A letter to a child in prison;
Hello!
I read your letter over and over again with tears in my eyes. When tears fell on the paper, I felt a little relieved: your handwriting is neat, and only one place has two words added, which shows that you are very serious and care about the letter to be written; Your words are sincere, and there are thoughts about your growth process and yearning for your future life between the lines. That's good. I hope you will continue to think and put it into practice in the future.
Like you said? When I first embarked on the road of crime, I was only 100 meters away from home, and it took me five years to walk such a short distance. . I can see that this is your heartfelt confession. It can be seen that while your soul repents, it has regarded the bloody facts as a warning light of life. In fact, you don't want this to happen. It really happens by accident. As the saying goes, it is a blessing, not a curse, but a curse. Since there is such a disaster in life, let's take it as a test of fate!
Yes, life is full of uncertain variables. It is important not to trust the fingerprints on the palm of your hand, but to trust the power on your fingertips. Because, as you sow, you reap, and fate always favors those who dare to challenge him. Remember, you are only 19 years old, and there is still a long way to go in life and a lot to learn.
Really? The world is cold, everything is learned, and people's understanding is an article? . Whether in prison or later, always remember that the current situation is because you are young and ignorant and unprepared, so you should think twice before you do anything. In this way, every time you do something, you will think about the cause and effect; In this way, wherever you go, you will think about how to get along with others. People always have to constantly adapt to the environment, create the environment, and finally surpass the environment. I believe you can overcome your cowardly character and transform yourself into a real man in the future.
Remember, a real man should be brave enough to face the bleak life. A real man should stick to his beliefs and never give up. A real man should be chivalrous, gentle and grateful.
Grateful heart, thanks to fate, gives you a temper. Because suffering is a kind of wealth, not everyone will have your experience.
Grateful heart, thank the government, thank the prison, thank them for their care, encouragement and support when you turn over a new leaf.
Grateful heart, thank parents. We brought you into this world and raised you with a mouthful of rice and porridge. Now, we have lost everything for you and spent all our savings. Now for you, my mother is over forty years old, and she still has to wander in other places, relying on others and watching their faces work; Nowadays, I often sit in a lonely lamp, guarding the thoughts of your mother and the endless memories of you, giving a long sigh and shedding a muddy old tear?
Son, you should remember your parents' hope for you, and you should remember that unforgettable lesson. Remember, there is a door called "Freedom" not far away. I believe you will carry a lamp of faith and trudge hard, because we are quietly praying for you at home and waiting for your return!
Son, it's cold. Put on more clothes. Tell you, mom's work and life have settled down, and dad goes to work as usual, so don't worry too much about us. If you want to care about us, you must study hard and learn more knowledge; Do a good job and do it seriously according to the requirements of prison leaders; Be a good person, strive to be a real man as soon as possible, and write an answer sheet that satisfies the government, society and parents on the white paper of life.
Son, I typed this letter like an ant. It's getting late, so I won't write. I wish you a happy Mid-Autumn Festival and an early return!
father
September 2, 20091day
A letter from Fan Wen Erliang to the children in prison;
Today is your 37th birthday. All because of your loyalty, filial piety and benevolence? The result of leaving four words is culpable of punishment. Usually I tell you the truth of being a man, but you always turn a deaf ear. Today, I will repeat it with you. You have time to think about it. I hope my words have an effect.
First, talk about loyalty. Loyalty consists of two words: neutralization and heart. China people are in China, and China people should have the heart of China. In other words, we should love our motherland and support the * * * production party. * * * Do what the Party allows, do what the Party encourages, and resolutely refuse to do what the Party does not allow, and resolutely refuse to do what is illegal and criminal. Once you do this, the government will arrest you, suppress you and sentence you to death. Once caught, twice caught. You'll never turn over. Am I talking about this? Loyalty? Words.
Secondly, let's talk about the word filial piety. Filial piety, my understanding is composed of two words: old word and sub-word. The old word represents the old father and the old mother, and the son represents the son and daughter. Children should honor their parents: parents fall, children should help their parents; When parents are sick, children should treat their parents; Otherwise, it is unfilial. When the old parents died, the children became parents. At this time, the child must educate the child and be a good example for the child, so that the child will honor you. How did you do that? You should review the road you have traveled and what you have done, so that you will cherish the days to come. When your mother helped you pack your clothes in the detention center, she cried and said that you borrowed so much money to take drugs and allowed others to take drugs, but didn't buy her a candy. Listen to this, you say heartache is not heartache!
