How to tell a person's character from his clothes?

Since the birth of mankind, how to understand strangers, companions, friends and relatives has become a long-standing problem. Wise ancestors summed up a series of famous sayings and aphorisms, reminding themselves at all times, such as "the road is long, but Xiu Yuan is eager to know horsepower, and people will see their hearts for a long time" and "knowing people's faces but not their hearts". However, summing up leads to summing up, refining leads to refining, and the difficulty of knowing people is still like a mountain in front of everyone. Interestingly, the problem has not been solved, but it has spawned a new career-Ma Yi Shi Xiang, and "knowing people" has become an easy career that can be fooled as much as possible. The times are developing, science is progressing, and the skill of knowing people naturally keeps pace with the times. Since the emergence of modern psychology, we have understood that Fiona Fang is not necessarily an official position. Inadvertently born triangular eyes and broom eyebrows are not necessarily doomed to treachery. To understand a person's personality, we should not only listen to his words, but also observe his actions, so many things that we have never paid attention to have become the best window to understand a person. Open this topic, you will find that behind different clothing habits, there are individuals with different personalities; Appreciating the different lines of the body will also reflect people's different preferences and attitudes towards life; Even the animals in the movies are allegorical expressions of people's different personalities. After tasting this topic, you will understand that behind countless seemingly simple and different life details, there is an independent and colorful inner world. (Dong) Voice of Experts Wang Jisheng, a researcher at the Institute of Psychology, Chinese Academy of Sciences, stressed: "There are many factors that affect and reflect a person's personality and psychology. Clothing can really reflect a person's psychological characteristics and can be used as a reference for us to know a person, but we can't generalize at will. Because people have a lot of contingency when choosing clothes, for example, sometimes people choose different clothes because of different times and occasions. " Dress preference reveals a woman's heart. A recent survey abroad found that a person's favorite color often represents his personality and emotional color. Dr. Peter Rover, an American psychologist, believes that a person's psychology can often be inferred from his preference for clothing color and clothing, which is more obvious in women. Coincidentally, Masazo Shibuya, a doctor of psychology at the School of Humanities, Tokyo University, and now a professor of psychology at the Department of Human Sociology, Mubai University, proposed that women's choice of clothing implied many personalized psychological characteristics on the basis of years of specialized research on nonverbal communication and spatial movements. Looking at women from the perspective of workplace dress: women who wear pants in the workplace are more feminine, and women who wear skirts are more feminine. In the workplace, women wear masculine clothes, showing a more masculine psychology-they want to work like men and decide the outcome by strength, not because they are women. Therefore, such women should try to eliminate their femininity. These people may be aware of their feminine parts and wear strict suits to hide them. If such a woman leaves the workplace, she will lift the restrictions and become very feminine. So people who choose the same clothes as men's suits are enthusiastic and self-motivated. They have strong opinions and a strong sense of competition with others, but they are uncoordinated and prone to conflict with others. People who usually wear skirts and women's clothes at work go to work as women. Sometimes, such people will take the initiative to use female characteristics. They have the characteristics of calmly and thoroughly calculating the whole event in order to survive, which is quite different from what they appear on the outside, and can be regarded as very masculine people in the subconscious. Understanding women from the complexity of clothes: women in gorgeous clothes are actually uneasy about people? In fact, everyone feels isolated from the outside world, which is the so-called "body boundary". Originally the most basic boundary was skin. When wearing clothes, clothes become the boundary, so clothes can be said to be "second skin." A person always tries to hide his naked body and wears clothes, but often his heart is exposed because of his choice of clothes. Masazo Shibuya, a professor of psychology in the Department of Human Sociology at Mubai University, believes that if a person has a weak sense of boundaries, it is difficult for him to feel different from others and to grasp the distance from others, so he is not good at interacting with people, because he is always uneasy because of his weak boundaries with the outside world. People who want to enhance their sense of boundaries will wear eye-catching clothes that are obviously different. In addition, with the enhancement of the tightness between clothes and skin, it can also strengthen people's sense of boundaries. A woman who is confident in her figure and exudes femininity everywhere in gorgeous clothes may feel uneasy about others after taking off her clothes. People who wear loose and comfortable