thing, so that the flowers of civilized etiquette can blossom everywhere on campus.
China is an ancient civilization, and has always been known as "the state of etiquette". Paying attention to etiquette is not only the embodiment of a person's spiritual civilization, but also a symbol of the civilization degree of a nation and a country to some extent. In the biographical culture of China dominated by Confucianism, etiquette occupies a core position. Etiquette is the symbol of being a man, the norm of self-discipline and the criterion of communication. Civilization and etiquette are the foundation of our study and life, and the arm of our healthy growth. Without civilization and basic moral bottom line, even if we have profound scientific and cultural knowledge, what is the use to people and society?
We must first learn to be human, learn to be civilized, clean the environment and civilize the campus. However, in our campus, there will be some discordant notes, and there will always be some unsatisfactory phenomena. Just after cleaning the campus, our classmates threw away the food packaging bags and beverage bottles; In the clean campus, on both sides of the stairs, in the classroom, look at our ground. There are always classmates who want to throw it, and there are confetti plastic bags that our classmates throw at will. In the tense class, some students are depressed; After ringing the bell, some students are still twittering and even talking loudly; At the solemn flag-raising ceremony, some students were looking around and whispering; Some students are influenced by some bad habits, such as swearing, swearing, quarreling and chasing. The above phenomenon not only seriously violates the students' daily behavior norms, but also destroys the beautiful and harmonious environment provided by the school.
It seems that manners are very important. So, what should we do? Civilized etiquette should pay attention to peacetime, cultivate from childhood and develop good habits. There is an old saying: "Less becomes nature, and habit becomes nature." The story of "Liu Bei's three visits to the cottage" shows that only by respecting others can you gain their respect and trust and succeed in your career. We should learn from Premier Zhou, and American President Nixon commented on this in his book Leaders. Nixon said: "Zhou Enlai's agility and wit far exceed that of any other world leader I know. This is China's unique and special character, and it is also the essence of various China civilizations developed over the centuries. He is very modest, but calm and firm. " Zhou Enlai's civilized speech, polite manners, convincing temperament and demeanor are vivid manifestations of his noble character, broad mind, extraordinary wisdom and beautiful and noble mind. Zhou Enlai devoted his whole life to the cause of the Party and the people, but every time he went out to inspect the work, he always shook hands with waiters, chefs, guards and medical staff to express his gratitude. Premier Zhou is an example of respecting others and learning from us. To be civilized and polite, everyone needs to start from me and start from small things. When we contact a person, we often give him some comments: "This person is of high quality and personable"; "This man is educated and speaks politely"; "This man is so bad that he can't even say a good word"; "This man is vulgar and foul-mouthed"; "This man is so sloppy that his clothes are wrinkled and his face has not been wiped clean" ... A high-quality and educated person must have good manners. Such people will be respected and welcomed. When we saw a clean and tidy campus, did you see the sweat paid by the cleaners? When we are chattering in the classroom, do you know the hard work of teachers in class? When we are raising the national flag, do you have any idea how much revolutionary ancestors' blood is used to dye this five-star red flag? At this time, can we still say that you respect others? So, will you be respected by others?
The wind of etiquette has been passed down for thousands of years. In today's society, from the exchange of visits between heads of state to the communication between ordinary people, from the smile of political masters to the handshake of business masters, the brilliance of civilization and etiquette shines. Now, our country pays more and more attention to civilized manners, such as advocating civilized manners; Publication of "Popular Reader of Civilized Etiquette"; Carry out a variety of activities such as the "Civil Civilization and Etiquette Competition". Once when I was playing in the park, I saw a four-or five-year-old child with a piece of food wrapping paper in his hand. After a long walk, he found the dustbin and threw the paper in. Seeing this scene, I think anyone will be moved. This incident is enough to prove the achievements of China's civilized etiquette education.
We are the little masters of the country. We are rich in material life today, and we need to build a high-level spiritual civilization. Good manners and customs will affect your study, your life and even your later life. Civilized manners and behaviors, together with quiet, elegant and comfortable learning environment and rich cultural atmosphere, will inspire us to explore and seek knowledge. Therefore, students let us join hands and give us a civilized and beautiful campus. From now on, from me, from every little thing, resolutely abandon all kinds of uncivilized behaviors on us and develop good behavior habits. Be a sincere, friendly, polite and noble student, and be a diligent and active student. Let the flowers of civilization bloom all over the campus, and let the civilized behavior accompany us forever.