Let me talk about the word benevolence and righteousness again. I understand the word benevolence, which means that there are two paths in front of everyone: a right path and an evil path. People who follow the right path cultivate themselves with morality, educate people with sincerity and have a sense of justice. People who go astray are people who cheat others and tell lies. 20 14, 10 year18 October, you lied to my two brothers that you went to Nanning, Guangxi. 20 14, 1 1, your son is seriously ill in hospital. Mom called to tell you that you were in Nanning and came back to see him the next day. And you lied again. In fact, you are not in Nanning, but taking drugs in Liling. It's really irritating Son, as the saying goes, good company, good neighbor? Why did you cheat and lie all the way? You were the last one to hit the wall!
You lied and borrowed money everywhere. You gave you 15000 with the small lease you opened together, and you still owe more than 4000 rental fees, totaling 20000. Xiaoyu lends you 20 thousand; Li Ge lends you1000; Brother Zhou lent you 1000, and Brother Cai lent you 16000? You are so disappointing, you don't want family and blood, make some irresponsible friends to take drugs and waste money together. If you don't change it, the consequences will be more serious! Think about it yourself in the detention center!
This lesson should be profound. As you said yourself, detention centers are not easy to treat. I told you, right? The human heart is iron, and the national law is a furnace? If you bring disgrace to oneself, no matter how hard the iron is, it will be melted in the furnace.
Through this transformation, you must make cruel and painful changes and pull back from the edge of the cliff. It has changed. When I come out, my parents will tide over the difficulties with you. Don't blame your family for ignoring you if you don't change.
Mother word
Fan Wensan's letter to Yang, a child in prison:
The Spring Festival is coming. Other people's children are leading their children home for reunion. They are as old as we are, and they are reluctant to be tired of the elderly. They all took their parents to the restaurant for dinner. There are many traditional festivals now, and the country has also advocated them. The fashion of respecting the old and loving the young is getting stronger and stronger.
Yang Zhitian and I don't have this blessing. For more than ten years, we bowed our heads and met our colleagues and friends. If you don't want to stay a little longer, you won't dare to bring up the child. We really can't talk. Your father went home to deliver milk to your grandfather's grave. People in Yang Jiacun asked about it. He said he was annoyed and had a headache. Sometimes our neighbors ask, probably out of kindness, and we don't want to answer, so we go out without anything. Economically speaking, although our pension is higher than that of enterprise retirees, we still live with people in the power industry. Li Shurong (your sister-in-law, Xiao Tao) is an ordinary worker with an annual income of more than 100,000 yuan. In 2007, Wang Luping was promoted to a middle-level cadre in the power industry. His annual income is above 1.5 million and below 200,000. They all have two or three buildings and cars. The annual income of employees can cover the income of both of us for three years. If people who are nearly seventy like us can work and earn their own living, the old couple will live happily. After all, the social system is so good that the old people have no worries about food and clothing, but as both of us, we are troubled by you. We live in a free world, and those parents praise their children's filial piety and ability, so we have more thoughts in our hearts and are full of hatred for you. We don't want others to encroach on our pension, but we can do so voluntarily. As long as someone wants it, they will be unhappy and get sick. In 2007, you asked Li Litao for money and Ma Haijun for money. Why do people give you money? What do you give to others? Are you shameless? We think it is ok to buy some daily necessities with the money we bring on weekdays. Prison has food, clothes and a job, which is the most suitable place for your life. That's a place to reform people's minds, not to enjoy happiness. We offer you less pocket money than this, but more than this. You must know it in your heart. Every Saturday, the legal station broadcasts the trial site and the confession on Thursday. It can be said that the two of us never watch it, and 80% of the female prisoners who broadcast it for a certain period of time don't even communicate with them. The difficulties of some prisoners' families are that the prison police and social donations help them tide over the difficulties. Who can send them money? Moreover, they are all well transformed, and the government also gives them some money to buy daily necessities such as toothpaste every month.
Li Junping is a student that I have taught. He has been dead for almost a year. He came back to see you and said, what do you mean? Can't you just be okay? We are very disappointed in you. He is the tennis coach of the national team. He has two sisters and two younger brothers in the world. He was in charge of all family affairs and left his parents a sum of money after his death. Meng Xiangbin, a 28-year-old young officer, died trying to save a girl who committed suicide. His death caused a sensation in the whole country and set an example for the people of the whole country to learn from. Therefore, although some people are dead, they will live in people's hearts forever. Although some people are still alive, they have already died in people's hearts.
