The most important thing is that when I see that many fans don't understand, I will also comment: this is a responsible blogger. I don't know how to die without scolding this visitor.
There are also emotional bloggers who will tell you that you have nothing, and then how to take the baby and find a handsome husband who is 20 years younger than yourself through your own efforts. My mother-in-law is also good to her in all aspects.
I want to say, if you are a visitor, you should really be wary of this so-called blogger. This is not an inspirational story. As a psychological blogger who has also been operating on the Internet for many years, I am very responsible to tell you that the story broadcast is called a joke and has been planned for a long time. Many people are using bad jokes, which is not so-called inspirational at all. Any inspirational story itself cannot escape the role of humanity and reason, not dog blood and reversal. The lives of most of us ordinary people have not changed much. Have a plenty of self-acceptance and insipid.
On the other hand, as professional psychological counselors, they have no right to criticize visitors or judge each other. If you meet them, I want to say that they must be so-called experts who have never even passed the relevant certificates.
This is not a miracle. What's even more amazing is that I met a counselor who got the so-called senior counselor's certificate and dared to tell me that he could hypnotize visitors and treat insomnia without a business license. I think it's amazing that even if I get a business license, psychological counselors can't work outside the scope of medical practice license. Unless you have a medical license, look around and see which hypnotist has a business license and a practice license. Many people claim to be teachers with some certificates that the state does not recognize.
Even some consultants dare to brag to visitors and give me thousands of dollars, and I guarantee that everything will go well for you. You can also sign a complete agreement. So whenever a visitor asks me if I can find a good job, I always ask the other person to hire someone else. We are consultants, not gods or doctors. It's not like I operated on you, or I have to sign a risk informed consent form for the operation. How can I talk about you in one day?
In fact, the current psychological industry belongs to the management organization of the Health and Health Commission and belongs to non-medical health education consultation. We are not allowed to cure or treat any depression, anxiety or even hypnotize visitors. Because these belong to the scope of doctors. It is even more impossible to talk nonsense about what medicine can cure the disease.
We have been practicing medicine in the hospital for decades. As medical staff, our deepest education is that it is impossible to promise patients a cure for all diseases, and nothing can cure all diseases. This is something that medicine cannot do at present.
What's more, it is a psychological consultation that can't even be built in the medical field. What did you say?/Sorry?
When visitors deify the profession itself, I hope that as a psychological counselor, I should also have a sense of mission and responsibility for my profession, rather than deifying myself. We're just ordinary people. Even some counselors' lives are not as good as others' visitors. Why do they charge high fees to criticize and advise tourists from the moral high ground?
It's ridiculous to think about it.
Many visitors ask me, what is a psychological counselor? I want to say, really don't deify us too much, we are just people who pour water for you. Your negative energy water is full. Come and consult us once or twice, and we'll pour it for you. If the water in your heart is not satisfied and does not overflow, you will naturally feel happy. Some visitors may be able to install faucets to control their water consumption, so there is no need for consultants. If you don't know how to install the faucet, you can pour water regularly and learn the ability to install the faucet, and you will slowly heal yourself.
In fact, the greatest thing in the whole process is not the counselor, but the visitor. Because they know and understand psychological counseling and know what self-healing and self-salvation are.
Psychological counseling is for people who understand. If you don't understand and want to know about counseling through a counselor, then don't come to counseling. Because, the Buddha only crosses the fate. Although the counselor is not a Buddha, he will not have a hard time with people who don't believe us. Because talking too much will only lead to more doubts, and tourists will not understand because of explanations. There is no need to waste half a day talking to someone who doesn't understand you.
And knowledgeable visitors must pay attention to these things when choosing a psychological counselor:
The first one is: the practice certificate of psychological counselor. If this consultant tells you that I only have an ACI certificate or an advanced certificate, I can tell you responsibly that these two certificates are simply a piece of waste paper in our country, and you can get them if you have money. Such a consultant is not very credible.
The second thing is: look at the platform where psychological counselors are stationed. If this counselor has settled in a large psychological consultation platform, he can be trusted with sales. The consultants trained by the general platform are more qualified and capable. The platform competition is fierce, and the psychological counselors who can survive are generally excellent.
The third thing is: the psychological counselor does not enter the platform to see if the other party has a business license. If you don't have a business license, don't ask for advice. Because this is illegal business.
The fourth thing is: look at the working hours of psychological counselors and the length of cases taking orders. Generally, psychological counselors with more than 500 hours are not bad.
Finally, every visitor goes to see the professional quality of the counselor, in addition to seeing the other party's practice certificate, there is also the legal qualification of the business. If a consultant gives you medicine, hypnotizes you and treats you with depression and anxiety without a business license, it is illegal to practice medicine. Try not to choose them. Because the injury of choosing the wrong counselor can't be repaired by one injury.
I also hope that visitors will not believe that there are any shortcuts in life and that psychological counselors are gods. Choosing a psychological counselor scientifically, legally, legally and rationally, and understanding psychological counseling rationally and deeply are also good things that every visitor should be responsible for before consulting.