First, don't be angry, but work hard. If someone laughs at you, scolds you, taunts you, laughs at you and spits on you, let him; You bite the bullet, don't move, work hard, work hard, and have no distractions. You will see him again in a few years!
Instead of being dissatisfied with the villain, it is better to concentrate on doing your job. When the work is done, the slander of the villain will be broken. Action is the best explanation and the most powerful counterattack weapon, and all rumors and slanders stop at the first step. This is the fundamental way to deal with the behavior of villains. Love and resentment can only succeed if they torture themselves. Of course, to achieve such a static braking state, it takes a period of training.
Second, don't be arrogant. Scholar's spirit, though distinct in personality, is the characteristic of a literate person, but working in an office is a taboo. The pride of talents reminds us of Ruan Ji, Wang Bo and Li Bai. We can't help admiring this personality. As an artistic image, it has artistic appreciation value. However, if you have such people in your work life, you may not treat them with appreciation. Because of the distance, the stage depends entirely on the distance. This shortcoming is most likely to be used and exerted by office villains, so as to achieve the purpose of his conspiracy to isolate you and provoke your relationship with your colleagues. The first direct impact of your arrogant personality is that your colleagues are alienated from you, so you lack communication channels, so there is a gap between you and your colleagues, and smart villains will take the opportunity to make waves and create misunderstandings. If you want to ask why your colleagues alienate you, I can answer you because people's self-esteem is fragile and narrow.
Third, pay attention to maintaining communication channels with leaders. It is often said that the more you do, the more people make mistakes. At work, it is often the case. Your work is excellent and highly praised by the person in charge of the office. The leader will let you do more work. If you travel a thousand miles, you will lose something and miss something. There are inevitably mistakes and omissions in the work. A villain is a villain. He is jealous of your colleague. He won't try his best to match your workload. Although he doesn't study Sun Tzu's Art of War, he is familiar with the method of avoiding the real and making the virtual. He seized the opportunity to take advantage of your mistakes in work, or accused you of complacency in front of the leader, or said in front of colleagues that you didn't listen to other people's opinions and made mistakes. If the office leader is a thorough observer, you are lucky, and your efforts must be even. If your leader is an underestimation, he will be biased against you. At this moment, if you feel wronged and ignore it in anger, you will not take the initiative to explain your mistake to the leader, just as he is thinking, he will use this crack to slowly destroy your image in the eyes of the leader. So you should keep communication channels with leaders, and don't block channels because of work mistakes and omissions, remember! The reason why the lie of "three men make a tiger" won the king's trust was not only the fact that the lie would become the truth if it was repeated a thousand times, but also related to the king's misunderstanding of the minister at ordinary times, so that slanders could be heard.
Fourth, we should not hate jealousy. Although the villain is despicable, it is really disgusting to make rumors and slander. People who understand the ugliness of human nature will never care. They will be detached from it and laugh it off. If you go to court with him, you will only lose your image and degrade yourself. As the old saying goes, the supreme is self-adaptive, and the Qing is self-adaptive; Noble people are not cheap, and bitches are not expensive; Mentality and tolerance are stronger than him. In this way, this kind of behavior is not indifferent, it is short-lived and long-lasting. When it needs to be explained, it is leisurely and idle, and when it needs to be clarified, it is not too hot, because the world is still bustling with fools and foggy with wise people; When you need to fight back, you need to argue forcefully. Don't be misled by the old saying, "A straight body is not afraid of a crooked shadow, and ghosts don't have to be afraid to call the door." Many literati courts in China were deposed, and loyal ministers were often wrongly demoted here. People's hearts are complex and changeable, which cannot be concealed by this old saying.
I took pains to list the psychological behaviors of office villains and how to prevent them. I will be despised by those who regard fame and fortune as dirt and think highly of themselves. I am considered speculative, shallow and vulgar, and I sneer at it. The world is cold, the world is worldly, and the outer circle is inside; Why don't you go into the WTO with the idea of being born, and I will go in in large numbers and advance and retreat freely, so that I can't reach the artistic realm of life? Isn't it the work of mystics and hermits in the great dynasty? Why did the Wei and Jin scholars want to be arrogant and allow you to wash your eardrops? Every grass, tree and spring has four seasons, and life is full of fairy tales. Not only did Zhuang Zhou amuse himself by dragging his tail in the mud, but Li Bai also went into the temple crazily to show his temperament.
It is because of this heart, Ren Woxing, this mortal world, that it moves forward and backward. Everything is ready for me to drive, why not let my fame tie me down?