Your father and I were buried in a lot of soil. We all value face more than life. We don't want to ask for help from others all our lives, nor do we want to cause trouble to others all our lives. If others treat us better, we will repay you. Our genes are not in your body. How many requests have you made to outsiders over the years, and they were rejected in the end, which shows that we have difficulties or are unwilling to do it, and we won't mention it again in the future, and you won't have such a long memory. In fact, your uncle and aunt have visited Yang in prison, perhaps more than once, and we all said it afterwards. Yang worked as a soldier, joined the party, and drove a car to the leader after changing jobs. Before he went to prison, he made many social friends. He has a social foundation, and his comrades have come to see him several times. You are different from him. What do you have in society? Everyone you created has suffered from you. And Wang? You are ashamed to meet them. In addition, the children of your father's comrades-in-arms, as well as the children of our neighbors, have now become talents. Cai Gang had climbed to the position of leader, joined the Party as a police officer, and promoted his job. This young man is really beautiful. Lu Shijiang graduated from Shanghai University, a foreign-funded enterprise, and now works in the Shanghai office. He bought a villa, and his mother-in-law and mother all live in Shanghai. He also hired a nanny at home to deliver meals in every restaurant, and his daughter-in-law is a master's student. Feng Xiaojun is 39 years old, his son is only two years old, and Feng 4 1 year old. The subject is just 4 months pregnant. Why, in the job competition, if you don't want to lose your job, you have to find a suitable opportunity to have a child; Zhong Haiming is 32 years old this year. His date is 33 years old. He is still working in Japan and will have a baby when he comes back from work. Zhong Haiming earned more than 100,000 yuan after working in Korea for three years. He bought a building and decorated it himself, and his family didn't spend any money. In order to make his parents enjoy some happiness, the couple went to work in Japan for three years, and then came back to have children and do something else. Our environment is like this, good children abound, and the heart can never be calm. People talk about you? Playing with women and having children without long hair? You specialize in embarrassing things. You can't compare with other children. You seem to be an exception. I remember your letter many years ago saying that you don't even blame yourself now. ? The implication is that when you commit a crime, you blame your family. If your family forces you to steal, you always feel that others are sorry for you. Let's put ourselves in others' shoes. As a parent, you raised a son like you. what do you think? Which son in the rural area of Xihuan District can give his parents a year 1000 is the most filial child. Before you went to prison, we borrowed tens of thousands of dollars to buy a house in the south. In these years, we can't control it, but we sold it again and lost 20 thousand. Let's recall, how much do you owe me? The police detained you 1000, learned to drive 3000, fought and fought on weekdays, and spent some money. Is that 2000 yuan deposit slip your money? How many months have you worked in the sanitation department? When can I get my full salary? Stealing the company's car and crashing it again will be deducted by the company. I will pay you a month's salary as compensation. I will take 80 yuan once a month. After two years, I only paid back the interest of 2000 yuan. Can I call you, too Hold on. Yes When your father was still at work, you told me that you killed someone, and you wanted to run out and hide, and cheated your father of 5000 yuan. I asked your dad, and everyone else gave me a bonus. Your dad didn't pay me for a year. Later, your father told the truth. The second time I lied to your father, he didn't fall for it. You stole his Bibi machine, which was allocated to him by the material company. You got into trouble, and the police and communications questioned your father. It's really embarrassing! In addition, one night, jiaozi, who was wrapped at home, didn't eat, lying in the corridor, asking your dad for money and going to a restaurant to eat. Another time, your father and I were still at work, and your sister was preparing for the adult exam at home. When you go home to get food for others, your sister refuses to take it, so you beat her black and bloodshot. The vision of that eye has dropped a lot, and he still wears sunglasses during the exam. On the eve of her wedding, I don't know why she wanted a watch or something, but you tried to hit her all day and broke all her windows. Where is your fraternity? In order to force money, you cut down all the doors in our house with a kitchen knife and threw the knife at your father. The old house has been rebuilt, but the scar in your heart will never go away. I teach you, you curse, you raise your hand, you hit, you hit your parents, you tear all his clothes, and your uncle cries when he comes home, which is incredible for your behavior. Your scene seems to have happened yesterday. If blood is not thicker than water, we wouldn't go to see you at all, and we wouldn't send you pocket money at all.
