Conflict between love and moral responsibility? Talk about extramarital affairs, cheating, and love that is not blessed by the world.

Looking at the recent survey on China's marital status, I was a little shocked. On the one hand, the divorce rate has risen sharply, on the other hand, there have been many "infidelity" phenomena in marriage, both mentally and physically. Once you get in touch with someone, you can't tell the difference between them.

We are so eager for love and want to be a good person and a normal person. When I think of this phenomenon, a picture comes to my mind: under the Fang Gezi rule, an undercurrent is surging. Is there something wrong with human nature? Or is our moral code of responsibility unable to accommodate true humanity?

I shared an exchange with angels on this issue the night before yesterday. In order to let you know more about what I am doing and talking about, first of all, I will give you some questions and answers that I think you may have.

Q: What is an angel? How do you communicate?

A: Each of us is surrounded by beings with higher energy frequency and intelligence than ourselves. They guard us, guide our life path and choices, help us experience the life we want to experience most, and ensure our will to choose freely in a loving way.

Q: How do you communicate? Can we communicate?

A: We communicated through an intermediary similar to a "psychic" the night before yesterday. Each of us has the ability to communicate with our inner wisdom, but people usually forget that they have such a "nature" in their busy lives and confused minds, which is why as a therapist, I have always emphasized that my cure is to help the client find his inner strength, rather than interfering with the other party to impose some energy or opinions on the other party.

Then how can we communicate like this? Generally speaking, go back to our hearts and let's make sure that this is a heartfelt idea. Anything that moves us, fresh and beautiful, we all feel that this is an experience that makes us feel "innocent in this life" and is our inner voice.

Sometimes we are "excited" by the lyrics of a song, a sentence in a book and a friend's point of view. All these are messages from "God" in various ways to help us believe in our inner strength. Therefore, we need to go back to our hearts and respect their guidance. Of course, through astrological counseling, hypnosis and other physical and mental healing methods, we can also link with our inner strength. But in the end, we have to return to our inner strength.

Q: Why did you talk about this topic?

A: The topic of love, morality and responsibility is what I need to learn and understand at this stage, and it is also related to my recent transcendence of hallucinations and the impact of various karma.

But the angel gave me an expression on this topic, which I think many people need, so I will share this part first.

Q: Love and responsibility, morality. what is love ? What is responsibility and morality?

A: what is true love? This is also a lesson I have to learn as a northern Pisces student. At least I'm sure that love is not possession, jealousy or unwilling grabbing. Love is understanding, tolerance, sympathy and transcending limitations. ...

Q: What are responsibility and morality?

A: At every stage of history and under different social forms, we all have different responsibilities and morals. For example, in ancient times, as women, our morality and responsibility were three obedience and four virtues. For example, in modern times, the social morality and system about gender relations is marriage, but in some places, their morality and responsibility are polygamy or polyandry. Generally speaking, there is no doubt that our definitions of responsibility and morality are constantly changing with the development of society.

Here comes the point! !

The following are some original words exchanged with angels (advanced wisdom), and my interpretation will be attached below. After my interpretation, there may be some distortion. Only believe what touches your heart the most.

Angel: Hidden love, responsibility and morality are rules, not ropes.

Interpretation: Hidden feelings refer to some "love" that we resist morally, such as the so-called extramarital affairs. In our social form, it is a relationship that is not blessed and accepted by secular society.

Under such a relationship, responsibility and morality are only rules that are based on feelings and follow each other, not the ropes of kidnapping.

In the absence of the so-called marriage legal system, the relationship will be relatively simple, or relatively pure. There is no intention to encourage this relationship here. Everything has different faces, but it is interpreted from a neutral perspective.

L 1: Can you feel it? Personal love-bondage-responsibility and morality-true love.

Explanation:

Personal love: possession, comparison, jealousy and control. We call this relationship "love". This kind of love is based on self. In this relationship, we can't see the real each other, and we are more struggling with our own shortcomings. We will often feel pain and indulgence.

Such feelings are also related to bondage. There is nothing wrong with responsibility and morality. They are neutral, but under such personal love, it is easy for us to bind others with the concept of "morality and responsibility", and love cannot be grasped.

True love: This is also my lesson, which is related to acceptance, tolerance, sympathy, complete respect and freedom. We can imagine that children naturally love their parents and pets and dogs love their owners.

But to get true love, we all need qualifications, including physical and mental independence, maturity and wisdom. There is also a premise that we love ourselves. If we have a lot of love, we can shed more love. A person who has no love for himself can't get true love.

Angel: The more responsibilities and morals you have, the more constraints you will have, and the more impulse you will have to love (personal love).

Interpretation:? When we don't really love from the heart, we use morality and responsibility to bind ourselves and suppress ourselves, and also bind and control others in this way. We will feel lacking, angry and unwilling, so as to grasp and control more. If there is no mode of awareness, we can easily go back and forth here and lose ourselves.

Angel: Because there is love, there is responsibility and morality (I said this, and the angel agreed and smiled)

Interpretation: Love does not conflict with responsibility and morality, but when they conflict, we should understand that the most important thing is love, and responsibility and morality follow love. Only when you really love will you naturally show your responsibility and morality, not because of responsibility and morality, you will have love.

Angel: So the relationship between responsibility and morality is not love, but bondage.

Interpretation: When we are in love, we naturally want to take responsibility and don't want to hurt each other. We hope that people who live a noble life will have "morality" for each other. However, if there is only responsibility and morality in a relationship, I will have a corresponding picture, that is, I am tied around my neck with a rope and I am not happy with each other. We have limited ourselves.

Finally?

Recommend two works about love.

The movie Vicky Cristina Barcelona.

? Love as if we had never been hurt.