19/kloc-in the midsummer of 0/9, Deng met unexpectedly at a student gathering in Tianjin, which was thousands of miles apart and six years apart.
On that day, Deng, who was studying in Tianjin Zhili No.1 Women's Normal School and was the captain of the speech team of the Women's Federation and the minister of the speech department of the Student Union, gave a speech in the auditorium of Tianjin Nankai School.
At the same time, Zhou Enlai, who had just returned from the May 4th Movement, was sitting in the middle of the auditorium.
Deng, who is only 15 years old, wears a white skirt and a black skirt with an S-shaped bun on his head. He looked at his classmates in the audience with a pair of dark and bright eyes, and reported passionately that people from all walks of life in Tianjin sent delegations to Beijing to petition many times, demanding that the peace treaty be rejected and Shandong's sovereignty be recovered.
The delegation waited in front of Tiananmen Square for three days, but the president refused to meet them. These representatives were surrounded by gendarmes, who beat and arrested them. She said tearfully:
"Classmates, when you sleep at home, it is the time when our representative suffers in Beijing." At this point, she began to cry. Many students here are sobbing quietly.
Zhou Enlai witnessed this scene and was moved. He picked up a pen, kept writing and remembering in his notebook, and whispered to a student who was talking next to him.
A: "Her name is Deng. She is the leader of the lecture group of Tianjin Female Patriotic Gay Association and a student of Zhili No.1 Women's Normal College."
At the age of 2l, he smiled. He quickly wrote down in his notebook: Deng, the first female normal student in Zhili, and the leader of the speech group of the Tianjin Women Patriotic Association.
Love comes as scheduled.
The background of this meeting determines the nature of their future love. They came together because of the revolution, which is the medium and premise of their love. Their love is destined to be the love of two revolutionaries.
Soon, he and Deng initiated the establishment of Awakening Society, the core organization of Tianjin students' patriotic movement, and published the revolutionary publication Awakening. The experience of fighting together during this period laid a very solid foundation for their future emotional development.
10 7, Zhou Enlai went to France to work and study. Away from the law, he often misses his motherland and his relatives and friends. Deng's warm, brave, simple and dignified image flashed before his eyes again and again.
1923 in may, Deng published an article in "Xundian actress", one of which wrote:
"The love between the two sexes is aboveboard, not dirty and mysterious. But its source must be based on pure friendship, the gradual enrichment of beautiful feelings, the closeness of personality, mutual understanding, the integration of ideas and the consistency of outlook on life.
In addition, both sexes need to find the same "study" and "career" to maintain the flowing love in order to last forever. This love for truth, goodness and beauty is flower of life, a noble product of spirit, which has a good influence on the future of society and mankind. "
In the same year, Deng suddenly received a postcard. On this postcard with the portraits of Liebknecht and Luxemburg, Zhou Enlai wrote, "I hope the two of us can go to the guillotine together like the two of them."
He Deng was moved by this love that can't be expressed in words. In frequent correspondence and emotional communication, she also thinks that Zhou Enlai, who is wise and firm, is her ideal partner. With her mother's acquiescence, Deng wrote to confirm their love relationship.
1924 In July, Zhou Enlai returned from Paris and arrived in Guangzhou in September. 1October 165438 became the director of the political department of Huangpu Military Academy. At the beginning of August, 2 1 year-old Deng came to Guangzhou from Shanghai alone. Under the call of love, two young people who have lived for five years get together again.
On August 8, Zhang Shenfu, a party introducer, invited Deng and others to have a light meal and became a wedding banquet with Deng. After marrying Deng, they have been inseparable because of their career needs. When they are together.
Zhou Enlai said, "Do you still remember the meeting held in Tianjin that year? You were the first to speak on stage, and what impressed me the most was those two big eyes. "
Marriage-this is love.
On the wedding day, Deng just arrived in Guangzhou from Tianjin, where he took a photo with a "wedding photo". They have no ceremony, no room full of senior friends, only the joy of reunion after a long separation and a warm and beautiful wedding night.
At the wedding, Deng proposed that husband and wife should follow the "Eight Mutualities", that is, "mutual respect, mutual love, mutual help, mutual encouragement, mutual trust, mutual comfort, mutual accommodation and mutual understanding".
Zhou Enlai listened carefully to Deng's "Eight Mutually" and didn't interrupt her. From Deng's expression, we can see that he supports her "Eight Mutual". In this way, "eight phases" has become the principle of two people living in harmony.
Early the next morning, Zhou Enlai left. He was busy directing strikes in other provinces and ports.
As Deng said, "No matter where you and your loved ones go, you are home."
One does not forget the worries of the country, and the other is not responsible for relatives. The most important thing in love is mutual support. Don't give up on each other in turbulent times.
As Zhang Ailing said: You asked me if it was worth loving you. In fact, you should know that love is not worth asking.
Support, help and understand each other
At the beginning of the founding of New China, Zhou Enlai was responsible for establishing the Government Council of the Central People's Government. When preparing the cabinet list of the State Council, many celebrities inside and outside the Party suggested that Deng should be given a position in the government according to his qualifications and level, which was rejected.
The wife of revolutionary martyr Peng Ganchen found it and avenged Deng.