If one day you are released from prison, don't try to live with us. As the saying goes, is it difficult to get steamed bread back? We can't stand you, and people like you are not welcome in our neighbors, which makes people feel unsafe. We offer you a house to live in, but you don't own it. You should stand on your own feet and stop spending our money. Who are your father's and mine? Asking us for money bothers me. You can't ask Ma Haijun and Yan Yang anymore. What are you good for people? Ma never mentioned to anyone's family that Yang Yan had a brother in prison, which was a shame. More can't for you, and affect the feelings of his couple. Ma Haijun's eldest son graduated from university this summer, and is going to the United States or Canada for postgraduate or postdoctoral studies. He is in the second grade of Pumbaa Primary School, and their living burden is quite heavy. Ma went to work in charge, his legs were frozen and he couldn't walk. No one wants people like you to enjoy the fruits of their labor. You should have a correct evaluation of yourself. If you are ambitious, you can get a job in prison and don't come back. Your father is often dizzy now. I hope you can behave yourself and stop interfering with us. We should stay out of it. You may not understand why you are where you are now. I'll tell you the truth. Rich and powerful people play with women? It is a common truth that you have no money and no right to play with a woman who doesn't even want to work. Can we not take the road of stealing? Yang, you have to understand that naughty children who fight can be cured in a few years. Haiyan (Xiaodong), like your uncle Zhao Qiang's house, is a good example. His mother once told me during the war. I really want the police to tell me that Xiaodong was killed by a car, clean and tidy. ? Xiaodong is fine now, working in the electric power bureau, and his daughter has already entered junior high school. People are superstitious when they are forced. When you were fooling around, someone looked at me and said you were a? Five ghosts and six sons, eating, drinking, whoring, gambling and stealing? Now you are not good either. You know best that people who are willing to spend other people's money don't know if those who want to practice can be good. Is there a law in China that requires people who are nearly 40 to reach out and ask for money from others, or even transfer the money to other people's accounts? You owe money to others, and when you get out of prison, you can make money and pay it back. We are all seventy years old, so it doesn't matter what you do. If you get out of prison now, I really want to be fair. Let's break up. Before you go to prison, let's go to the court to break off the relationship once, right? Our most shameful thing is that when you were studying in a vocational high school, Yang Jiacun's classmates came back to the village and said: Yang Caizi's son is the material for reform through labor. ? Your brother-in-law said: Yang is flying on the bank of the river, wearing sunglasses and holding the hand of the German shepherd. He is really a criminal. ? Your sister got married soon, and if she doesn't give you money, you will smash the TV and the refrigerator. I can't. I'll buy you a German shepherd with the only money I have in 600 yuan. It was better than the Dragon Boat Festival at that time. At school, I borrowed 200 yuan from my teacher and sold something to your grandma and grandma. Yang, are you not guilty? It's really a sin to say this plainly. It cost you thousands to hire a lawyer twice. You've been in prison for more than ten years. When did you not send you money? You really don't know the size. You think we are opening a bank. Our hearts are broken, broken. We all try to forget all this unhappiness, but we can't. As soon as we heard your voice, we felt sad. Last time your father wrote to me, he asked me to send you 300 yuan. I said, you can change it again and add 300 yuan to buy something for him, but you are still not satisfied. You are such a piece of meat, scum. You have been in prison for more than ten years. Did she tell you about sleeping with Wu Manzai forever? Xiaofeng, like you, dares not let her take the tuition by cheating money. She stole the flowers as soon as she got the money. She ran away when someone disciplined her. She may have gone to Hubei now, all this is what her aunt said. We know nothing about what you think you are doing and the situation you are in. Although I am old, I am as sensitive as I am young. When is October? Xiaofeng got through to your dad's PHS and went to see your dad again. When your father went home to talk, I immediately said: Wu Zhuncheng broke the law and was arrested by the police. ? This proves my prediction again. There are four women in the Wu family. The eldest sister and his wife run a restaurant for prostitution. Maybe they made some money at that time, and it was only a matter of time before they broke the law. Later, they were heavily in debt and were chased by creditors. Uncle is a prostitute again. He was in prison with you. He may have been out of prison. Wu broke the law again. I don't think she is fighting a war, but she may be organizing prostitution. She was sentenced to five years in prison. The youngest daughter, husband