clothes regardless of their figure are people who can keep up with the fashion and master the pace that does not belong to them. On the one hand, we can strengthen our own values, on the other hand, we can have good interpersonal relationships to understand women from the color system of clothes: the favorite color can directly show a person's personality. I have seen a person several times, and I can probably know what color she likes from her clothes. A person's favorite color can directly tell a person's personality, and it can also tell what kind of person he wants to be and how he wants others to see him. Yoga Yu, deputy manager and chief image consultant of Beijing Chinese Family Fashion Design Co., Ltd., said that she would first observe the types of guests when consulting on color. Years of work experience enabled her to judge a guest's character almost from the first sight. She said: "People who like bright colors are generally cheerful, healthy or enthusiastic and self-centered; I like to wear white, which looks noble and pure, a little cold in my subconscious, giving people a sense of distance, and so on. " Wang Jisheng, a researcher at the Institute of Psychology, Chinese Academy of Sciences, said that color works through human vision. Different colors emit different wavelengths of light. When human eyes come into contact with different colors, brain nerves will have different associations and reactions. "Colors are divided into cool colors and warm colors. Wearing clothes of different colors has different effects. Therefore, people choose clothing colors, mostly internal projection or back projection. " Dr Peter Rover, an American psychologist, found that women who like to wear red clothes are considered as "ambitious young people". They are often dissatisfied, adventurous and follow the fashion, but their fickle temperament is often unpredictable. Women who like green are considered as "tough and practical mothers". In life, they are content with the status quo, act cautiously and work hard, but they are afraid of taking risks, being ahead of others, being introverted, often suppressing their desires and being ashamed to take the initiative in their feelings. In addition, people who like white often feel alienated but difficult to approach; People who like purple may be more romantic; People who like yellow are naive at heart; People who like blue are sincere and full of fantasy; People who like black suppress their feelings but long for care and love ... Of course, this classification seems a bit too simple, and there are often many colors that a person likes, so it is impossible to generalize. However, knowing what color a woman prefers may help to understand her heart. Understanding women from the brightness of clothing colors: people who like high-color colors are cheerful and outgoing, but their hearts are full of anxiety. Dr. Peter Rover, an American psychologist, found that people who pay attention to the color of clothes and like complex clothes are often more practical and confident, but they love to dominate others, and their feelings are impulsive and easy to fall into anxiety. People who like light-colored clothes and simple clothes are often introverted and lead a simple, gentle and quiet life, but they are prone to lack of self-confidence, strong dependence and are not good at acting independently. Masazo Shibuya, a professor of Japanese psychology, believes that people who like high-color colors are outgoing and active. But my heart is full of anxiety, uncertainty and dissatisfaction. It is because I want to make up for my anxiety that I like high-tone colors. They have a strong anxiety about their personality and ability, and may be dissatisfied with their work, workplace and treatment. It's completely different from appearance, but it's actually a shrinking personality. Lack of coordination, easily influenced by new and popular things. In addition, even small things will make them feel happy and sad, while people who don't like high-color colors are highly satisfied with themselves, firmly determine their self-orientation, have a realistic attitude towards life, are sincere in personality and have stable feelings, and will choose their communication partners according to their own standards in interpersonal relationships and establish stable relationships from the beginning. Their self-assertion is not too strong, but they can express their views without fear when necessary. In addition, because a woman's choice of clothes will be influenced by her mood at that time, the mood of the day will often be seen from the clothes she changes every day. Recently, I read some books on psychology and saw an interesting theory that "clothing is an extension of self". Psychologically speaking, many casual activities of human beings can well reflect a person's subconscious, which is a good performance of a person's personality and will also determine a large part of a person's actions. First, well-dressed people have a strong desire to show themselves, and they like to show off in public. We will always find that some people always wear gorgeous clothes, and such people generally have a strong desire to show themselves. At the same time, this kind of person's desire for money is particularly urgent. Therefore, when you see such people wearing gorgeous clothes, or there are such people among your classmates, it is a good way to gain insight into their psychology, praise their clothes and satisfy their inflated desire to show off, so if someone praises your