Secondly, we should not let criticism hurt children's self-esteem. Parents should talk to their children calmly, help them realize their mistakes, and let them accept the advice given by their parents. If parents choose the wrong way to communicate with their children, don't worry. Girls are sensitive and fragile, but they can easily feel the love of their parents.
3. Finally, care about children's daily life. You can't always ask your child's grades directly. Parents can talk to their children about people and things at school from trivial matters of life, and finally talk to their children about learning, so that children will feel that their parents love her, not her grades and studies.
Reasons for rebellious period:
1, traditional ideas affect some parents. China's long-standing paternalism still exists among some parents. Parents lack democratic awareness of their children's education, and always think that children are immature and must obey themselves absolutely, and they cannot have their own opinions, otherwise they will be "disobedient" and "antagonistic", thus unintentionally inhibiting the release of children's nature.
2. Parents' mistakes in understanding lead to improper educational methods. Some parents lack common psychological knowledge, are eager to achieve success in their children's education, and adopt simple and rude methods, often ignoring their children's self-esteem and psychological endurance.
3. Parents and children lack two-way communication, resulting in ideological contradictions. As children grow up, their sense of independence becomes stronger and stronger. They need to have their own way of doing things and don't want to be controlled too much. Some parents do everything for their children's protection, so that children's desire for independence and parents' improper kindness and care will lead to ideological conflicts and contradictions.