If you lose today, you are not a loser, because you will come back tomorrow.
If you lose money, you are not a loser, because the value of life is not in the purse.
If you lose civilization, you are a complete failure, because you have lost the true meaning of being a man.
Civilization covers the relationship between people, people and society, and people and nature. Its main functions are: first, to pursue the perfection of personal morality; Second, safeguard public interests and public order.
Speaking of politeness, I think of a story. On one occasion, Comrade Lenin went downstairs, and in the narrow corridor of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. As soon as the women workers see Lenin, they will step back and make way. Lenin stopped her and said, "Don't do this. You're halfway done, and I'm empty-handed. Please go first! " He said the word "please" loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and told the girl to go upstairs, and then he went downstairs. Isn't this also a sign of politeness?
I don't want to give too many examples of great men here, because it's easy for everyone to have an illusion: if we think that politeness is only for great men and celebrities, then we don't have to feel guilty for our more or less uncivilized words and deeds; Or think that even if you practice the requirements of civilization, you can't become a great man or a celebrity. We need not only moral figures, but also a group of moral people.
The civilization degree of a society can reflect the civilization degree of a society and a country. A person's failure to observe social civilization will have a small impact on his own image and a big impact on the national reputation. During the Qing Dynasty, Minister Li Hongzhang went to Russia. In public, he had a bad habit of spitting everywhere, which was greatly exaggerated and ridiculed by foreign journalists and humiliated China people. This is a historical lesson of not obeying social civilization.
Public civilization is the embodiment of social consciousness, and public civilization is based on the level of personal moral cultivation. Imagine, if a person does not pay attention to his own civilization, will he have a good civilization? Don't! Personal civilization etiquette is the root and foundation. If people want to have a good civilization, they must start from themselves and start from the side. Therefore, Mr. Lu Xun said: "If China wants to survive and compete in the world, its first thing is to establish people, and then people will do everything." "Educating people" means improving people's thinking and civilization. Man's civilization is not innate, but constantly improved the day after tomorrow. To improve one's self-cultivation, one must first concentrate on studying and improve one's cognitive level; When cognition reaches a certain level, there is the ability to distinguish right from wrong; With the ability to distinguish right from wrong, good and evil, we must correct our mentality, not violate our conscience, and strive to make our words and deeds conform to moral standards, so that our self-cultivation will be improved. This is what the ancients said: being realistic, knowledgeable, sincere, upright and self-cultivation. Only by perfecting personal moral cultivation can there be a basis for promoting social civilization.
The civilized atmosphere of a society also has a great influence on its people. Why do you say that? I believe that some students have been to Europe or Japan and have personal experience. Not to mention the big ones, I have seen such a small thing as the road. As long as the red light is on, foreigners will never cross the road even if there are no cars on the road. They think this is a public civilization that must be observed. Excuse me, in such an atmosphere, who will run a red light unscrupulously? This is the power of social atmosphere. But think again, if we don't start from ourselves, where does this social atmosphere come from?
A reporter interviewed a scientist who won the Nobel Prize. "Professor, where did you learn the most important thing in life?" , "in kindergarten. There, I learned things that will benefit me for life, such as having good things to share with friends, being modest, and washing hands before eating ... "The same is true for us to improve our civilization. We don't necessarily have any big measures, but start with these small things: washing our hands when eating around us. Cultivate the habit of civilization, let the concept of civilization enter the unconscious level from the conscious level, and let civilization run through our every move.
We have been educated in civilized manners since childhood, and many students can talk about civilized manners at length. However, seeing lunch boxes and beverage bottles discarded everywhere on campus and hearing some students' swearing words, how can we not teach people grief! Are we all "giants of language and dwarfs of action"? Wang Shouren, a great scholar in the Ming Dynasty, said: "Knowing is the idea of doing, and doing is the kung fu of knowing; Knowing is the beginning of doing, and doing is the achievement of knowing; Knowing and doing is noumenon and kung fu. Knowing and not doing it is just unknown. " We receive the education of civilization and etiquette, but we are stingy with it or even do the opposite, which is different from never receiving social education! Therefore, if we want to practice social civilization, we must work hard from this "unity of knowing and doing", work hard from our own words, and bid farewell to uncivilized behavior.