clothes, you should be more careful. Second, people who dress simply lack self-confidence and like to quarrel. There is a kind of person who wears simple clothes and doesn't like to wear gorgeous clothes. Most of these people lack subjective character and confidence in themselves. They want to give others dignity and make up for their inferiority complex. Never argue with such people, because the more they feel inferior, the more they will quarrel with others. In order to save the little face left behind, it is not conducive to maintaining relations with others. Third, people who like fashionable clothes feel lonely and their mood often fluctuates. There is a kind of people who completely ignore their hobbies. They just regard fashion as a hobby and follow it closely. This kind of person has a sense of loneliness in his heart and his mood is often uneasy. What kind of person do you design? Looking at personality from the color of clothing, German psychologist Louville pioneered the method of judging personality through color preference, which is popular all over the world. Because color has indescribable charm in the appearance of clothing, it can not only show the texture of clothing, but also show a person's personality and demeanor, and it is the most emotional part of a person's overall image. What color clothes a person chooses is closely related to his personality. Because this is related to the state of psychological activity at that time, we can see what kind of personality characteristics each person has from his favorite color. At the same time, it can make up for some deficiencies in body shape and skin color to some extent. Men prefer cool colors and neutral colors. These colors of clothes look solemn, powerful, dignified and deep. People of different professional ages and personalities have different choices of clothing colors. For example, young people like lively and warm colors; Middle-aged and elderly people are keen on calm and deep colors; Doctors prefer clean, bright, light and refreshing colors; Artists often choose romantic and unique imitation colors, which have classical charm. . Specifically, we can see through the personality of the wearer from the preference for clothing color. 1. On the surface, people who choose black clothes may leave a mysterious, noble and professional impression on others. Most of these people are not good at socializing. They just use black to cover up their inner anxiety or fear. 2. People who choose blue clothes Blue is a very common color. Such people prefer to be quiet, carefree, good at controlling their feelings and have a sense of responsibility. At the same time, he is knowledgeable and has strong judgment. Personality is also stubborn, don't give up until you reach your goal. They are not sociable, so they only form a small group with like-minded friends. Stubborn, lacking the magnanimity to accept other people's opinions. 3. People who choose dark blue clothes. Dark blue is a color formed by calm and emotional blue and black. It not only retains the firmness and mystery of black, but also adds the tenacity and persistence of blue, making deep blue both intellectual and managerial. People who like to wear dark blue clothes should be excellent decision makers. Such people will consider everything thoroughly and are more likely to achieve their careers, and most of them are men. Most of these men like to be independent and work for themselves, but they don't like to accept criticism and suggestions from others. 4. People who choose white clothes White is a solid color without any impurities. The person who chooses white clothes is a person who pursues perfection, but there is also a practical side. This kind of person is lonely at heart, eager to attract the attention, care and even admiration of others. They don't like the unreasonable manners of others, so in the eyes of outsiders, they are the kind of people who love and fear, are pretentious and like to get into a dead end. 5. People who choose yellow clothes Yellow is a color of spiritual energy, which can accelerate the realization of ideals and stimulate new ideas, but it gives people a stupid impression because most people don't know how to choose the yellow that suits them. A person who chooses yellow clothes is usually a person who has his own unique opinions and ideas and is very creative and curious. They are cheerful and outgoing, energetic, confident and natural, fearless in speaking and not worried about what others will think. This kind of people have the characteristics of adventure, pursuit of excitement and novelty, and cannot remain unchanged. 6. People who choose green clothes Green is a vibrant color, representing the birth and continuation of life. People who like green clothes are modest and practical, good at restraining themselves, do not like to argue with others, are not easily upset, and rarely feel anxious or sad. Kindness and easygoing are the biggest characteristics of this kind of people, and they will not deliberately exclude or alienate people they don't like. This kind of person has a strong sense of morality and straightforward personality, and is an ideal object for chatting. 