According to the content of Weibo posted by myself, I sorted out the following points: First, it is Zhou Yue's subjective will to leave her 6-year-old child at home, not to forget it carelessly. Second, the child was afraid, crying and holding her thigh to take her, and sent two distress signals to Zhou Yue.
The first time, the child was hungry, and the fans were still raw after soaking for a long time and could not cook. The second time, I was alone at home at night, which was terrible. Even if you do this crazy action on impulse, you should go home immediately in the face of your child's help. Yueyue Zhou's response to children's asking for help is: Don't ask for help!
She still insists that children must do their homework and lift the abandonment. When the nanny and neighbors are worried, they refuse to help and stick to their guns.
Third, and most angry, Zhou Yue knows what this punishment means to children. However, she is still very happy, taking this as a great parenting experience and sharing it on social networks.
The original saying is to set an example. Since then, other children have done their homework honestly. Because mom is really cold. What is this, the devil's mother? The child is hungry and afraid of the cold. What if he touches hot water and electricity? What if you are afraid to run away from home? What's the use of monitoring? It only takes a moment for the accident to happen. Can you send yourself back along the monitored sky? Now cows boast of their iron fists, and children have an accident and listen to them broadcast live on social networks?
I discussed it with my lawyer. Isn't that illegal? Based on Yueyue Zhou's own Twitter content, his parents suspected that he had abandoned and abused his children, and his parents failed to perform their guardianship duties, which violated the Law of People's Republic of China (PRC) on the Protection of Minors.
Article 10 of the law stipulates that parents or other guardians should create a good and peaceful family environment and fulfill their obligations of guardianship and support for minors according to law. Domestic violence against minors, maltreatment and abandonment of minors, drowning or other disabled babies, and discrimination against women or disabled minors are prohibited.
In this case, neighbors can call the police. If the police come and parents have no intention of repentance, they can be deprived of guardianship responsibility according to the situation. However, in the actual law enforcement process, even if neighbors call the police, the police only criticize and educate at most, and there are few cases of seizing custody in China.
In our traditional concept, children are the private property of parents. The so-called three cardinal guides are: the monarch is the minister, the father is the son, the husband is the wife, and the minister is the son. A wife must absolutely obey the monarch, father and husband. In other words, parents have unlimited jurisdiction over their children.
This concept of parenting is hard to change. In fact, most people of our generation grew up under this kind of education. I didn't know until I went to college that it is illegal for adults to scold children if the circumstances are serious.
I believe that as a parenting blogger with millions of fans, Yueyue Zhou herself must know the Law on the Protection of Minors in People's Republic of China (PRC), but she seems to emphasize that parenting is a personalized matter, which is related to family, parents, environment and children.
In other words, it's none of your business how I educate my children. In this Weibo, there are also other people's children and other people's education methods. This time, netizens are very idle.
I think there are not a few people who hold this view, but this kind of thinking, children's domestic violence, wife's domestic violence. Of course, if I can't control the sky, I will suffocate people and public opinion can't be controlled, so many children are treated rudely.
Housework became a fig leaf and an umbrella. Any rude behavior, once it happens at home, has its rationality. But is this really just housework?
I immediately turned it over, and there were several surprising comments below: fortunately, the child was safe this time. In case of an accident, is this just a housework? Not to mention that children used to go up the mountain to cut wood and cook when they were three or four years old. People in the past died in their thirties. How can they compare with the past?
Speaking of physical injuries, let's discuss psychological effects. I think this kind of master-slave education is harmless to the growth of children. Why use slave education to express Yueyue Zhou?
In the whole thing, Zhou Yue has always stressed that you must do your homework and not stay at home alone. Daughter has no right to refute, nor is she qualified to argue with her mother, what her mother says and what she must do. Well done, there is sugar to eat, and you will be punished if you can't meet your mother's requirements.
Isn't this master-slave education? This is the same skill that the animal trainer uses when taming animals. I don't deny Zhou Yue's love for her daughter, but in this case, what Zhou Yue did was for the purpose. I need an obedient daughter!
Obviously, Zhou Yue succeeded. Her daughter was afraid, so she did as she was told. I have seen this kind of parenting recently. In the variety show "Let's Go Together", the actor Shuo Yang also used this master-slave education method to make demands on his son.
The child didn't follow the route he wanted, and immediately shouted, where am I going? Go back before you go! Photos. The child didn't choose the room he wanted 1, but chose his lucky number 5. He has always laughed at himself, and even the child's altitude sickness does not advocate being responsible for his choice.
The effect is obvious. My son did everything Shuoyang asked. Shuoyang was satisfied and his son regretted it. In the program, I interviewed Shuoyang's son and asked him if he liked his father at home. He replied: Not really.
All parents educate their children under the banner of being good for their children, but the children hate their parents at heart. What do parents mean to their children? Here, I want to end with a short sentence from Weibo blogger @ Xiaoyu, parents are the gods of children. It's like spreading happiness, wishing success and strengthening faith. It is not infinite, nor is it reckless.