Unexpectedly, my friend asked me for money that day. He said that he wanted to buy a house, and he wanted 65,438+10,000 yuan. Although I have some savings in recent years, I just bought a house and spent most of my savings. I helped him make up 50 thousand at most. I didn't expect him to tell me in turn: "Our friendship is so strong, so it's embarrassing for you to give me 50 thousand." I have no friends like you. " So we broke up.
When we broke up, I was very sad. After all, I have known each other for so many years, but after I calmed down, I was relieved. Some people are destined to be just passers-by His appearance only taught us some truth. Obviously, this is my friend. It is ok for relatives and friends to help each other, but they should keep a certain degree. We should not neglect ourselves in order to help our friends or relatives.
Reader Liu Jie recently had a big fight with her husband about borrowing money. It's because Jie Gu went home to borrow money, and his mouth was 65,438+10,000 yuan. Although Liu Jie still has some savings in his family, the money was left by the husband and wife in order to let his son go to a good junior high school, so he can't move easily.
However, when Gu Jie came to borrow money, Liu Jie thought she couldn't refute it face to face. On balance, Liu Jie decided to lend Jie Gu 50,000 yuan, because Jie Gu didn't meet any urgent matters. She just wants a down payment on the house. Liu Jie always helps the poor by borrowing money for friends or relatives. If Gu Jie really meets something urgent, she will certainly lend the money without hesitation. Obviously, buying a house is not because of her husband's face.
My aunt left angrily with 50 thousand yuan. In the evening, when her husband came home from work, Sister Liu told her husband about borrowing money. I thought her husband would approve of her. I didn't expect her husband to get impatient soon. He said angrily, "why are you so ignorant?" My sister came to borrow 654.38+ million, and you gave 50,000. How can I face her? " Moreover, my sister poked at school early for me, and I felt sorry for her and always wanted to have a chance to repay her. Now she finally came to borrow money from me, and you borrowed 50 thousand, which disappointed me. "
Her husband's words also made Liu Jie a little angry. She hates her husband the most and always scolds her for what happened at the beginning. Although my aunt was very kind to him, she was born at that time and there was nothing she could do. Now that her husband has a good life, she can help them, but she can't completely ignore her small family or repay her children's future. The two men had their own opinions and had a big fight. In a rage, Sister Liu went back to her family.
Judging from the quarrel between Liu Jie and her husband, to be fair, my sister was not bad to my brother, but now my brother is promising and needs help. As a younger brother, I naturally have to help without hesitation. Then again, from Liu Jie's point of view, children are waiting for further study and need money urgently, which is related to their future, while Jie Gu has his own house to live in and just wants to buy a house to appreciate. Which is more important?
In the end, I personally support Liu Jie's approach. Liu Jie did not flatly refuse to borrow money from her aunt, but chose to read a part in good faith. However, Liu Jie's husband's behavior of completely ignoring his family is extreme, and it is natural for relatives to help. But we must take care of the family first, and the principle of borrowing money should be adhered to. what do you think?