7. People who choose purple clothes Purple is a noble and arrogant color, which is a combination of red and blue. It contains the definition of spirit and body, and it is the best aid to control emotions. People who like to wear purple clothes are people with high observation and understanding. Such people are introverted, sentimental and often feel anxious, but they can control and control their inner anxiety and distress. Such people are generally good in cultural quality and self-cultivation, and are often artists. However, people who often wear purple clothes are somewhat conceited and often show disdain for people or things who are not in the same field or class with them, making people around them feel that they are affected. 8. People who choose brown clothes. Brown gives a sedate but slightly depressing feeling. These people have a strong basic desire, rigid personality and strong sense of self-worth, and are afraid of having to change themselves because of the intervention of external factors. But in appearance and attitude towards things, it gives people great trust. Clearly dividing the interests between people can easily give others an indifferent tendency, but its honest and frank character is quite trustworthy. 9. People who choose gray clothes Many people know that "black or gray" has always been an eternal principle in the fashion world. In fact, people who choose gray clothes are usually people who are not easy to trust others. They will handle everything perfectly before they feel successful, otherwise they would rather not do it. Usually they don't give things to others casually, and it is very difficult to gain their trust. 10. People who choose red clothes are full of energy, but excessive red will make people nervous and grumpy. Most of these people are energetic activists. No matter how much effort and cost they make, they must satisfy their curiosity and desire, and they will devote themselves to what they are focused on and interested in 100% enthusiasm. However, such people often lack patience, and when they encounter setbacks, they will soon lose their original enthusiasm and their mood will change greatly. They are outspoken, speak and do things without thinking, never consider the feelings of others, and don't care about the possible consequences. Moreover, they have no ability to bear mistakes and courage to reflect on themselves, and are used to blaming others or irresistible factors from outside. 1 1. People who choose orange clothes orange is a high-brightness color, which symbolizes prosperity and pride. It is a natural color and gives people a warm feeling. People wearing orange clothes, with cheerful smiles and full of energy, often become the focus of the crowd and are very popular, but they often make themselves unprincipled because they don't easily offend others. They are afraid of loneliness, like excitement, and are naive and sensitive. People who choose orange usually love nature very much and like outdoor activities. Such people are indecisive and fickle, which makes people around them feel frivolous and unstable. 12. People who choose brown clothes have a sense of stability and security. Although it makes people feel old-fashioned, there is a sense of authority. People who like brown clothes are calm in appearance and enthusiastic in heart. They will get used to doing everything down-to-earth, even if they encounter setbacks, it will be difficult to swallow themselves, and they will never let others see their fragile side, making people feel a little dull in emotional expression. 13. People who choose brown clothes have dark skin and plain appearance. People who like this color also prefer styles that are not gorgeous but full of charm; Very concerned about the spiritual expression of the inner layer of things, its existence is inconspicuous, but it has good potential internally; Honest and responsible, easy to be accepted by others. However, sometimes it seems a bit inflexible because of being too diligent. 14. People who choose pink clothes pink is a combination of red and white, which has two personality characteristics: white and red. It can be said that it is a combination of sensibility and rationality, and knowledge and innocence coexist. People who choose pink clothes are mostly naive dreamers, with a pure mind like a blank sheet of paper, living in their own woven world all day. They are sensitive and gentle, and often want to give themselves a feeling of youth and vitality. They even want to be the noble image in the eyes of others, emitting a charm that makes people feel comfortable when they see it, but they have a strong tendency to escape from reality. Clothing color is a talking "color language", which conveys people's psychological state, intention, personality, hobbies, interests and identity. Mastering this "language" will add more weight for you to see through each other more accurately. Clothing style is the stage of the soul. Guo Moruo once said: "Clothes are the symbol of culture, and clothes are the image of thought." People's clothes not only set off a person's appearance, temperament and demeanor, but also reflect a person's quality and cultivation. Clothing beauty is the external expression of people's inner beauty. Clothing is a silent object language, which can convey people's mentality, personality, hobbies and identity. A person wants to hide himself and wear clothes, but his heart is often exposed because of clothes. Because the clothes a person wears on his body through his own choice just show his inner heart that can't be exposed when he is naked. Therefore, it is not surprising that clothes are regarded as an inseparable part of the human body and even regarded as "the embodiment of oneself". This situation is called "self-prolongation" in psychology. It can be said that clothing is not only a flowing culture, but also a stage to express the soul.