1. Health
Health includes physical health and mental health. In my opinion, it is essential for children to exercise and learn more sports in order to achieve healthy goals during their growth.
Every weekend, I take my children outdoors to expose them to nature. I usually skip rope at home and go to the fencing hall to learn epee at weekends.
Exercise is good for both body and mind. My child is introverted and gentle. When I first started practicing sword, I saw a strong opponent, and I was scared and flinched. Now even if he meets a big boy half a head taller than himself, he dares to attack, and his heart is much stronger than before.
2.？ quality
Whether a person has friends around him depends largely on his personality. I think children should be taught punctuality, honesty, trustworthiness, kindness, courage and responsibility from an early age. With these qualities, even if the child is an ordinary person, he is an upright person.
3.？ independence
Independent people are strong inside.
We have two friends, but our hearts are not strong enough. People who are not strong enough in their hearts, a simple evaluation by others is enough to make them think for a long time, struggle for a long time, and have great internal friction. People who are not strong enough in their hearts always pay attention to what others think of me, and there is no standard of self-evaluation in their hearts.
No one can make everyone like it, except RMB.
I think the root of a person's happiness is to recognize himself, accept himself and be independent inside. Only in this way can he really get happiness without external interference.
There are two kinds of independence: one is economic and the other is spiritual. If I want my child to be mentally independent, all I have to do is not to compare him with others, not to evaluate him, and let him evaluate himself. If children want to be economically independent, they must cultivate their ability to do things and get along with others.
4.？ interesting
After the basic living conditions are met, what really determines a person's quality of life is whether the person is interesting or not. Interesting in my opinion: curiosity, living ability, sensibility.
Think about it secretly: I think that one day, boys and girls will choose boyfriends and girlfriends, not to look at cars and houses, but to see if this person is interesting.
I'm Chen Xiaohui. What is your direction in raising children? Can you tell me?