Zhou Enlai said, "I am the Prime Minister of the government. If Xiao Chao is a minister of another government, then my prime minister and her minister are neck and neck; " People will take what her minister said as my prime minister's words and what she did as my support. In this way, family relations, marriage relations, political relations and government relations all go together. This is not conducive to the cause of our party and our work. "
He put down his teacup, looked at it and said, "As long as I am the prime minister, Deng can't serve in the government!" " "Deng nodded his head to show understanding.
"Zhou Enlai has repeatedly tried to' suppress' Sister Deng on issues such as appointment and transfer. Deng never complained about this. Her belief is consistent with Premier Zhou's "three views". She said, "I understand why you did it. Liao Xinwen, former director of the Second Research Department of the Central Literature Research Office, said.
They stick to principles, encourage each other and make progress together in their work. 1June, 947, Kang Keqing, the wife of Deng and Zhu De, had left Yan 'an first, and was still directing the war of liberation in northern Shaanxi. On the way, she read and saved the JinSui Daily and reference materials for nearly two months, and gave them to Zhou Enlai.
"Jinsui Daily has recently disclosed a lot of information in this regard, and there is a lot of information about land struggle. Reading a few books is good for you. " Deng said in the letter.
In life, they have many hobbies: movies, plays, fitness and so on. Recommend good movies to each other.
1In July, 949, Deng went to Shanghai on business and invited Soong Ching Ling to go north to discuss the China issue. At this time, Sun Ping, an old friend of Yan 'an, invited her to see the film "Siberian Symphony".
Deng was deeply inspired after reading, and soon wrote to her husband in Beiping to tell his feelings:
"The film won the first prize of the Paris Film Review, and it can be well-deserved after watching the film. Its good plot, excellent technology, gorgeous colors and beautiful singing style left a deep and unforgettable impression on people. In particular, the characters in the plot show a brand-new society, and the new generation of Soviet youth is touching.
It shows the combination of love and career of the younger generation, and also shows the warmth, profundity and firmness of their love, as well as their indifference, rejection, avoidance and efforts to career achievements, loving without being loved, loving without hindering the love of others, and giving people a good education. This is a good movie that must be seen. And it's a good movie you want to see again. I suggest
"I was just going out to wash my face, and then your letter, I am very happy, I have been looking forward to it for a long time. You saw the Siberian symphony and I saw the bridge. I wonder if it was the same night. I didn't come back until dawn that day. "
"In the past, many people said that they were revolutionary partners based on the same ideals and beliefs. I prefer to call them' soul mates'. " Li Aihua said.
1February 3, 995, Deng wrote a letter. At that time, Deng had a heart attack and was recuperating at home, but his concern for her husband was undiminished: "Sleep more, drink less and take more baths." This is what worries me most. Come back and see! "
Take a photo with Deng in Yan 'an.
The only regret is that
Unfortunately, this child is the only regret in Deng's love affair.
When she was pregnant for the first time, Deng gave up her child for work. Zhou Enlai was very angry when he found out. He said, "Your body is the capital of the revolution. The child is not yours alone, but the offspring of both of us. "
But what is even sadder is that Deng languished in the delivery room for three days from the second pregnancy to the expected date of delivery. Finally, the doctor had to use forceps, which caused the child's head injury and died at birth.
Since then, Deng has never been pregnant again.
Love is probably regrettable.
In the difficult years, he and Deng, whether in Tianjin, Guangzhou or Shanghai, faced death threats again and again, but escaped again and again.
During the Long March, when the Red Army arrived in Maohai, Zhou Enlai fell ill. He has had a high fever for several days. He can't eat and his liver is swollen. After examination by doctors, Zhou Enlai was diagnosed as an amebic liver abscess.
However, under the conditions at that time, it was impossible to disinfect, operate and puncture, and only ice compress could be used to control the development of inflammation. At that time, Zhou Enlai's condition seemed to have deteriorated.
Deng, who arrived at the hospital, waited on the stretcher for three days and nights. Perhaps it was these three days and nights of waiting that made Zhou Enlai miraculously come out of hell in the early morning.
This is probably the power of love.
Concomitant life
1954 In the spring, the begonia flowers in the West Flower Hall were in full bloom. At that time, Zhou Enlai was attending the Geneva conference in Switzerland, so he couldn't go to see the flowers in person. So Deng cut a begonia flower, bound it into a book and entrusted it to.
It is "there is no return, no love words." Zhou Enlai was very moved when he saw the begonia flower, which contained deep affection for his relatives in the motherland! In spite of his busy schedule, he did not forget to return Deng's warm greetings and asked his customers to bring back a peony flower for Deng.
When Zhou Enlai came home, he brought back begonia flowers. Deng used a piece of paper as a lining to hang begonia and peony in a picture frame. Beijing, Geneva,-begonia,-peony, two keepsakes of missing hearts, are still treasured up to now.
During the "Cultural Revolution", Deng Yingchao fully supported Zhou Enlai's work and fought against two counter-revolutionary groups, Lin Biao and Jiang Qing. After Zhou Enlai's death, according to the promise made by Zhou Enlai and her in 1956, she scattered her ashes on rivers and the earth.
1992 July 1 1 day, Deng died of illness. According to her will, the Party branch where she lived scattered her ashes into the river and sea where Zhou Enlai's ashes were scattered with an urn containing Zhou Enlai's ashes, thus making the love of the two great men shine with the sun and the moon and live with the rivers!
Zhou Enlai said, "I hope you can take a rare photo and kiss you a thousand times!" " "
Deng Yingchao said, "Love is short-lived. I will kiss you a thousand times! "