As for home etiquette, etiquette is an important embodiment of literacy and a traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. When I was a child, I developed the habit of etiquette, and made the habit a quality natural citizen. So what are the home manners? Let's take a look at the household etiquette that I have compiled to form good habits together.
Home manners 1 First of all, honor parents and respect elders.
Parents gave us life and taught us the most basic life skills, and the kindness of hard-working upbringing is hard to repay in a lifetime. It is our duty to be a man and the virtue of the Chinese nation to honor our parents and respect our elders.
1. Guide children to respect their elders, address them with "you" or "you", and greet them when they go home or leave home.
2. Guide children to respect their elders, listen to their teachings, trust their elders, have a sense of security, and believe that what their elders say and do is good for themselves and will not hurt their children. Therefore, children should listen to their parents, don't talk back and don't criticize their elders.
3. Guide children to respect and understand their elders. When accompanied by elders, please ask elders to go first. When you go home, you should greet your elders' hard work, give them back rubs, move chairs, serve tea and water, and help parents do what they can, such as sweeping the floor, mopping the floor, choosing vegetables, setting tables and chairs, setting dishes and chopsticks, and throwing garbage. Play a game with the old man after dinner. Companionship is the longest confession. Loving home and caring for the elderly are our household etiquette.
It's hard for my parents to go out to work for a day, and it hurts. Besides not worrying our parents about our home life and study, we can also help them wash their feet, rub their shoulders and pour water. It is our family etiquette to thank our parents with actions.
Second, respect each other and reciprocate.
Family can be harmonious, happy and happy, and the harmony between brothers and sisters plays an important role. When you get along with your peers, you should respect each other, care for each other, understand each other, help each other, and be modest and polite.
When we study at home, we have more time to take care of our brothers and sisters. We are good at dressing, washing, cleaning and playing games! It is our family etiquette to set an example for our younger brothers and sisters.
Third, table manners.
Dining etiquette is the most basic but easily overlooked etiquette habit among many etiquette norms.
At the same time, dining etiquette is an important part of the consciousness of family rules, and it is the embodiment of developing good living habits and positive attitude towards life. Pay attention to the rules when eating, which reflects the family's upbringing, respect and love for life. Children can listen to their parents at the dinner table and form a good consensus with their parents, so they will certainly communicate well in other aspects of life, thus establishing a good parent-child relationship and family atmosphere.
How to cultivate children's table manners? Create a good dining environment and cultivate children's good dining habits.
1. Playing music means selectively playing some beautiful melodies when children eat, so that children can enjoy music while eating happily;
2. Encourage children when they are doing well in eating, and praise them in the form of friendly touching will encourage children to eat more actively;
Be tolerant of children's eating mistakes.
4. Step by step addition method. Facing too many and too full meals will increase children's psychological burden and make them resistant. Therefore, when feeding children, leave room. In this way, children can easily finish a bowl.
5. Emotional contagion act. Children's emotions are extremely unstable, and they are easily influenced by adults' emotional contagion. So we will use positive emotions to infect children and arouse their appetite. In the face of children who don't like to eat vegetables, we will mysteriously say, "You can hear them sing to you while eating vegetables!" "In the face of a child with a bad appetite, we will seriously say," You brave Altman, eat quickly and replenish your energy to defeat the monster. "
6. Model law. Imitation is a child's nature.
7. Practice by yourself. The method of personal practice is for parents and children to practice together, educate them in a targeted way, and change their bad eating habits. When eating, we found that some children don't like to eat green vegetables, especially spinach. In order to change this situation, we collect spinach seeds with our children and plant them in flower trays at home. We often lead our children to observe, water, loosen the soil and weed spinach. When spinach is ripe, we will "harvest" the harvested spinach together. Involve children in the selection, cleaning and cooking of spinach. When eating, children must eat with relish.
In daily life, parents can lead their children to experience the content of etiquette education in reality, and the baby will naturally apply the learned civilized behavior to daily life.
Sow the seeds of etiquette and accept the fruits of "fraternity". As parents, we should "bring gifts with courtesy, support children with behavior, and guide them with behavior", so that children can develop good behaviors from an early age and thrive in a positive and healthy family culture atmosphere.
Family Etiquette 2 Family Civilization Etiquette Standard
(A) life etiquette
1. Work and rest on time. Say "good night" to your parents before going to bed, take off your shoes and clothes in an orderly way and put them in order. If you get up to go to the toilet at night, try to keep quiet and avoid disturbing your family's rest. If adults need to go to bed early, don't pester them.
2. Get up in the morning, get dressed, fold the quilt and make the bed quickly and orderly. If parents or family members don't get up, be careful not to wake them. If parents or family members have got up, ask them "good morning" on their own initiative.
(2) Dining etiquette
Please ask your elders or guests to sit down before eating. Take the initiative to put dishes suitable for the taste of elders or guests in front of you. Try not to make any noise when eating, and talk without food in your mouth. Don't use chopsticks to pick and choose in the dish when cutting vegetables, and try not to get up; If you have chopsticks or spoons, try using them.
Try not to leave early after dinner. If you really need to leave early, greet your family with courtesy and gentleness from the guests present. After the whole family has finished eating, they should take the initiative to help their families clear the table and wash the dishes.
(3) Communication etiquette
Parents and elders should not be called by their first names, not to mention impolite words, but should be called accurately, such as father, grandmother, teacher, uncle and so on.
6. Polite expressions such as "please", "thank you", "sorry", "never mind" and "goodbye" are often used in family communication. Take the initiative to say goodbye to your parents when you go out and say hello to your parents when you go home.
7. If you can't go home on time, you should call home in time to explain the reason, and don't let your family worry.
8. Sincerely accept the education and guidance of elders. When you disagree with your family, you should communicate calmly, don't be angry and don't make noise.
9. Go to your room and gently knock on the door, and then go in after agreeing; Don't rummage through the things at home.
(4) Hospitality etiquette
10. When a guest comes to your home, you should ask the guest's identity first. If you can't open the door for safety reasons or parents' instructions, you should explain the reasons and apologize.
1 1. After the guest enters the door, don't neglect the guest, but take the initiative to greet the guest as the host and invite the guest to sit down; After the guests are seated, they should prepare tea or drinks and offer them with both hands.
12. If guests talk to their parents, they should take the initiative to avoid them; Read books, watch TV and play games at home. Keep your voice down so as not to disturb their conversation.
13. The guests are at home, but they really can't accompany them or leave temporarily. They should take the initiative to say hello to the guests and explain the reasons.
14. When the guests leave, they should wait for the guests to get up, then send them off with their families and take the initiative to say goodbye to the guests.
15. When guests leave, be polite and don't shut the door loudly at once.
16. When classmates and friends visit, they should warmly welcome them and introduce them to their families. Activities at home with classmates and friends should be as quiet as possible so as not to affect family members. When you eat at home, you should warmly invite you to eat together; If your classmates and friends have eaten before they come, don't leave them out. You should arrange your classmates or friends first, then have dinner with your family. When students leave, they should take the initiative to send them away. Welcome to come again next time.
17. Answer the phone with enthusiasm and speak at a moderate volume. When you hear the phone ring (usually no more than three times), you should pick up the receiver and say "hello" in Mandarin. After answering the phone, ask the other person modestly, "Do you have any other requirements?" ; At the end of the call, you should say "goodbye" and then hang up the phone gently. Don't hang up with a click. In general, the receiver should let the other party hang up first.