Sister Lizi commented that poor self-control is a common problem of most children. Many children need teachers to supervise their classes and parents to check their homework. Although they want to study hard, they have poor self-control and are too "servile". As long as there is no supervision and control, there is no way to devote yourself to learning. This is what is often said, you need to catch up with the children at school with a whip. You can't change the status quo by yourself. Only when your parents supervise you every day can you have some effect.
I have encountered some things recently, and I am very depressed and dare not face life. I want to talk to you. I just broke up with her. I am 2 1 and she is 23. I was with her for two months. Her ex-boyfriend got back together with her. She said she couldn't let go of her ex-boyfriend. I don't want two feet on both sides. She confessed her secret to me more than ten days after she confirmed her relationship with me. She 18 years old gave birth to a baby with her boyfriend. At that time, when she was with me, all the friends around her told her to avoid me. She told me on her own initiative. I really love her. I tried to adjust my mentality and let myself accept this fact. Love her as always. Tell her what I think. I don't care about her. I think I can prove it with my actions. She wavered when her ex-boyfriend came to see her. I feel very uncomfortable and can't help thinking about her. Trying to make up with her. Trying to escape from life. I thought about it for a long time and felt that I loved her very much. I tried very hard to accept the fact that she had a child. I accepted it. But this is not worth a word from my ex-boyfriend. The baby was not born with an ex-boyfriend. She was very determined when she broke up with her ex-boyfriend. Because her father died when she was eight years old, she lacked the feeling of fatherly love from an early age. Her ex-boyfriend is four or five years older than him, and she says she prefers that feeling. I talked to her face to face and told her what I thought. I told her my attitude and thoughts about her having a baby. She just sympathized with me. She can't let go of her ex-boyfriend. I feel terrible. I tried to understand and accept the fact that she gave birth to a child, and my actions proved that I could accept this fact. But in the end, I still can't stand a word from my ex-boyfriend.
Sister Lizi commented that you can accept the fact that your girlfriend had a baby, and your ex-boyfriend can also accept the fact that she had a baby. Since everyone can accept it, you and her predecessor are on the same level in the matter of children, regardless of height. But your girlfriend is more emotionally inclined to her predecessor, and you are at a disadvantage in this respect. So the most important problem is that she doesn't like you, she likes her ex-boyfriend, and you prove nothing with your actions. Accept the fact!
The former consultant was a university teacher (doctor), but now he is a programmer (specialist). I just established a relationship with my current one, but my ex came to get back together with me. Which one should I choose to marry? Now I am very confused, and I have come to the crossroads of my life, and I don't know where to go.
Let me talk about my situation first. I am a female, graduated from undergraduate course, and my figure is above average. I am about 30 years old (a little anxious to get married), and my height is 162. I work in a first-tier city in the south, earning a little more than 1 10,000, but I am busy and often work overtime late.
My ex-boyfriend is a university teacher, a few years older than me, graduated from 985 college, doctor, a northerner, a teacher at school, majoring in science and engineering, with an annual income of 300,000, height 182, knowledgeable, versatile, fond of reading, gentle, kind and a little careless, and very kind to me. From 18 to 1 in 2020, we have been together for two years, experienced a lot together and traveled to many places for a long time. I still remember playing in Xinjiang and driving on a long road, just like the sunset shining on our side faces, just like the car started to play and made you feel my love. We all liked it very much, and that scene was engraved in each other's minds. I have been looking forward to him, and I can see that he loves me very much. When we are together, we can't finish talking, but sometimes he ignores my emotional needs or is a little straight. Many small details are not done so well, because it will cause some small contradictions from time to time. In June of this year, 65438+ 10, we quarreled again because of some things, which made him very angry and said, "It's time to break up." After listening, I heard it. He added me once during the Spring Festival, but I failed. Because of the epidemic, he never went back to his hometown. Then in March, I added him and he passed. We talked carefully, one by one, without involving anything before. I said I might start a new relationship. He just can't tell me if I want to find someone else and go on a trip with me or something.
In April, I met my current boyfriend. He is the same age as me, and his height is 172. Graduated from Chuzhou University, programmer in GIS industry. Although his education is not high, he is a down-to-earth person. He belongs to a traditional family, earning about 200,000 yuan, but he is considerate to me and can meet my emotional needs. He is the type suitable for living in the eyes of the secular. He chatted for more than ten days, and then at the end of April this year.
