It is not because some things are difficult to do that we lose confidence; It is precisely because we have lost confidence that some things are difficult to do.
2. Set goals before you act.
If you don't know where you are going, you won't achieve anything shocking.
3. Do more than others.
No one is born with a gift. On the road to success, there is no shortcut except diligence. Every successful person can see the good habit of diligence.
4. Don't bind your mind.
What hinders our success is not what we don't know, but what we know.
Don't waste every penny.
If you form the habit of thrift, it shows that you have the ability to control your desires, that you have begun to dominate yourself, and that you are cultivating some of the most important personal qualities, that is, independence, intelligence and creativity. In other words, it means that you have pursuit, and you will be an accomplished person.
6. Cherish every minute
Wasting time is the biggest mistake in life and the biggest destructive power. Many opportunities are contained in every bit of time. Wasting time is often the beginning of despair and the strangler of a happy life ... tomorrow's happiness lies in today's time.
7. Look at the problem from another angle
The French sculptor Rodin once said, "We don't lack beauty in our life, but lack discovery." There are many beautiful things in life, the key is whether we can find them. And the key to finding it is yourself.
8. Don't be afraid to make mistakes.
There is no foolproof road to success in the world. Dynamic life is always very random, and the elements are often unpredictable and elusive. Therefore, if you want to succeed, you must have the courage not to be afraid of making mistakes. In an uncertain environment, adventurous spirit is the scarcest resource.
9, the habit of independence
Sweat, eat and do things by yourself; Relying on heaven, people and ancestors is not a hero.
10, control your emotions.
Learn to manage your emotions first, then you can manage others well.
1 1, be honest with others.
Honesty is the law of nature, just as the law of gravity is inviolable, so is the law of honesty. The result of violation is punishment, inevitable punishment. Maybe they can escape temporarily, but in the end they can't escape justice.
12, keep your promise
Keeping promises is not only a noble quality and sentiment, but also a respect for others and yourself.
13, treat pressure correctly
There is no stress-free environment in the world. Asking to live without stress is as impossible as imagining walking on the ground without friction. The key is how to deal with the pressure.
14, not satisfied with the status quo.
Your only limit is the limit you set for yourself in your mind.
15, dare to admit mistakes
If my approach to one thing doesn't work, then I believe I must have a lot to learn, so I need to turn to others, or the subsequent development of things will tell me how to solve it. Anyway, I have to admit my mistake to find the answer.
16, introspection for five minutes every day.
A mother named "failure" may not have a child named "success"-unless she finds a father named "introspection" first.
17, don't give up easily.
Thousands of people fail because they don't do things thoroughly; Often when you are one step away from success, you will stop doing it.
18, good at using the power of others.
"Seeking defeat by solitude", a person who has just entered social life, must seek the help of others and borrow others' help to facilitate himself.
19, can bear loneliness.
There is no doubt that every young heart is beating with hope for glory, but glory is not a pie in the sky, it depends on hard work, loneliness and hard work.
20. Dare to say "No"
The word "no" is easy to write and the syllable is simple, but it is hard to say when it is held between people.
2 1, ridicule failed
Failure is just an experience, not a life.
22. Forging a brave heart
Courage is the indomitable spirit and the courage to believe that you can do it.
23. Be good at cooperating with others
A person's strength is limited. Only by cooperating with others, learning from others' strengths and making up for their own shortcomings can we benefit from each other and both sides benefit from it.
24. Learn more every day.
The biggest weakness of many people is that they want to achieve great things in an instant, which is obviously impossible. Everything is gradual. Only by persevering and learning more things every day can a person finally succeed.
25. Take immediate action
The secret of the success of the whole activity is that we have developed the good habit of taking immediate action, so we will stand at the forefront of the trend of the times; There are still some people who have the habit of procrastinating until the times surpass them. As a result, they are left behind.
Cherish what you have.
Happiness is the bowl of water in your hand.
27. Don't overlook the details.
It is commendable to be ambitious and do great things, but only by starting from down-to-earth small things, starting from small things and paying attention to details can we develop the rigorous and thoughtful style needed to do great things.
28. Don't set limits for yourself.
In the process of growing up, many people have suffered too many criticisms, blows and setbacks from the outside world (including families), so their enthusiasm for progress is "self-limited". They are used to failure, they lose the confidence and courage to try again, and their great potential eventually falls asleep.
29. Learn to rest
Rest is definitely not doing nothing, rest is making up.
30. Be kind to others
Help your brother row across the river! Listen, didn't you cross the river by yourself? !
3 1, good at discovering the advantages of others.
People always have their own strengths and weaknesses. Only by being good at discovering the advantages of others can we really make these advantages work for us.
32, the habit of praise
If everyone pours out their deepest desire, it is to be praised by others.
33. Give others a chance to speak
When God created man, why did he only give him one mouth and two ears? Let's talk less and listen more.
34. The habit of smiling
At the right time and occasion, a simple smile can work miracles, and a simple smile can make a stalemate suddenly clear.
35, pay attention to the instrument
The emergence of success always attracts people's attention, especially the emergence of success can attract people's "identity" attention.
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36. Be good at playing the role of language.
People who can talk will be welcomed everywhere. Being good at playing the role of language helps to establish good interpersonal relationships and is of great help to your career and marriage.
37. Learn to be grateful
In life, we should learn to be grateful, grateful that our motherland has given us peace, grateful that our parents have given us life, grateful that others have helped us ... There are many things to be grateful for in life. Only with a grateful heart can we realize the happiness of life.
38. Don't make any excuses
No matter how wonderful the excuse is, it is useless to the matter itself. Many failures in life are due to excuses that have been anesthetizing us.
39. Don't get bogged down in worry.
"Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory", and anxiety is inevitable. However, people must not indulge in the quagmire of anxiety, but should adjust their mentality and emotions as soon as possible, take active actions and change their changed lives.
40. Don't worry about trifles.
People live in the world for only a few decades, but they waste a lot of time worrying about small things that will be forgotten within a year.
4 1, forgive others' mistakes
There is no fish in clear water, and there is no disciple when people look at it.
42. Don't be too conceited
A person is like a score, his practical ability is like a numerator, and his evaluation of himself is like a denominator. The larger the denominator, the smaller the value of the fraction.
43. focus on your work
Focusing on work is not only an explanation to the boss, but more importantly, focusing on work is a mission and a professional ethics that a professional should have.
44. Observation time
Punctuality is the greatest courtesy.
45. Leave space at all times.
Leave room for others, leave room for shortcomings, and actually leave room for yourself.
46. Avoid chatter.
Of all the factors that hinder family happiness and destroy love, nagging is the most deadly.
47. Use the word "we"
Using "we" instead of "I" can shorten the psychological distance between you and everyone and promote the emotional communication between you.
48, take the initiative to communicate with the boss
Communicate with your boss actively, on the one hand, it will promote your boss to understand you, on the other hand, it will make your boss feel your respect for him. When the opportunity comes, your boss will naturally think of you first.
49. Don't talk about privacy
Knowing other people's privacy is a very dangerous thing, let alone talking about it and spreading it.
50. Respect the opinions of others.
Clory is a salesman of Taylor Materials Company in new york. He admitted: for years, he always sharply accused those angry market inspectors of their mistakes. Although he won the debate, it didn't do him any good. Because those inspectors are like baseball referees, once they decide, they will never change.