and wife, divorced and separated. I used to work in Haixi supermarket, but now I run Shannan supermarket. Xiaofeng didn't go to Shannan, but to Hubei. Studying is nothing. In a small city like Haixi, these things spread quickly. I know everything. I told your dad long ago that it was only a matter of time before Wu went to jail. When Xiaofeng was 2 years old, that is, we were going to break up with Xiaofeng and ignore her again. Every time I go to a Chinese and western place to see Xiaofeng off, Wu rents a house there, ostensibly for a haircut, but actually organizes a group of women to engage in prostitution. She is also fooling around with two men (one young and one old). Wu may also see my disgust. She once told me publicly that she was going to marry the younger one, so I told her to divorce you in prison first, for fear that she would commit bigamy. She told me that she was not registered with you at all. I told you, at the trial, the lawyer showed you the marriage certificate. Wu flatly rejected me: That's a fake. ? Yang, you have lied to me for so long. When you went to prison, you didn't tell me the truth at this time I lied to Wu Shuo for so long. I hate it! Did you do DNA? Is she your child? Isn't that what Wu does in the food court? What a piece of shit. You are a green-headed fly, and this metaphor is perfect. Your mood is abnormal when you sentence Wu. You call Yan Yang and send a text message until the government correctional officers also call you to ask. We all know that you are rotten, and you are no longer allowed to disturb Yan Yang. Because of this, the relationship between her husband and wife is not easy to handle. Don't ruin my only child for you. As I said above, her life burden is also very heavy, and it is more difficult for her to earn money personally. It is possible for someone else to help you once or twice. Why does it give people the impression that there is no progress at all? As before, you just want to eat for free and always like to ask others for money to help you. You hurt your family so much, why don't you think your parents and sisters are your cash cows? If you can't satisfy them, just play tricks on them. Xiaofeng went to ask your sister for money. /kloc-in October, your sister gave her 500 yuan./kloc-in October, she called again for money. Your sister asked her what she was doing and how she spent the money she gave last time. What did Xiaofeng say? Did you spend all the money you gave last time on clothes? I want money to treat her to dinner this birthday. Your sister said, don't you celebrate your birthday in August? Why 1 1 month again? How is your family environment? Xiaofeng, if she is your child, she is cheating and wasting money just like you. Can your sister care about such a child? Can the Ma family agree? I haven't seen you for four or five years, and I haven't written for two years, because the last letter I wrote was read by the government management, and you are not satisfied with me. I will send this letter to you today. People who have been in prison for several years can't find a job when they come back. Luoshan has only been in prison for less than three years. When he first came out, he went to the kelp farm to raise kelp. The boss knows he doesn't want his history. It may be better now after a long time. How can I eat with such a long sentence and such an old age? I love thinking and can't sleep at night. It doesn't matter if Wu sleeps with hundreds of men, as long as he doesn't formally marry others. You are not a good thing anyway. If Xiaofeng is yours, just make do together and do something. Wu is in the front, you are in the back, earn a bowl of rice. Now, Wu is in prison. Haixi people really discriminate against Northeasters. There are too many people in the northeast of Haixi. Almost all of them are killing, robbing, stealing and fighting. You were very kind to Feng when you worked in the material trade, and her brother tried every means to stop you. Why do Li, Wu all like you? Northeasters want to find a local as their foundation. Local decent people didn't look for the northeast. Your father and your sister visited you before the Spring Festival last year, and your father came back to learn from me. Your mother won't come to see you, and we won't let you in when you come back from prison. ? This is the voice of our whole family. You are really a troublemaker. It has been 26 years since our family was transferred from the army to the local government. At that time, you were still in the fourth grade, and the school held a sports meeting. Did you cheat the teacher? My grandmother is ill. Why not go home and have a look? In fact, you are going to Dongfeng's house to eat, drink and have fun. You've hurt this family for 26 years. Do you really want to torture us to death? You have served 15 years. When have you ever asked your family for leisure? It seems that your parents forced you to steal it. Your parents enjoyed what you stole, didn't they?
You said in your message: Without Wu, Xiaofeng and you have no chance to live. The truth also shows that you have no parental affection and brotherhood. The three of us are just your ATMs. Your father's love is true and everything is false. We still have to remind you that you are shameless. We must live in the sun!