"No, just busy. What about you? Are you all right? "
Sister Mao is 36 years old and has worked in the last company for 10 years. He is my best colleague in that company. Although we are seven or eight years apart, we have a good relationship. So we kept in touch after leaving our job, but later we learned that she was pregnant with a second child, and our contact gradually decreased. Colleagues at work are somewhat interesting, so they rarely become real friends. In the words of girlfriends, "the people we get along with the most are colleagues, and the strangers after leaving are colleagues." But I am very happy that we didn't have any unhappiness in our ambiguous days together, but we got along very happily. So after leaving my job, one of my most reluctant colleagues is Sister Mao.
Sister Mao is straightforward and can say whatever she wants. Perhaps because of my personality, I have been a clerk for so many years.
She said herself, "I just want to do my job well and go to work on time." Pick up and drop off children, go home to buy food and cook, and help children with their homework. "Mao Jie really has no ambition, but she is really conscientious.
She was very concerned about me when I was in the company. Sometimes she gives me some advice on choice. She said, "You are still young and not married. Try hard when it's time to try. Women always have to rely on themselves, and even if they leave men one day, they can live very chic. " Sister Mao came out to work after graduating from high school and did a lot of work. Before getting married, she earned money to buy a house in Dongguan, and now she is dedicated to renting a house. After marrying her husband, they provided another set in Shenzhen. Sister Mao can also invest in wealth management, which I didn't tell my husband. So, I understand what Sister Mao means.
Sister Mao said she was crazy before she got married. After she got married and had children, her focus was basically on her family. She always advised me, "Don't be like me. When I got married, I only cared about my family. I don't know how many years I haven't traveled, how long I haven't dressed myself well, and it's inconvenient to take my children anywhere. " However, Sister Mao is very contradictory. Sometimes she says, "You are old enough to talk about marriage. Say it first when you meet the right one. No, there is no choice. "
Anyway, I feel very happy to have a colleague who cares about me so much Sister Mao used to invite me to her house for dinner, and sometimes she took my son to the library to read books on weekends. After working for so many years, I have hardly ever been to a colleague's house for dinner, but I often go to Sister Mao's house. Because she is sincere, I feel at ease.
I worked in that company for several years, changed several departments, and finally the last one was completely dissolved. Sister Mao doesn't want to leave. Her mortgage in Shenzhen won't be paid off until next year. So, she needs that job. Sister Mao is very strong. No matter how many means the company used to force her to leave her job, she even transferred her to a warehouse to do odd jobs and work night shifts in front-line departments, she persisted. In her words, "I am invincible Xiao Qiang, and dead mice are not afraid of the cold."
Colleagues in the former department had similar experiences and eventually resigned, but Sister Mao remained stubborn.
Living', but suffered a lot of unequal treatment. Our old leader also advised her to go, but she chose to stay. Sister Mao said, "You young people are thin-skinned and have the opportunity to go out. It's hard to find a good job at my age. I am still taking the accounting qualification test, as well as the mortgage, and I have the cheek to stay. " Sister Mao finally couldn't bear it in the warehouse, but she was pregnant with a second child and saved her. Because it is a pregnant woman, that company dare not go too far. Now Sister Mao has been transferred back to the office, working from nine to five every day without overtime.
Sister Mao will have a great reaction when she is pregnant, and she is an older woman. So I dare not disturb her for a long time. I didn't expect her to call me first. In fact, I seldom send a circle of friends, even if I send that one, it is basically not my true self. Sometimes I only brush my circle of friends once every few days. First of all, I am really busy. Second, my circle of friends is not what it used to be. So I seldom go up again, but when my friends ask, I think of complaining. Less words, sister Mao thought something had happened to me. Being concerned is a kind of happiness!
Perhaps because of pregnancy, Sister Mao's temper is much lighter now than before. I stopped talking about persuading me to work hard to make money, but worried that I would be an older woman after I stopped falling in love. I even suspect that Sister Mao is a spy sent by my mother. I'm pregnant and worried about so many things. Are you tired? Even so, I am still grateful for meeting, walking and caring.
Who says colleagues are the most familiar strangers?
You see, Sister Mao is not!