DOG is so stupid, why is his fate so good? DOG is not clever, but she won Sheng's trust with a sincere heart and became Sheng's favorite and closest girl. It can be said that when following Sheng, Sheng never mistreated her. After leaving Sheng and getting married, her life was equally calm and smooth. Shi Qiang dotes on her. Sister-in-law Che San Niang treats her like a child, protects her everywhere and is willing to help her with her children. In the original book, there is such a description of DOG: "My sister-in-law gave birth to a big fat boy in the second year after she entered the door, and then there were a series of girls and boys. Stone houses, which have always been sparsely populated, suddenly flourished. San Niang is afraid that the young couple can't raise their children, so she often comes to give a hand. Who knows that my sister-in-law is actually a candy, so I gave her the child to look after, only helped her, and didn't worry at all. "
It is not difficult to see from this description how comfortable and chic Momo's married life is. When I saw Momo's fate, I really thanked her. I sigh, DOG's life is really good, she is so happy. However, on second thought, DOG's happiness did not come out of thin air. What you sow, what you reap. DOG's stupidity stems from her generosity and kindness. DOG is a kind and simple person. She is honest and hardworking. Sheng always thought that DOG was her "unexpected prize at the worst time". Once, Sheng asked DOG, why are you willing to talk to me? DOG a silly, answer, can not follow? In DOG's eyes, she should be sincere to Sheng. She has never been a playboy, nor has she weighed the pros and cons. All she has is the basic consciousness that a servant of a big family should have.
After Aunt Wei died, Sheng was seriously ill. At that time, only DOG was by her side to serve her wholeheartedly. Sheng Minglan once said: "Those days were really difficult. I take medicine every day, wandering on my sickbed, and there is no caring person to take care of me. Only this stupid Momo is here. " DOG is definitely not the cleverest, but he is definitely the most obedient and kind. Not only for Sheng Minglan, but also after DOG married the Stone Family, Che San Niang was once worried that she was a Plutocratic family girl who was in charge of people. What should she do then?
Who knows, DOG not only didn't bother to "manage the house", but was honest and "deadly". "Tell her to play soy sauce, and she will never buy candy for herself; Tell her to keep an eye on her two nieces and stop fooling around, and she will stare with her eyes wide open. She won't move until her sister-in-law has finished. Tell her to pay the servant every month. It's really copper money. It can't be wrong. " DOG is honest, kind and obedient, which makes Che Sanniang reluctant to treat her any better. On the contrary, Che Sanniang likes this daughter-in-law too much. Modern writer Tahiram Dodo said: "The so-called warmth means that even if it is like a frozen river, it will try to reflect the sun;" The so-called compassion is that even if you leave the three realms like the wind, you still don't give up all beings and look around diligently. "DOG conveyed his warm kindness to others, and others became warm because of DOG's warm kindness. Can such a lovely woman not make people happy
Momo never dreamed of something that didn't belong to him. Although DOG is not very clever, he has been very serious since he was a child. This is her thing, and she will be happy to get it. What is not hers, even if it is good, she never covets it. We all know that Sheng Changbai is a "wonderful flower". He chooses the girl in his room, not beautiful or ostentatious, as long as that is not practical, even if he is stupid. Those girls who are not conscientious will do whatever it takes to win a look from Sheng Changbai, but Sheng Changbai is not tired of such girls. When DOG ran errands for Sheng, he also went to Sheng Changbai's yard several times. She is the only girl who doesn't dislike Sheng Changbai. This shows how honest DOG is.
After Sheng married into Hou Fu, Caihuan, who was also a girl, falsely asked DOG what his master wanted. Momo's first reaction was: "What does the owner want? What does it have to do with us? " Not only that, Mr. Sun, Gu's assistant, also recognized DOG. Sheng Minglan said, "DOG is not a wise man. At that time, the duke and his husband really suffered a lot. They asked her to make a pot of wine, neither too hot nor too cold. They asked her to put the manuscript in order and let her break it up and fold it for you page by page. I'm afraid my husband will blame me for sending such a blunt person to serve. Who knows, later her husband praised her. "
Because Momo did his duty. She will do whatever she says and tell her things, even if she is killed, she will not spit out a word. She knows that she is only a girl, so she never hits anything other than a girl. Is Mo Mo really "stupid"? Writing here, to tell the truth, I find more and more that DOG is not really stupid. On the contrary, this is her "great wisdom" for survival. My mother often tells me this sentence. She said, "No matter how stupid a person is, if you cheat him once or twice, he won't let you cheat him a third time. Even if he can't respond to your calculations for the first time, it doesn't mean that he will never respond. " In other words, those seemingly "smart" schemers are actually deceived by themselves in the end.
Sheng's second daughter, Sheng Moran, has been calculating since she was a child. She can always hurt Sheng Minglan and Sheng Rulan, but what did she get in the end? She offended her relatives and made many enemies. So that she has a good life, no one is happy for her, she has a bad life and no one supports her. She calculated Liu Lang Han Liang of the Earl's Office of Yongchang, and became the first lady of Hou Fu as she wished. But her life in her husband's family is not happy at all. Because, the calculated marriage has no gold content. If Han Liang can fall in love with her, he will also fall in love with other women, because he is a cool and thin playboy. My favorite sentence is: who you are and who you will meet.
Momo is bold and straightforward. The man she married, Shi Qiang, is just like her. Therefore, there is no calculation between them, only the determination to live a good life. Momo and Shi Qiang, one is a girl from Plutocratic family, and the other is a wealthy businessman from Cao Gang. The two of them are not uncalculated capital. Even if they forget it, they will not be worse than anyone else. However, they know more about the "no calculation" between husband and wife, which is the real happiness. Yang Lan said: "The strongest bond in marriage is not children, not money, but spiritual growth." I think this is also the fundamental reason why "stupid" Momo can live so happily.