However, feelings are erratic, and every relationship may change. As time goes by, the affection between lovers will gradually fade away, or one day the other party meets a more suitable person, then this marriage may break up.
This is what I don't want to see, but it is possible. Too many uncontrollable factors will affect our feelings. Then the marriage deteriorated, so barely supporting this relationship only involves the other party in name. It is better to divorce and find happiness.
A woman who has experienced a failed marriage will no longer be so simple. What she wants is from the fullness before to the reality now. Unless she can meet someone who really gives her a sense of security, she will not touch a new relationship easily.
So, what is the most important thing for women who get married for the second time?
First, whether the other party will accept their children.
Many divorced women will take their children with them, because the children are their spiritual sustenance, and they are pregnant in October, so even if they remarry, the first and most important requirement for women is whether the man accepts their children.
Women who have lost their love and family will mostly focus on their children and cannot live without them. Although sometimes titanium tubes can make children breathless, we have to say that this is maternal love.
Women with children want their children to follow them, and there is no shortage of maternal love since childhood. For her, children are the most important.
If a man can't accept her children, then the woman will definitely not agree to be with him even if she doesn't touch new feelings.
Second, whether it can provide guarantee in terms of materials.
The second married woman is definitely no longer the ignorant girl who knows nothing about love. The failure of a relationship makes them more mature and stable overnight, knowing what they need and what they are suitable for.
If a relationship needs more than the mutual support of two people, then the material foundation is absolutely necessary to maintain the relationship.
Marriage needs material support. If the basic material needs of life cannot be met, it is unrealistic for both men and women to continue to rely on spiritual support.
Therefore, women who get married for the second time often have more direct and clear material needs than women who fall in love for the first time.
Can't say they are too materialistic. We can only say that all verbal expressions are vulnerable to life. It is life that has changed their original appearance.
Third, can the man give himself a sense of security?
Second-married women are hurt emotionally, both eager for love and worried about being hurt again. Therefore, their test of new partners is also particularly strict. What they need is a truly reliable and secure man, not a man full of rhetoric.
If the first two points are for children and families, then finding a man with security is based on his own wishes. They understand how hard it takes to maintain a relationship in real life, so at this time they need an inclusive and understanding man to give her a warm feeling.
This kind of man is also more likely to be favored by second-married women.
The above three kinds of men and women who marry twice can still be considered if they meet the requirements. But please remember, remarriage needs to be cautious, you can't fall down in the same place twice, you must find someone who really suits you and loves you.
You can't look down on yourself and degrade yourself because of your second marriage. I want to prove to the world that "it's not that I'm not good enough, it's that your eyes are not high enough."