Is corporal punishment the best way to educate children?

Many parents themselves advocate filial sons under sticks and think that corporal punishment is the simplest and most effective way of education. When children make mistakes and don't stop verbal discipline, they can use corporal punishment to deepen their impression and let them know what to do and what not to do.

Parents support corporal punishment

These parents also support teachers to take appropriate corporal punishment when their children are disobedient. Although it will make parents feel distressed, it has the most remarkable educational effect on children, and it can also make teachers stand in front of students and discipline children more easily.

The educational model of the older generation

However, in recent years, more and more parents have new views on corporal punishment, and more young parents do not support corporal punishment of students: they say that their childhood was spent under the heavy corporal punishment of parents and teachers at all stages, and many parents and teachers could not understand students' ideas, but just punished their children blindly to make them obey, which stifled many creative ideas of children and was very unfavorable to their growth.

The teacher punished the students.

In the process of children's growth and education, many parents have no consensus on whether to punish their children, and teachers who have spent a long time with their children at school don't know what to do. If there is no corporal punishment, there will inevitably be many stubborn students, and it is difficult to discipline them only through language. But if you choose corporal punishment, some parents will go to school to find trouble, and you will be in a dilemma.

The growth of children

Individuals agree to corporal punishment of children. Because no matter at home or at school, many children are extremely stubborn and can't be disciplined by words alone. This is an objective problem. And if you don't teach your children and let them grow up, there will be bigger problems in the future, and you will regret it.

Improper corporal punishment

However, we should also pay attention to the purpose of corporal punishment. Whether parents or teachers, corporal punishment is for children to receive education and grow up, not to vent their anger. We should also pay attention to the scale to avoid the recent bad behavior of teachers in Suzhou middle school who let students crawl on the playground, which can neither educate children nor affect their reputation and self-esteem.