Why does Ximen Qing prefer Pan Jinlian?

Two years ago, Pan Jinlian wrote several articles about Ximen Qing and Pan Jinlian, all of which were based on reading and thinking about Water Margin, and I felt really wanting more. After reading Jin Ping Mei recently, it suddenly occurred to me that it is not enough to understand the emotional entanglement between the famous wild mandarin ducks only through the narrative of the Water Margin. A Beijing boy told me that I still don't understand why only Pan Jinlian dares to talk back to Ximen Qing, because all the women around him are afraid of Ximen Qing. And Ximen Qing was top, but can only giggle at a side, don't have any temper. The phenomenon mentioned by this child is actually very common among ordinary couples, involving an emotional problem of love and hate, similar to the so-called deep love and hate. Although Ximen Qing has many wives and concubines, in his heart, Pan Jinlian is the only one worthy of the role of wife. Therefore, she often shows the emotional characteristics of love and hate, and the image of an ordinary husband is vividly portrayed. In Jin Ping Mei, the image of Pan Jinlian's wife is vulgar, but it is not without merit, which makes Ximen Qing, a lecherous and greedy person who has only been born for thousands of years, helpless to her. I'm afraid it's impossible without some real kung fu except her hue. I wonder if Zhao will make an analysis and explanation, or whether he will help the young couple now. For example, the first half of the seventy-third chapter tells the story of Meng Yulou's birthday and Ximen Qing's injury. I think, today last year, Li Pinger was still there, and today this year, she is alone. I couldn't help but feel heartbroken and tears welled up in my eyes, so I found a fairy boy in front of my seat and sang a flute lesson. Jade girls also sent my thoughts everywhere. Everyone ignored him. As soon as Du Jinlian heard that he spilled blood on the azaleas in Hunan skirt for me, he knew Ximen Qing's mind and immediately ridiculed: Where is the boy? Pigs and pigs are sitting in a cold shop ―― Why are you ugly? ! A married wife, not a daughter, where to ask for the blood of azaleas? What a shameless licensed product! We know that once a woman is intellectual, it is difficult to remain naive, while naive women often don't understand sex, so it is difficult to achieve a perfect unity. This advantage of Pan Jinlian is undoubtedly a killer for men, not to mention Ximen Qing. I'm afraid most men are overwhelmed. Zhao Yan can't do it. For example, in the sixty-first session, Ximen Qing and Wang Liuer returned to Pan Jinlian's room after having an affair, and Pan immediately judged that Ximen Qing and Wang Liuer were waist-high tied with a thread, which might have crossed the line. Ximen Qing insisted on denying it and said with a smile that there was such a business there. He is the man who sits with me today. Lotus said, do you want to use this news to coax me? Who doesn't know that his man is a forgetful man, herding sheep and collecting firewood, leaving his wife by your side all the way to make money for your business. You stupid dealer, you have to listen to a gunshot 40 miles away! In a word, the essence of the relationship among Ximen Qing, Wang Liuer and Han Daoguo is put in place, leaving no room for Ximen Qing to defend himself. Then Jinlian stretched out his hand, opened Ximen Qing's pants, checked his nakedness, and said, but again, you? The duck is cooked in the pot ― it's rotten, but its mouth is still stiff. . Seeing Mr. Muyu here, how could the robber and that woman be so angry that we came home late? You make it look good, and your mouth is still strong. You swear, I asked Chun Mei to scoop a gourd ladle of cold water, and you only ate a gourd ladle, so I will call you brave. Theoretically, salt is so salty and vinegar is so sour. The bald man is wearing a mesh towel ― why don't you give this little mouth a rest? . If you believe what you mean, fool all the wives in the world. Thieves are shameless goods, and a big-eyed goods, you have long been a man, if you are a wife, you will raise all over the street; It belongs to the shoemaker ― no matter what you sew, someone will do it. This passage can be described as foul language, sharp words and strange metaphors (Mr. Han Daoguo is called Mr. Silence-thank her for her imagination! ), and the evidence is conclusive, the reasoning is rigorous, and every sentence is reasonable. Ximen Qing was speechless and just smiled helplessly. Zhang Zhupo criticized: A string of bells rang all the way. If it is a golden lotus, you can't be a bottle, a jade house, a moon mother or a Chun Mei. That's great. Zhao Yan also criticized: eloquent, there is no lack of cuteness. For example, in "Twenty-one Return", Jinlian, Lou Yu and others offered wine to celebrate the reunion of Wu Yueniang and Ximen Qing. It was Pan Jinlian who secretly instructed Chun Mei and others to play a set of "Southern Pomegranate Flower Ceremony Reunion". At the same time, the mystery of Pan Jinlian drinking vinegar is unknown to other wives and concubines. Only two people know, one is Ximen Qing and the other is Zhao Yan. Unfortunately, Pan Jinlian is not my wife. The so-called mend fences is that Ximen Qing once turned against Wu Yueniang, and then Ximen Qing crossed his legs and assumed the appearance of a dwarf, kneeling on the ground to kill chickens and pull his neck, and his sister was long and short, and was accepted as a pillow person by Wu Yueniang. The key to their reconciliation is that Wu Yueniang fasted three times a month, worshiped once every seven days, and burned incense to wish her husband an early return. One night, Ximen Qing came back from Lichun Garden and met Wu Yueniang who was burning incense and praying. Zhu said, "My wife Wu, I am Simon's match. Because my husband is attached to fireworks, I have no children or daughters in middle age. " . Six people, including concubines, all have nothing, and there is a lack of people to worship at the grave. I am worried at night, afraid that I have nothing to trust. Therefore, every night under the moon and the stars, I would like to express my heart and wish my son-in-law to change his mind as soon as possible and abandon his prosperous family affairs in Qixin. Among the six concubines, I saw the interests of the heirs as soon as possible, thinking that a lifelong plan was my first wish. This speech, Simon's life plan, is so pertinent and reasonable. No wonder Ximen Qing felt full of shame after hearing this: I have been bothering him by mistake, and everything he did was for my heart. Still a serious couple. I couldn't help coming from the front of the white wall and hugging Yueniang. What a touching scene this is! Everything goes well at home, no wonder many concubines buy wine to celebrate each other. It happened that when I got the Golden Lotus, I found at a glance that Wu Yueniang's incense burning service was a show, and the musical instrument door was ajar, which was specially for Ximen Qing. So she secretly let Chun Mei play "Reunion Ceremony" at the table, mocking Wu Yueniang's hypocrisy and Ximen Qing's shallowness. As for the Golden Lotus, Lou Yu said that we don't know, but Ximen Qing could see it at a glance, showing some tacit understanding between husband and wife. For example, the next day, he had a conversation with Meng Yulou: a little slut asked the girls to sing for free yesterday? Ritual reunion? I guess he does it for a living. Emerald corridor:? Ritual reunion? What do you mean? Ximen Qing said: He said that the meeting of the Wu family was not serious, but private. Just like burning incense at night, there is a heart waiting for me. Yulang: Sister Liu knows all the songs, but we can't. Ximen Qing said: You don't know, this slut is only responsible for biting people. So Pan Jinlian is the only one who can make Ximen Qing love and hate, and appreciate the interest of husband and wife's life. After all, he can't live without Pan Jinlian.