Personally, apart from work, I don't brush much in my circle of friends, let alone send it. In fact, more and more people don't like it. Why on earth? I talked about it one by one.
1. The pressure of real life is great in all aspects.
Basically, adults have their own troubles. The main trouble is at work, including contact with my friends and people who come to consult me. Everyone has different degrees of work problems. For example, frequent overtime, high performance pressure, high work intensity and fast pace.
If you are in an internet company, you have to be online 24 hours a day. Even if I sleep, sometimes I have to go back to work after a phone call or a WeChat call. At first, communication became more and more developed, but we also had more and more opportunities to be used by our boss at work. Coupled with various "007" and "996" fancy overtime rules, it seems to be more and more normal now. So usually, like some of my friends, it's already eleven or twelve when they get home.
Usually there are few holidays, even if you finally have a little rest time or a day's holiday, you can either have a good sleep, cook yourself a meal at most and watch a movie at home to relax. I really don't have that many thoughts on making friends.
2. The motivation to send a circle of friends is insufficient.
First of all, with the growth of age, people tend to have less time, become more "utilitarian" and pay more attention to input and output. Take the matter of sending a circle of friends, take girls as an example. For example, it is difficult to take a day off on weekends, and it takes a lot of photos to go out to eat with girlfriends, and there are different expressions from different angles. After taking a lot of photos, I will pick out some and send them to my circle of friends for repair.
It is no exaggeration to say that girls take photos 1 hour, and it takes two hours on the day of retouching. Girls are naturally more likely to entangle their friends' copywriting. How to write whatever you want, whether you find it online or write it yourself, it takes three hours to write this copy.
Among the girls, I have to wonder if my friends in the circle of friends will like it or think that I have retouched the picture too much. What if nobody likes it? Do you want colleagues to see this circle of friends? My colleague asked me to go shopping today, but I made up an excuse at random to say I was not available. This circle of friends cannot be seen by her. Besides, girls think too much. Don't forget to block the managers of colleagues, such as B, C, E, F and G, because their information is likely to be interoperable.
It's really too much trouble to send a circle of friends after thinking about it. Forget it, or not.