Every time after the exam, parents are most concerned about the results. If the grades are good, the whole family will celebrate. If you don't get good grades, criticize education. Of course, some families have made greater efforts in education, such as being beaten and kneeling to reflect.
Different families have their own educational methods, which are also crucial to a child's growth. If you don't grasp it well, it may be counterproductive.
There was a video on the Internet recently. Seeing that the child was listless, the mother thought that the child did not do well in the exam, so she let him kneel in the room. When the child took out the first prize certificate, the mother shouted again: the ancestral grave is full of smoke. The contrast of mother's reaction before and after made countless netizens shout: it's so realistic.
It happened in Huainan, Anhui. When the child came home listlessly, the mother realized that the child must have failed the exam, so he was listless.
It may be that the discipline is strict at ordinary times, and the mother makes the child kneel in the house as a punishment for failing the exam. But the child suddenly took out the report card certificate and put it in front of his mother. Certificate of the first place in the exam.
It turns out that the child is acting to test his mother's attitude. Let mom think that he didn't do well in the exam. We were startled across the screen and thought the child was going to kneel.
When I saw the first prize certificate, my mother suddenly changed her face and shouted: There is smoke in the ancestral grave. It seems that the mother is not optimistic about her child's grades, and this time it is unexpected.
One second, I let my child kneel, and now I think my child is great, and I want to take my child to a big supermarket. Reward my son for his efforts.
It can be seen from this incident that mothers are too strict with their children's grades. After all, we need talents with comprehensive qualities. It is not enough to get good grades. We have experienced too many cases, only knowing about exams, and lacking in other aspects. Unable to adapt to the development of society.
If you receive such punishment education from an early age, your child may become the same person as his parents in the future. In front of children, parents should be consistent in words and deeds, with unhappy grades and angry grades.
Kneel if you don't get good grades. You can get good grades without kneeling or reflecting. If you win the first prize, you have to take it to the big supermarket to buy delicious food. This attitude is thought-provoking. Whether this kind of education is worth promoting is also debatable.
The first is preview and review. Preview is to reduce the difficulty and make it easier to attend classes. Review is to consolidate and deepen the understanding of knowledge.
The second is to make a study plan. If there is no planned study, it is difficult to form a habit and it is easy to give up halfway.
Thirdly, the combination of work and rest, test scores are important, but health is more important, so the combination of work and rest is the best way to learn.
Finally, parents' support should not always be based on beating and scolding education, but should accompany their children to grow up together, which is much more effective and the lowest cost than enrolling children in cram schools.
Good grades require many efforts, not children alone. Parents should not only take care of their children's food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also care about their children's study. With the company of parents, children have no worries and naturally study hard.
It's just that parents' attitudes change too fast. Children may find it interesting when they are young, but when they are old, they may be disgusted and even put a lot of pressure on them.
The most important thing is that the Excellence of children is not determined by awards, but the guidance and understanding of parents is very important!