In some families, husband and wife discuss everything, think of each other, be tolerant and rational, and handle things more generously. Because there are old people, both sides don't care about their own gains and losses, just for family harmony.
A little family, husband and wife don't understand, like a person to make decisions, a little self, marry me, that is, my family, go home with me, regardless of my wife's feelings. My wife is more angry, so why go to your house? I have my own parents, so I will go back to my home.
Actually, we should consider each other from each other's standpoint. Both families have parents, and they are their own relatives. They should be accompanied, filial, rotated, and can go back to their parents' homes. Don't mind too much. The key is to be filial to both parents, and family harmony is the most important thing.
The Spring Festival is a time for family reunion, and children who work outside should go home for reunion. Married children, working in other places, who will go back during the Spring Festival is really a very realistic problem.
Especially now most families are only-child families, and each family has only one child. Families who go for the New Year but not for the New Year are doomed to be lonely.
Even if it is not a one-child family, there will not be many children. This is a very realistic problem, but also a very difficult problem to solve. If this problem is not handled properly, it will affect family harmony.
Before talking about solving this problem, we must first understand the current family structure. The one-child family is a special family. Let's take the one-child family as an example.
The only child has six elders: parents, grandparents and grandparents. Under normal circumstances, both companies should be like this. Together, the two sides are twelve elders. Some families may have a larger population.
It's really not easy to take care of all these twelve elders. This is the social reality and we can't change it. We can only change ourselves to adapt to this reality.
Brother Ran thinks that the best solution is to go to the man's house for the New Year this year and the woman's house for the New Year next year. Although this solution is flawed, it is fair.
There is also a good solution, that is, two families get together for the New Year, which is crowded and lively. Two families can go to the place where their children work for the New Year, or they can choose another place to reunite for the New Year.
It is also a good choice for two families to celebrate the New Year together. They can contact each other and travel. The disadvantage is that the threshold is relatively high and it is not easy to achieve.
In a word, no matter how to celebrate the New Year, who will celebrate it. Husband and wife should discuss it with their parents as well. Brother Ran believes that both your parents should understand.