I can't remember the questions in the interview clearly, so let's summarize them according to the consultant.
1, Zhang Haitao, joined the platform last September and has been in contact with learning psychological counseling for 5 years. His research schools are short-range focus, CBT and humanism, and Owen Yalong's group therapy. When I entered the business, I was encouraged by my consultant to "try first, don't think about things after 10 years and 8 years". This sentence has a feeling of living in the present, which gives me a special feeling in my heart.
Novice consultants, there must be more cases of failure than success. In fact, tourists have everything, and they will take whatever they can catch. The effect of a novice consultant is not necessarily bad. After completing one case, the senior consultant will move on to the next. A novice consultant may spend a week thinking, and a novice consultant needs time to make up.
The requirements of the cases I accept are not so high, and the pressure to enter the platform will be greater, because visitors have higher expectations for the platform. But there are many situations after entering the platform. Moreover, the platform will be automatically closed after 10 and distributed to more other consultants.
Group counseling is also a genre, and it also has a function. Peer help is great, and we can observe whether the feedback has improved. Personal experience can help life grow, and supervision can help career growth.
Choosing a consultant or supervisor doesn't have to be a big coffee, just choose the right one. I want to find a supervisor. Once I saw a novice supervisor asking for 200 yuan, I would contact him immediately. Because I am also a novice consultant, I have enough experience to supervise myself, and I don't necessarily need an expensive senior supervisor.
It is difficult to take the road of psychological counselor, which is easier said than done. One class 100 students, and finally there are more than 20 students left. If you can persist, you are 10%. As long as you can persist, you will succeed.
As for the exposure in personal experience, the earlier the exposure, the faster the treatment and the faster the effect will be received. Otherwise, it's ok to take it slowly, that is, it takes a long time and costs a lot. If you have this concern, you can also tell your concern directly to the consultant, otherwise the effect will be different from expected.
2. Li Xiaoxing, born in 1980s, is an EFT short-distance school. His main feature is "warmth", which is supported by four theories: humanistic attitude, affective theory, dependency theory and system theory. I entered the platform in June last year and started full-time this year, mainly doing family counseling. I have 10 years of experience as a corporate executive, and my city is relatively isolated.
The learning platform has opportunities. First, the class teacher will gradually receive cases. The learning system has the opportunity to contact consultants and find suitable personal experiencers and supervisors.
Personal experience is very important. Many people don't know themselves. Personal experience can solve your own problems and help you grow.
Learn a genre thoroughly, and you will be fearless when consulting. I'm a little curious. I want to know why this consultant always emphasizes that he is born after 80.
3, Wang Kun, 13 years experience, textual research In 2007, I began to contact psychoanalysis from Zeng Qifeng's ground class, read a master's degree in psychology, became familiar with the sand table, and later learned about Jung's object relationship. Now it is a dynamic school, mainly doing medium and long-distance cases.
How to choose the right genre? You can learn about each genre first, and then choose according to your own preferences. In-depth study in one genre and then join other genres, the road must be step by step.
After graduating from the master's degree, I went to the hospital as a volunteer, came out of the hospital to open a studio with my friends, and began to charge. Friends are from different schools, but the mutual practice of peers has gained a lot, which has increased confidence for consultation.
Personal experience is also helpful to your case, and you can grow and improve your case as soon as possible.
After listening to the sharing of three consultants, it is conceivable that it is not easy all the way. Is to sow a seed and then grow teeth, which requires fertilizer, soil (family support, economic permission) and sunshine (sunny, hard work).
Supplementary explanation Sheng Wang quoted Zhao Wentao as saying, "There are only consultants who refuse, and there are no visitors who refuse." This sentence is very interesting, reminding us that visitors are the center, there are no wrong visitors, only mismatched consultants.