? Actively listen to * * * love, but you can't completely follow the visitors to release emotions. If you help the visitor release most of his emotions in the first interview, it's like giving him an injection of painkillers. He will also feel that psychological counseling is like this, and it is easy to fall off.
? Collecting data is really important, but it can't be collected for the sake of collecting data. You should understand the significance of the data you collect and whether you can collect data for your own use.
? As for the psychological education of visitors, because many visitors don't know much about psychological counseling, they come to psychological counselors with practical problems, and sometimes even mythical psychological counselors, thinking that psychological counselors are like a useful magic wand, all problems have been solved, or they don't realize that they have to bear a lot of responsibilities. Psychological counselors don't come to the hospital to feel where it hurts, but like doctors, they make themselves comfortable through unique methods. Therefore, psychological counselors need to tell visitors what psychological counseling is, how to do it, what problems can be solved, and break the unreasonable expectations of visitors.
? Induce patients to respond to the therapist and ask them how they feel about the interview. The purpose of this is as follows:
? Conveying that the consultant respects the feelings and thoughts of the visitors will also make some vague empathy surface. For example, because of cultural reasons, most people in China will have a kind of obedience or awe to authority, and visitors are likely to empathize with consultants as authority. Then when the consultant pays attention to the visitors' thoughts, he will give them a different sense of authority and give them an opportunity to show themselves. Of course, visitors can completely judge the counselor and have the right to terminate the relationship. (Expand your knowledge: If the visitor falls off during the treatment, do you want to get it back? First, if the visitor has a crisis and needs to contact the guardian, you can chase him. Second, you know why the visitor fell. You can help him when you go back. You can chase him from the visitor's point of view.
In essence, the therapeutic relationship is equal and reciprocal, which is to exchange emotional support and professional skills with economy, while friends are mutual, such as exchanging secrets, and visitors do not need to know the secrets of consultants.
? It is not inconceivable to express the understanding of patients, that is, to convey their problems.
? Evaluate the patient's response to the preliminary analysis. Everyone has the same feelings and different reactions to the consultant, and the consultant needs to see it. Everyone has different expectations of the therapist, so in the initial interview, the therapist must understand how the patient accepts the explanation, so that he can adjust his style to meet the special needs of the patient.
? Give the patient hope, said the therapist. I think I can help you. You have made progress in this respect, but it will take some time.
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