"Dear child" has different ideas from her mother-in-law. The two generations have completely different ideas. How should she get along?

Generally, the concept of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very different, and the age gap between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also quite large. So there must be some generation gap between the two. In Dear Children, this is the case between the hostess and her mother-in-law. There is a big generation gap between them, which eventually leads to many quarrels in the process of life. Two generations with different ideas should live separately. Now that many girls are married, even if they choose to buy a house by stages with their husbands, they will still choose to live separately from their mother-in-law and father-in-law, fearing some quarrels.

For example, when children are in junior high school, the generation gap between us and our children has already been reflected. Parents may not pay special attention to what their children say. Therefore, in the minds of parents, they will no longer choose to attach importance to their children's ideas, but will impose their own ideas on their children, and so will their mother-in-law. They will choose to educate their daughters-in-law as elders by means of moral kidnapping.

Out of sight, out of mind, don't choose to have some disputes with your mother-in-law. In the process of getting along with your mother-in-law, you'd better choose life, even if it is lively. What you said made us very angry. We also need to know that our time with our mother-in-law is not particularly long, so we just have to endure this time. Some young people may think, what is their tolerance? This is also to make our life better. If we always quarrel with our mother-in-law, it will be embarrassing for our husband to be caught in the middle. Therefore, Bian Xiao also believes that mutual patience is the most important thing.

Husband also plays a very important role. If the husband can help his wife solve some problems and play a regulatory role, it can also make family relations better. Mother-in-law's old ideas should not always be shown in front of her son. Both sides should respect each other's views and reduce quarrels.