In the real society, everyone has to experience many people, and many friends will disappear in life. A long-lost friend suddenly sent a message asking if he was in. I don't think I should.
A friend I haven't contacted for a long time suddenly sent a message, either getting married or borrowing money. I have encountered this kind of thing many times in my life, which is actually quite embarrassing. The other party contacted me actively. I thought it might be the beginning of intimate contact between friends, but after replying to several friends and spending thousands of dollars with them, I decided not to reply easily in the future.
In fact, in real life, too many friends have faded away with the passage of time, and we have no intersection and resumed contact. Maybe you just need to see me.
But I really don't want to go to such a friend's wedding, and I don't want to lend them money, because we haven't been in touch for many years, and there is no friendship between us.
I won't reply to my friends, because we have been strangers for a long time. Most of my friends haven't been in touch for three months, and in fact they are almost strangers. Two people have nothing in common, and life has no intersection.
Although we still have the name of friends, we have no actual relationship with friends. He asked me if I was here, whether it was about money or other questions, and I didn't think it was convenient for me to answer.
Perhaps let this friendship dissipate in the wind, and the two will break off contact in the future. I think only in this way can I leave a good memory in my mind.
Life is like a gust of wind. After it passed, not many people around us really cared. I think it's better to spend my hard-earned money on people I really care about, so that I can feel more at ease.
Friends who have disappeared in life, please say something directly. Please don't ask me if I am here, because I don't know if I should be here.