My ex-boyfriend said he never really wanted to be apart from me. He hasn't contacted me for so long, but he dare not face me. Now every day these days, he sends many photos of us together and many good memories of us together, saying that he wants to marry me and told me not to really leave him. Those beautiful memories are vivid, and I have deep feelings for him, but I did suffer a lot of injuries before, including that he didn't contact me in time after breaking up, which made me spend the most difficult month alone. . .
What bothers me now is that I just established a relationship with my new boyfriend and met some family and friends, and I plan to get married. But my ex-boyfriend is very persistent and wants to get back together with me and marry me immediately. I can't bear to watch my ex-boyfriend get hurt every day, and I can't bear to be separated from him. If I hadn't established a relationship with my current boyfriend, I would not hesitate to go back. But I have a current boyfriend. Although we have been together for two weeks, my current boyfriend is also very considerate to me, which makes me very entangled and confused. Where are you going? One has just started for two weeks, the other has been together for two years, and has experienced countless memories. I am in great pain now.
Sister Lizi commented that she only knew each other for ten days, and then she decided to fall in love. After only two weeks together, she met her family and was ready to get married. You really hate being married completely and simply! While falling in love with the current honey, I broke up with my predecessor. Fish are well raised and spare tires are well prepared. You should flip a coin to decide who you should marry. Because we will regret marrying anyone, we don't carry this pot. Let god bear it!
Ask him that he loves me very much, wants to marry me and give me the best of himself, but he doesn't have much sexual desire for me. What does this mean?
Tonight, he was drunk. He called me to confess that he changed rooms with different women every day before talking to me. He was single for three years until he met me, saying that he felt comfortable with me and that I was smart and the woman he wanted. After we got married, life got better every day. Seven months together, little sex. I asked him before, and he said he didn't want to, and I didn't push him. Because whether a person likes you or not, you can feel it. I'm sure he likes me and is generous to me. He took my business as his own, but today he said he was sorry for me. He loves me, but he has no desire for me. In fact, he has a strong sexual desire, but he was too indulgent to be with me before. He is sorry for me, but what can I do? My body is the most honest. He has no desire for me. I've been clamoring to see his mobile phone before, but he won't show it to me. Today I finally know why. I like him very much and I don't know what to do now.
Sister Lizi commented that what he meant was that you are fit to be a wife, and husband and wife should be free birth tools and free nannies at home. But you are not fit to be a lover, a lovemaker, or ask him for sexual pleasure and loyalty. That is to say, during the time when he was with you, he had been dating outside. After he marries you, you will be responsible for home decoration, and he will continue to wave outside. If you accept it, get married. If you can't accept it, suit yourself. Do you know what to do now?
Why do so many people think that allowing boys to travel is just agreeing to have sex? I've known each other for half a month (I haven't determined the relationship between men and women), and I also went back and forth together on the same day. I feel that the other party is quite reliable, and it was introduced by a colleague. This time, he proposed to travel abroad together. I think it is the right time to get to know each other better. On the first night, in order to avoid embarrassment, I took the initiative to book two rooms. The other party seems a little unhappy, but the performance is not obvious. The next day, everyone had a good time. In the evening, I said I should make a reservation. He said not to book first, but he booked a standard room while I was not looking. I didn't know until I got to the front desk, so I wasn't very happy (but I didn't open it). But he took off his pants and shorts in front of me and went in to wash them. When he came out, he said that he would share a bed with me and that the wind would blow on his bed. I said no, so I switched with him. Soon he said that the wind couldn't come in and came directly to my bed, saying that he couldn't sleep. At this time, I was impatient. I told him you didn't want to sleep. I said, come on, sleep honestly, don't be hurt by Lao tze! So I avoided him, went to another bed and pretended to be asleep. After a while, he thought I was asleep and reached out and touched my waist. I held back. Later, he touched my chest again. I jumped out of bed, changed my clothes, packed my things and left, directly hacking him.
Of course, now that I think about it, it was naive to promise to travel. After all, if the other party is violent that night, I can't cope with it. I should object to a room in time and avoid being in the same room.
Sister Lizi commented, why does agreeing to travel with boys mean agreeing to have sex? What a childish question! It's like someone asking why agreeing to get married means agreeing to have children, and why you say you can't ask when another day is. This is a given. You don't understand. You're naive. You can't blame the boy. He doesn't know you are so stupid and sweet, but he thinks you are half-hearted. You, remember not to go out for a long trip with a man you've only known for half a month next time.