Because from the pictures and words you send, you can clearly see your daily life, and then calculate your personal hobbies and hobbies.
Therefore, as everyone's own exclusive electronic business card, Xinfa Friends Circle has no doubt about its reputation.
However, some people will regard the circle of friends as a trash can, and once there is negative news, they will pour bitter water into it indifferently.
But I don't know how to do it. I always leave a bad impression on others and feel that you are a grumpy person. The popularity of these people is naturally not easy.
The same is true throughout the recovery process.
After breaking up, there are always people in the circle of friends who send some words that their predecessors don't cherish themselves or don't sell well, but they turn their heads and want to get back together with their predecessors.
I don't know, any ex who is fine wants to be with such a person again. Ta has been avoiding you constantly, and even good luck itself chose to break up clearly at that time.
In order to better prevent my users from falling into such a bleak situation, today's article will briefly introduce how to build your own circle of friends if you want to save your predecessor.
1. Vertical cutting
Everything is normal here, not just sentences that don't need to send some negative news. In addition, you don't need to make friends who are quite different from your original personality.
For example, your original character was violent. However, the content published in the circle of friends inadvertently revealed that his personality was very soft.
In my predecessor's view, this is very wrong.
Because the key to recovery is to build trust. Your behavior like that has always made the other party think that you are just lying to better save Ta. Even if you really become soft in the future, the other party will not be convinced.
However, it doesn't mean that you can't send some letters to your circle of friends, which means that you have long been different.
However, your hair needs to be done step by step. You couldn't have been very grumpy yesterday, but you are very gentle today.
2. Contact person "
Many couples are not blacklisted after breaking up, but few people communicate with their ex by calling or sending messages.
It is because no matter whether you call or send a message, the connection is too obvious and it is easy for the other party to feel embarrassed.
Too enthusiastic, but inappropriate. It's too cold to make people think you are heartless.
In contrast, "weak relationship" is more appropriate.
It is not easy to completely disconnect the two, but it is not easy to cause an embarrassing situation.
Both sides can grasp their own reality according to each other's circle of friends, not to mention disturbing each other's communication.
This kind of communication has given each other sufficient indoor space design and indoor space.
But to really play the role of "weak ties", we must have a good proper limit. After all, the circle of friends you send must arouse the personal interest and attention of the other party, but beyond that, you must not let the other party have pressure.