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We don't have to complain that the civilization of this society is not high; Don't complain that your strength is too thin and has little impact on society. Imagine, isn't there very little yeast in bread? However, isn't this yeast alone the initiator of bread? Each of our classmates should be the yeast of this era, and let their own enzymes play their due role in this society.
Students, let's take action, "new century, new era, new country and new civilization", don't let civilization just appear on paper, let it be active among us, let civilization be everywhere, let us be the masters of civilization and let civilization walk with me!
We need a civilized life.
Wang Bingxiang in the sixth grade
As the saying goes, "parents are the best teachers for children." However, I became a teacher for my mother and influenced the whole family with practical actions. In my mother's words, by changing my mother, I changed not only my mother, but also the people around her, including her colleagues.
It goes back to the winter of the year before last, when it was already very cold. It's very cold in winter in Beijing, so my family drove out to see a movie. Because Olympic officials come to visit Beijing, there are all kinds of plastic flowers everywhere in Beijing, which makes people feel a little warm in winter. We eat snacks and listen to music in the car, which is very comfortable. When I arrived in Dongzhimen, my mother threw the garbage bag filled with garbage outside along the window. It was too late for me to stop it. I asked my father to drive the car back to pick up garbage, and my mother said that the car could not be returned. Besides, there are so many cars on the road. What if I go back and collapse? Mom even said it would be nice to change it next time. But I was determined not to do it, and finally my dad brought the car back. Mother found the rubbish she had thrown away. Although it took a lot of time, the whole family thought I was right. On the way home, many garbage bags of different colors were hung on the trees on both sides of the airport expressway, and the whole family deeply reflected.
Since then, our whole family has become ambassadors of "stressing civilization and protecting the environment" with practical actions. Last week, my family climbed Xiangshan, enjoyed the red leaves and took a lot of food to have a picnic. After the picnic, everyone will collect the garbage separately, carry it down the mountain and throw it where there are trash cans. Such a thing will be done consciously in our family without my supervision. My mother touched me with practical actions. She often picks up the rubbish on the ground in public places and throws it into the trash can.
To be civilized and polite, everyone needs to start from me and start from small things. As small masters of the country, we have the obligation to help those who have not received a good education to learn and practice civilization. Because we are rich in material life today, we need to build a high level of spiritual civilization. Only in this way can our country become a strong and highly civilized country, and civilization can be admired by more people.
Once, I saw on TV that Germany, an ancient European civilization, called on the people of the whole country to be civilized and polite, and to find back the ancient etiquette of the Germanic nation. At the same time, for example, an old woman passed by this road. Although she was the only one on the road, she waited for the red light to turn green. The old woman replied, "I'm afraid the children upstairs will think they can pass when they see the red light." I sent this story to all my grandfathers, grandmothers, fathers and mothers. How important your words and deeds are to us. When you have uncivilized behavior, think about your children! Thought we were an ancient civilization!
I want to use this little experience to tell my classmates that our words and deeds can also influence and change adults! Try it if you don't believe me! Let's all be polite middle school students! In this way, our life can be better and our country can be stronger.
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Civilized manners accompany me.
Eighth grade gong
Our country is a country of etiquette and has always been polite. Confucius believes that "you can't stand without learning etiquette"; Jia Yi in Han Dynasty regarded politeness as the difference between man and beast. In modern civilized society, being civilized and polite should be strongly advocated, because it is of great significance to "form a good social atmosphere of pursuing nobleness and inspiring advanced" and "promote the continuous improvement of the quality of the whole nation". Therefore, we citizens should conform to the requirements of the times, consciously abide by them and be polite and civilized citizens. However, it is a pity that in real life, uncivilized and impolite phenomena often appear.
For example, picking your ears, nose and even feet in front of the public; When listening to others, look around and disdain; Grab, fight for seats and even fight as soon as you get on the bus; Spitting in public places, littering and urinating on the roadside. On June 6, 2004, Beijing Radio and TV News reported that the roadside to the east of Muxidi Science and Technology Museum has become an open-air toilet for taxi drivers, so that it can be smelled every few hundred meters, and residents have great opinions. Residents can't have small opinions. In broad daylight, in broad daylight, it is convenient to say it is convenient on the side of the road without fences. It's really uncivilized It is convenient for people to urinate, but it is not convenient for passers-by. Not only is it inconvenient for pedestrians, but foreigners will not laugh at the low quality of our whole Chinese nation when they see it, because your convenience has discriminated against and implicated the whole nation. What a scandal! Be worthy of raising your motherland?
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John Locke, a famous British educator, said: "Politeness is a habit that children and young people should pay special attention to." We should learn from Premier Zhou, and American President Nixon commented on this in his book Leaders. Nixon said: "Zhou Enlai's agility and wit far exceed that of any other world leader I know. This is China's unique and special character, and it is also the essence of various China civilizations developed over the centuries. He is very modest, but calm and firm. " Zhou Enlai's civilized speech, polite manners, convincing temperament and demeanor are vivid manifestations of his noble character, broad mind, extraordinary wisdom and beautiful and noble mind.
It seems that manners are very important. So, what should we do? First of all, pay attention to cultivate your beautiful and noble mind. On the surface, politeness is external, but in fact, the external form contains internal thoughts and feelings. A truly civilized and polite person is a person with a beautiful heart, and beautiful language comes from a beautiful heart. This is what people often say: "what you say is what you do" and "what you say is what you do". Secondly, we should regulate our words and deeds with the requirements of civilized and polite moral standards in practice. Politeness is very important in performance. It mainly includes four points: ① Modesty and courtesy; 2 civilized speech; 3 dignified behavior; ④ Pay attention to hygiene. I think, if you can do the above four points, you are worthy of being a member of the "state of etiquette".
Goethe, a famous German writer, famously said, "A man's politeness is a mirror, which reflects his portrait." Indeed, people always judge you by your behavior. Because politeness is the golden key for human beings to live in harmony, and only with it can we be happy and happy.
Civilization is a quality that everyone must possess.
The wind of etiquette has been passed down for thousands of years, and China is known as "an ancient civilization" and "a country of etiquette". In today's society, from the exchange of visits between heads of state to the communication between ordinary people, from the smile of political masters to the handshake of business masters, the brilliance of civilization and etiquette shines.
When we contact a person, we often give him some comments: "This person is of high quality and personable"; "This man is educated and speaks politely"; "This man is so bad that he can't even say a good word"; "This man is vulgar and foul-mouthed"; "This man is so sloppy that his clothes are wrinkled and his face has not been wiped clean" ... A high-quality and educated person must have good manners. Such people will be respected and welcomed.
Civilized etiquette should pay attention to peacetime, cultivate from childhood and develop good habits. There is an old saying: "Less becomes nature, and habit becomes nature." The story of "Liu Bei's three visits to the cottage" shows that only by respecting others can you gain their respect and trust and succeed in your career. Zhou Enlai devoted his whole life to the cause of the Party and the people, but every time he went out to inspect the work, he always shook hands with waiters, chefs, guards and medical staff to express his gratitude. Premier Zhou is a model of respecting others and an example for young people to learn. Some people think that freedom is not important in modern society, as long as you study hard, work hard and have real skills. Modern society does respect individual choices and has greater freedom. However, it needs more people's civilized manners, because civilized manners are an important symbol of social civilization. There are more and more "elegant halls" in modern society, and no one wants to be a person who is difficult to board "elegant halls".
Japanese family education attaches great importance to the education of children. The mother cooked the meal without telling the child to eat it. Children can't eat by themselves first. Children must say "you're welcome" before eating. Children have a set of etiquette rules every time they leave home or go home. Children should say "I'm leaving" to their parents every time they go out, and "I'm back" every time they go home and enter the door. The civilized behavior of Japanese children has become their habit.
Japan has strict customs, not to mention our ancient country with a culture of 5,000 years.
Now, our country pays more and more attention to civilized manners, such as advocating civilized manners; Publication of "Popular Reader of Civilized Etiquette"; Carry out a variety of activities such as the "Capital Citizen Civilization and Etiquette Competition". Once I was in the street, I saw four eight or nine-year-old children moving their bicycles away from the blind road. Sweat trickled down their foreheads one after another, but they didn't care. Seeing this scene, I think anyone will be moved by them. This incident is enough to prove the achievements of China's civilized etiquette education.
Civilized manners and behaviors, together with quiet, elegant and comfortable environment and rich cultural atmosphere, will stimulate students to explore and seek knowledge. Good manners and customs can affect your study, your life and even your later life. Why not? Only with deep background, elegant speech and proper manners can we be called real connotative beauty.
There are not enough words. Please choose me. Thank you!